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My name`s Amy, you probably know me as naimee. I`m sixteen years young, I`m a junior, & I live in San Antonio, Texas. =]
I hate thirteen year olds who think they`re in love & ready to have sex. I hate people who steal my advice and think they`re cool, you`re not.
I know a lot about myspace/xanga. [HTML] I know tons about weight loss and computer stuff.
If you ask for my advice, I`ll try my best to help you, and if I can`t give you the best advice ever, I`ll give you someone awesome to askkk!
I`m never on AIM, but when I am, my SN is: naInErZzZ.
Thanks yall!
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For those of you who have any form of lip piercing (labrets, lowbrets, monroes etc), do you find that your piercing irritates your gums? Do you forgot it's there or can you always feel it? Also, how much do you find it gets in the way of things such as eating and kissing? (link)
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I used to have snakebites and they would ALWAYS irritate my gums, I found using wax, (which is what people with braces use) always worked and stopped the irritation. You can buy it anywhere that sells toothpaste, (it'll be in that area). I had gotten my snakebites whenever I had braces which was the worst idea ever and when I got my braces off I always felt it, for about 2 months afterwards. Then my mouth just got used to the piercings and it didn't irritate my gums anymore.
For the first week of having my lip pierced it was hard to eat of course, you pretty much have to eat soups and stuff that doesn't cause you to open your mouth widely. And, once you get used to the piercing, which can vary from person to person, you'll be fine to be kissing whomever you want. : )
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why did tyra banks not become a model anymore (link)
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In May 2005 Tyra retired from modeling so she could concentrate more on her show (Americas next top model).
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Ok so I am planning on having sex with my friend and I'm a virgin. I am not on birth control (and there is no way I can get it so don't tell me I should). I need some good tips on how to not get pregnant. We will be using a condom of course but is that enough? Should he where 2 in case one pops? Anthing is good. I can't wind up pregnant or my parents will kill me (don't tell me not to do it either because I already made up my mind). Also, if you still haven't figured it out yet, I am a complete virgin. He isn't and I want this to be great for him (don't tell me to get ourselves checked either). How do I make it last and feel good (and by that I mean both of us having an orgasm) because I have heard that the first time usually hurts.
THANKS SO MUCH TO EVERYONE THAT CAN HELP. AND PLEASE HURRY BECAUSE THIS COULD HAPPEN AT ANY TIME. (link)
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hi(:
using two condoms is most definitely NOT a good idea because that can cause both of the condoms to break. so just use one. it's said that if a girl is on top she's more then likely not going to get pregnant. to be safe before he cums you could ask him to pull out, even if he has a condom on, just in case it does break or something like that.
also, i'm not sure if you have a regular period cycle but if you do, you should have sex either when you're on your period, or about ten days after that. i'm not sure if you know about this, but you're more likely to get pregnant 14 days after your first day of your period and 14 days before your next period. so just make sure you're not having sex on your more fertile days. if you get confused by this, just let me know and i'll fix my answer.
the first time can vary immensely it just depends on what girl you're asking. my first time i wasn't even worrying about it hurting, i was worrying about him and wondering if he felt okay and stuff. when you're actually there in the moment, you don't really worry about it hurting. and when he sticks it in, either you or him have to rub your clit so that you can orgasm. i'm not sure what you can change on his side, because i'm sure it'll feel good no matter what.
good luck!
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i know this is kinda a sick question but i was wondering if there is a way to make it taste better in the vaginal area?? and i was also wonderin if it is okay for a guy to eat you out if you have a yeast infection? (link)
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hi(:
there's certain foods that you can eat that can alter the way you vagina smells/tastes. foods that you should avoid: garlic, asparagus, and pineapple.
the things that affect the way you smell/taste is how much you sweat, what you eat, and whether or not you have any bacterial or yeast infections.
make sure whenever you shower or bathe that you don't use any sort of soap or anything, if you want to clean yourself just use water, because soap can cause bacterial infections.
i would not recommend having a guy eat you out while you have a yeast infection, because although he probably won't react from it, it probably won't taste good for him, and it might make him grossed out.
