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Boyfriend is angry at his mother, and I dont know what to do
He's going to be moving out of his house before fall, into an apartment-- and his mother just needs to let go which is making my boyfriend so angry.
They ended up fighting over the phone.
They hung up, and my boyfriend was furious. In the past, he's wanted me there when hes angry at his mother, just to hold me and make him feel a little better.
tonight though, he didnt show any response to me after the phone call. i was going to follow him out, but he said he'd be right back to grab some things. i waited a few minutes, and finally went downstairs and he was just driving off.
is this a sign of just his stress alone for tonight, or is it a sign of a conflict in our relationship?
I dont know what to do. I'm really upset.
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sometimes people do want to be alone and sort things out, it doesn't mean he don't love you anymore.
You could try talking to her mother, and tell her the same thing, A child's love for his mother will never end, he will always be his son no matter where he is, try to explain to her if he wants to be independant and live on his own let him try and see if it works out..if it doesnt he will hopefully come back, the more she try's to stop him the more he'll want to go, tell her to use abit of reverse psychology. but tell her to remember he'll always be your son, no one or no place can change that fact.
i hope this works, it will do if she want her son to be happy right?
if you are concerned about your relationship then just try talking to your boyfriend, try not to ask too much questions, but try to find out what is actually wrong, if it's the arguement with his mother, or something more. At this time try to be his friend first and then the girlfriend. Try to comfort him and see if you can cheer him up, and maybe get him to patch things up with his mum too.
but good luck, hope i've helped.
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well since you didnt mention anything of you and your boyfriend having any trouble in the past so i dont really think there's trouble coming in your relationship. this was probably just a sign of stress. he probably didn't let you confort him because he just wanted to be by himself for a while. the best thing for you to do is call him in the morning and check up on him. tell him everythings going to be fine and offer to fix him his favorite meal. rent his favorite movies and watch them with him. you can also tell him he can cry if he wants to or let out a big scream or take a drive around town
hope it helps
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