me and my boyfriend are going to have sex for the first time. what are some passionate, and also kinky stuff we can do??
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? HermionesHelpPage answered Monday July 30 2007, 6:55 am: If its your first time having sex then i wouldn't go too far with the kinky stuff unless you both want to, you dont want to scare him off. Getting passionate is easy if you both really like each other, but listening to music you both like can get you in the mood, even dancing together, or you dancing for him. As far as the kinky stuf goes, you can use blindfolds. This is kind off kinky without been too much, and it can be really romantic. If you blindfold him you have access to touch him and he has to let you take control. This will really turn him on beacuse he cant touch you, which will make him want to even more. (it drives me crazy whn my boyfriend does this to me). This way you can tease him a bit, my boyfriend loves to be teased. so like i said, this is kinky without being weird kinky.
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x0advice4y3w answered Monday July 30 2007, 12:54 am: Well hopefully your first time isn't as weird as mine was. I was in my dads room with my best-friend at the time in my room fooling around with some guy. -Anyways, some cute things to do is like a romantic song, and a hot make-out which could lead into it. That's more passionate then kinky. I wouldn't do kinky until after your first or second time, because I'm going to be truthful the first time hurts, and your not going to want to be like rough and stuff. When your going to want to be kinky when your having sex be like "Spank me baby, call me your sex freak." Haha! That turns me on for some reason? I'm not sure if it'll work for you. If you want try roleplay. Be like a cop scene or something. Dress up really slutty, and like handcuff him and tease the shit out of him till you both can't resist. I've always wanted to try that. Good luck. [ x0advice4y3w's advice column | Ask x0advice4y3w A Question ]
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