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Im planning to have a sleepover with my friend and our 2 guys friends at my house. My mom is usually okay having people over and they can leave at 3 in the morning. But i want to ask her if they can sleepover, what the best way?
& im 14 in grade 9, those guys are just our friends from long ago in elemantry schools, & we just want to have fun watch movies etc.
so what is the best way for her to say yes for them to sleepover. And if she says no, i still want them to come, so what should i do? lol
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hi(:
well, i had my first boy sleep over at my house when i was thirteen, so i totally understand that it can be really scary when you ask her for the first time. i'm sure your mom will let them stay if she knows that they've been long time friends. it would be completely different if she's never heard of these boys before.
when you ask her, just be like, "hey mom, (your girlfriend) is going to stay over and we really wanted (boy) and (boy) from (elementary school) to stay over too, just so we can watch movies and stuff." just leave it at that, don't add anymore, because when you start naming a bunch of reasons, she might get suspicious. just leave it to the point.
if she says no, then just be like, "when do you think they'll be able to stay over?" and then just have them come over to watch movies until they have to leave.
good luck.
let me know how it goes!
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hi! thanks for all your help.
more about minors.. like since they require less courses and credits, whats the point of them? are they like backup in case you hate your major and you already have some minor stuff in another area so you can switch? whats between that and double majors? (link)
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The point of having a minor is in case you can't find a job with your major, you'll at least have something to fall back on. Say if I majored in Education but minored in Business, if I couldn't find a good job as a teacher, I could still find a good paying job in the business industry.
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i have moved a lot. i want to send my old friends something so i can keep in touch with them. what do you think i should do? would cards be fine? (i dont have much money to spend, but lots of friends). any ideas? (link)
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I think that you should send letters. I've only moved once and leaving my friends was the worst thing that's ever happened to me. I always kept in touch with them through letters though. I'm not sure how many friends you have, because writing a crap load of letters would suck but all letters could vary in size. Plus, your friends will be really happy that you're at least trying to keep in touch with them!
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what is a minor in college? how is it diff from a major? (link)
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The primary difference is the amount of credits/courses you take for both. Major is far more important then your minor. A major is the subject you are mainly focused on and a minor is the secondary choice for your future that requires fewer courses/credits then a major.
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ok..well this guy he likes me and i like him but like last night wehn we were talking he said that he weares eyeliner and i never knew thats o i was like ewwwww.ur a ugy u dont wear make up and like all freaking out..and thne he told mem he was bi...and he said he dont like girl that wear to much make up...and i wear make up not alot but i lok good in it so he baiscalyl said to his bi /wears eyelnier....and that i cant wear make up....after i got freaked out...he aske dme out an di said no...so then i hung up and he calle dm eback and said that he was jokin..about it but hes ounded realy convinsin liek realy convinsing and he made such a big fite over it ...which makes me think he wasnt kidding tand that his lying..and o he told me he was emo be fore..but what ever he isnt anymore..soo is he kying or not..?? (link)
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I don't know for sure if he's lying or not, obviously, because I don't know who he is.
But, from what you told me, he told you he was bisexual, and whenever he heard your reaction he tried to cover it up because he didn't think you'd take it negatively. Just because he's a guy doesn't mean he's not supposed to wear make-up. There's a lot of guys that wear make-up and look really hot in it. If he's emo, that's cool too, it's whatever. If you don't like him because he used to be "emo" or because he wears eyeliner on a regular basis, you probably shouldn't be talking to him(:
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okay, i dont really know where to start.
way to much happend to really write it all down.
in summary- about two weeks ago my bestfriend really screwed me over, she treated me like shit for the whole week, i cryed and cryed- and i never really cry about anything, and all she could say was, "good let her cry." it was really hard for me, mostly because i kinda sensed something would eventually go wrong, and i should just for myself not be so connected with her, because when something bad does happen, ill be screwed. and i was, i never felt so hurt in my life. it was really bad. and no one had ANY good advice to give me, but to let go. i know thats what i should of done. but, i didnt. she NEVER apologized, she just one day at school acted like everything was okay, so i went along with it.
the only really bad part about her- is that she hates talking about our problems. she hates talking about negative things, unless its her personal problems. so whenever i have a problem with her, and i go to discuss it with her, she just gets mad. so i usually just ignore it, which isnt easy either.
