theres this guy that i work with whos really cute.. hes a few years older then men and is more of like the hippy/grungy type.
i want to start up conversation with him and i dont know the best subject to go about this.. what do you think?
hotpotato answered Friday July 20 2007, 8:18 pm: What is a few years older than men?
Anyway, I think asking him about his music preferences would definitely get the convo started if we were to judge by appearance.. umm b/c otherwise you can ask him about anything to break the ice. Well, a good convo topic to start off with is about the job, since you both are coworkers. You can joke around and be like, "What a long day. Wanna go out for a coffee or something?" Complaining about it would probably make you look bad so maybe you can turn it into a joke so it sounds better? Begin with something relevant like the job and then slowly build up towards other things because he'll mention something you can use to bring up more questions and have more to talk about and so he can learn more about you too. Try to ask open-ended questions, not yes or no questions. :) Have fun. [ hotpotato's advice column | Ask hotpotato A Question ]
crackthesky answered Friday July 20 2007, 8:16 pm: if you can't think of a topic that he will want to talk about, then the best thing would be something about your job. or music is a good topic too,
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