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first time
So you know how everyone says sex usually sucks for the girl since it hurts her but feels good for the boy? How do you know when to stop? Does the girl orgasm or just the boy? Do you stop when the boy orgasms?
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For me and my fiance, sex is done when he's made me orgasm and when he has. I didnt have an orgasm till 6 months after i lost my virginity, which was 4 and a half years ago!
My boyfriend usually makes sure i have an orgasm first because once he's done it just doesnt work anymore.
If you're having sex with a guy and you want to stop you should tell him and he should stop. Otherwise its considered rape.
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I disagree with one of the answers i read. The girl isnt guarenteed to orgasm if the guy doesnt last long enough or if there isnt enough foreplay. some women need foreplay to orgasm. The first time doesnt necessarily suck for the girl. Yes, it is usually painful, and for some girls it probably isnt enjoyable at all..but to get on a personal level mine was nice even though there was some pain. And when the boy orgasms, or ejaculates, you stop because after that, the penis loses its erection. Some guys will be able to get it back up pretty soon and continue, and others dont do second rounds. It all depends on the guy.
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if its the fisrt time it will probley hurt depending on how big the guy is and how tight the girl is. you will both have orgasms but probley the girl more. There isnt really a time you stop its basically when you hit the climax..
which is the highest peak...
but ya when you hit it you'll know.
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Hiii. It doesn't necessarily hurt for the girl, but since her first time, the guy usually pops the cherry that's why there's pain, but it'll go away after that. Usually you stop when the guy cums, because he'll go soft and not be able to penetrate anymore. Both the girl and the guy can orgasm, it just depends. Yes, you usually stop when the boy orgasms.
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Usually the first time, the girl isn't ready so it hurts or either because she can't orgasm because it feels different/new. It didn't hurt me but I didn't orgasm until like the second or third time. You usually stop when the boy orgasms. Especially when you are wearing a condom so he doesn't lose his erection completely. Both are capable of having an orgasm but most likely a boy will. If it's his first time, then it's going to stop around 10 minutes. More or less, you know?
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It just depends; you normally just have to have sex to find out. For some girls, it's really painful, and for others, it's not nearly as bad.
The girl could orgasm, but while in pain, most likely not.
It's pretty possible the guy would orgasm; usually after a guy orgasms (or busts), they need a break.
Jess
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