I feel like im sacrificing to much for her, but i really cant let go, shes been my friend for so long now, and shes the only person who i feel i can be crazy and comfortable around.
I have alot of friends at school, the majority of everyone knows who me and my bestfriend are, and everyone knows were bestfriend. but for some reason, alot of people act like shes their bestfriend. i dont really mind, because every time that person isnt looking, she looks at me like she hates them. :)
but she really doesnt treat me well.
and i REALLY want to just drop her.
but for the sake of myself, theres only the rest of this year of school, then one more year of school for me. so im just gonna put up with it.
is that a stupid decision?
please give me ALOT of advice.
because i dont know what to do.
i mean i know what i should do, but i cant do that.
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Hi(:
She's your best friend and she's supposed to be able to confide in you about everything and vice versa. Whenever you have a problem with her she should bite her tongue and listen to what you have to say. Otherwise you two are in a one-sided relationship with your best friend and that's totally unfair on you.
I actually just lost my best friend about a month ago over my boyfriend and I miss her very much. But, she was always mean to me, and everytime I did something wrong it was a big fucking deal, and when she did something wrong I ignored it for the sake of our friendship to make HER feel better.
Sometimes you have to care more about yourself then others, because you'll just end up hurting yourself at the end of the day and that's the last thing you want to do.
Honestly, if I were in your position I would've handled things the same exact way. But, in the future things won't change and if they do that's great, but it probably won't. I think you need to sit her down and actually tell her how you feel and if she won't listen then write her a letter or like an e-mail then she'll be forced to listen without interrupting you. You're trying so hard to save yall's relationship and she is just making everything worse.
I hope things get better for you(:
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how do you pronounce moschino? (link)
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Moskino
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because the "ch" in Moschino
sounds like a "k" when speaking Italian.
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Hi, i'm 14/ f
anyways.
I had a boyfriend in the summer and we'll call him T. I broke up with him because i never saw him, and it didn't feel rightt. Now, we go to different schools, but i still talk to him on myspace.
like we still flirt with each other sort of. He does have a girlfriend, but I think he still likes me? T is such a nice guy, but I'm not sure. Plus, i think i push away guys. Like, the really nice ones and then i feel like such an idiot!!.
'sigh'- help? what should i do? leave it alone or what? (link)
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That's too bad that you two broke up, but you did break up with him because of not being able to see him. Which is totally understandable, I would never be able to date someone who I barely saw.
The fact that he has a girlfriend and is talking to you is a little strange. Especially because he'll just end up hurting you or his current girlfriend at the end of the day. I suggest you talk to this guy on Myspace still, but I don't think right now you should try and have a close relationship with him because he has a girlfriend.
Plus it'll be harder for you because if he breaks up with his girlfriend he's with now, won't you be worried that he's talking to another girl behind your back, like he is with his current girlfriend?
(: I hope everything goes good for you!
