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Lost


Question Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 7:47 pm

I am feeling lost, I am trying to keep my postives and self exteam good. but lathy I been down and about. I been praying alot. but nothing seem to work, thing is that. i am 22 years old, and I haven't have a job yet or trying get my ssi the 4th time. and i dont have alot of friends hang out with. i love my family very much but everybody busy doing work, i try to enjoy my self and try do what i want to do. but can't seem to do it. i mean i am 22 years old but a about a 12 or 15 year old body.. I not immture at all.. but thing is that i don't dive and becouse of my disbities.. and thing is that i lost my self exteam last summmer. thing is my friend and yet she went collage and had a roomate who treated me so bady online. i didn't do anything. and made me feel like my friend betrading me and stuff like that.. ok lathy i been fill with bad and neitve thoughts in my minds. i use be so postive and have alot of motervation. sorry this is long. i hope someone understand and get me.. i am feeling not my self anymore..

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BG answered Tuesday July 24 2007, 2:11 pm:
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Keep your head up man things always will get better no matter how down you feel.I dont know what a ssi is but good luck wit dat and one thing you could probally do is make plans ahead of time that way you can hang out wit da friends and people you have.i may not said this the way i needed to but hope it helps anyways

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rubytuesday answered Friday July 20 2007, 3:57 pm:
I have been in your situation. Part of the problem is that you are not working, and not driving, and don't have a lot of friends to go out with- so that leaves you a lot of time to sit around and think....

When you're not busy (like with work or school or something) and not involved with a lot of other people, your mind has too much time to wonder, and focus on your problems. Until your problems become magnified. So you really need something to keep you busy!

Is there something you can do, like take a class, volunteer somewhere, join any clubs, churhes, find some new hobbies. Anything that you enjoy and can occupy your mind, and make you feel good about yourself will help you feel MUCH better.

There are TONS of things that you can do- so start looking for something that interests you.

Do you like books, animals, art? There has to be SOMETHING. This is your best bet to getting started in feeling better about yourself and your life.

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Smudges answered Wednesday July 18 2007, 10:16 pm:
I understand, maybe when your room mate was being all fucked up to you, you kinda took it to heart. so dont worry so much, go outside look around see the trees, or desert or Ice.? i dont know where ever you live go outside and look out. you'll see what i mean.

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