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Okay, first of all NO lectures.
there is this guy i really like, he is the sweetest. But he is ALMOST going out with this one girl. And she is prude. And one night we were talking dirty and he said that he had never talked to anyone about that stuff before except for me. And he was like i want to have sex soon, and i asked him if he wanted to do it with his almsot girlfriend and he said no. And then he was like bragging about stuff to me like his penis size and that he is a really good kisser. But he never says any of this to his almost girlfriend. One day i told him i liked him and i said that i shouldnt because i felt it was wrong because i would be getting in the way. and then he is likewell would it feel wrong if i liked you back, and i said no. He is definitely not the one to cheat on his girlfriend. But what do these signs mean?
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he could either like you, or he could think you'd be more likely to have sex with him then his prude girl.
could be either, depends on his past relationships.
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he probably likes you more than his almost girlfriend, he just wasnt sure if you liked him. just ask him if you he wants to go out with you, but dont seem desperate, and ask him if he really likes his almost girlfriend. now that you told him you like him, hes comfortable with saying he likes you too. remember that hes not actually going out with this girl yet, so go ahead and ask him out.
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ok....im going to try no to lecture
but if this answer turns out to be one i dont really care if you rate me low, but honey you really need to hear this
First of all, no one can no for sure if he likes you or not cause we arent there. But, personally I dont think he likes you. Yes he may say things to you that sounds like he does. But he likes you cause your telling him that you will have sex/or mess around with him. He likes your sex, not you. If he liked you he would leave that other girl.
second, ever thought that there is more to a girl than whether or not she will do you? Maybe this guy likes the "prude" girl for who she is, and thinks she is beautiful. This is the way I see it. There are those people who have different values and are shy about kissing, making out, having sex or w/e(aka being "prude"). But you love them anyway because they love you, they are a beautiful person, and you click with them it doesnt matter if they put out for you. An example is, a stripper, sure all guys think they are hot and sexy and want them. But when it boils down they still love their wives(well...in therory)
I think this is how your relationship is
If you think that there is a possibility of a relationship with you and this boy, then have a non sexual talk with him and b like "hey...do you like me? Can we be together?" if he says no and gives you some reason about the other girl, then he doesnt like you for you, you make him honry and thats why he likes you.
I hope this makes sence, and I hope I didnt lecture. There isnt anything wrong with having fun and messing around, believe me its great lol But if you want a relationship, theres gotta be more to it
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He definately likes you. You should just take it slow and wait it out. He is probably trying to make sure he doesnt make a mistake with you or the other girl.
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