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What do you give a guy for your one year anniversary? He would be 17 by then and he's not a cologne or watch guy. What would be appropriate? He's been hinting off that he's going to give me a promise ring. So i have no idea what would .. measure up or be meaningful as that. I don't think a CD or band t-shirt is appropriate. I'm at a loss.. (link)
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For my one year my boyfriend bought me a promise ring. I knew he would get me one, so I got him one too. I ordered it off the internet purposely so I could get; I love you, Alexander engraved on the inside, so it wouldn't just be some plain old ring. I also made him a "100 reasons why I love you." book and included a bunch of pictures. He fell in love with what I got him because he was grateful that I made him something. Definitely make him something because he'll tend to like that a lot more then something you buy. :D
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So you know how everyone says sex usually sucks for the girl since it hurts her but feels good for the boy? How do you know when to stop? Does the girl orgasm or just the boy? Do you stop when the boy orgasms? (link)
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Hiii. It doesn't necessarily hurt for the girl, but since her first time, the guy usually pops the cherry that's why there's pain, but it'll go away after that. Usually you stop when the guy cums, because he'll go soft and not be able to penetrate anymore. Both the girl and the guy can orgasm, it just depends. Yes, you usually stop when the boy orgasms.
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There is this sboy who loves me and he hates my bffs and they hate him but i kinda like him but when i hang out with him my bffs will get mad at me!!!! And when i just dont talk to him all my friendsd not bffs they get mad at me cause there friends with him idk help help (link)
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It looks like your stuck in a difficult situation. You need to tell your best friends first, that if they really don't like him, then that's fine, but just to leave the whole situation alone & not to get mad whenever you hang out with him. Your boyfriend needs to understand though, that you have friends, and you don't want to lose them, so he's going to not have to hate them. The reason your best friends probably hate your boyfriend is because they know that he hates them.
Try and get your boyfriend and friends to hang out, go to the movies or something. Tell them to atleast do it for you. Tell them how upset it's making you. & how you just want everyone to get along.
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Alright, my bf doesn't want me to come with to pick up his best friend at the airport because he says it's his friend and I don't even know him. But what's the big deal? He makes a big deal about it and I just want to come with my bf.
What do you guys think about it? (link)
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Of course it's hard for you to understand. But, try and put yourself in his shoes. Your friend is coming the whole way from a different state to visit you, and if you're there that's awesome, but if you have your boyfriend there with you, it'll take all the attention off of your friend & they'll feel left out, or like a third wheel.
I think that him not letting you go to the air port is seriously like the best decision he could make. You'll be able to meet his friend, it's probably just because he hasn't seen him in a while & he wants some time alone. Like, guy bonding time.
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whats a good type of birth control? (link)
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condoms are of course the most popular. but the pill has the same effectiveness as a condom. you should use both if you are sexually active though.
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are there any risks, or disadvantages to shaving your pubic hair {if ur a female}? (link)
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if you shave you're more able to get infections just because hair is on your skin for a reason & that's to stop certain bacteria entering places it shouldn't be. also, if you shave you can get razor burn & it can get really bumpy & it'll just irritate the shit out of you.
advantages are a lot of people do it & guys tend to enjoy it being fully shaved & also, it'll reduce like fishy scents from down below. :]
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okay so my name is kristin and i have not made out or kissed anyone yet and i am planing to go to the movies with this guy and he wants to make out and i want to too. i told him that i have made out b4 too. how do you make out? and also is it okay to make out with my retainer in because if i take it out i have a missing tooth HELP!!! (link)
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no.
making out with a retainer in, is gross. so make sure you definitely DO NOT wear it. if you're missing a tooth it's no biggie. you can't hide things from someone that you like. & you shouldn't have lied to him about making out. because he's probably never made out with anyone either & he's going to expect you to know exactly what to do. making out is easy. and when you start making out you'll know what i mean. just tilt your head the opposite way of the other person. it's a lot easier if you're comfortable with that other person. & you don't seem confident.
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Why do hairdressers NEVER listen?
Every time I tell them not to cut my bangs or something. they go ahead and do it.
i thought it was their job to LISTEN.
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hair dressers are really creative.
so, whenever you go to the hair dresser & ask for a specific cut they just tend to go over the top. when i go to my hair dresser i tell her that i'm a blank canvas & she can do whatever she wants. & she gets SO excited.
they just want what THEY think is best.
they don't do it intentionally because they know it's not exactly what you wanted.
go to a different hair dresser next time. :]
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