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whats happening?
idk if this is in the right catergory but oh well
alright well im thirteen: in the beginning of the school year i was outgoing fun perky and always happy and now im always just blahh &the exact opposite:
did i just change? am im going to be like this forever? whatsss happeninggg :(
i need tips getting through this too: pleasee
thank you in advance!
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Umm. Well, little girl you have a long road ahead of you. Let me tell you about my 7th grade year. Okay? ok. Anyways so it was 7th grade and I was so happy to see all my friends again. Then I quickly realized that all my friends hated me and nobody I knew were in my classes. So I didn't have any friends to hang out with or talk to. and plus I had a teacher who was always stressing me out with homework and classwork. I started failing my grades and guys didn't like me or anything. I didn't do anything to change it either. I just stayed positive. Now, things are better this year but they still suck. I hate 8th grade because my friend sabrina is always back stabbing me and trying so hard to make me mad. Anyways this is a stage and it feels like forever and stuff but its not going to be. Just stay positive and know that one day things will change and you'll be happy or content with your life. I mean people still hate me but I have some good friends that I talk to every now and then. People will come into your life and make you happy. You are just young right now and you're not ready for that. You're body and mind is maturing and can sometimes make you feel very unhappy with your life. it will change though. stay positive and happy. ok? okay. bye bye.
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This happened to me too. It's called being a teenager. Your mood will change out of nowhere and you will feel new emotions. Teenagers emotions are deeper than adults and children because they are developing still. Things will even out as you get older.
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I understand what your going through because ive gone through the same thing. im 14 and at the start of my 7th grade year i was in the best mood of my entire life. Almost every one was. "yay! i get to see my friends.". and then the schoolwork starts to come around and then you start meeting people who try to make trouble for you. then you have to deal with your parents about the occasional bad grades, the groundings over bad behavior, constant mood swings and crushes on guys/girls that you cant have. all the while your body is sending hormones out and its all very confusing and irritating but youll get past it soon enough. 7th grade is a tough year for everyone.
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Hey, don't worry too much about it, it's normal. I'm about a year older than you and this always happens to me. You won't be like this forever, it's just a stage and it will go away soon. Usually it happens to me after midterms and finals because I just get so caught up in studying and it takes me awhile to get back to myself. Since it's summer, make plans with your friends that you can be fun and hyper with and you'll get your perkyness back :] good luck.
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Dear it's called school! lol. It gets to even the best of us. Is there a guy involved in this one? Look summer is a great way to get happy again ^^. Ignore all your troubles or put them past you and have fun. Next year try to balance things out. Be outgoing and fun and perky and when your feeling down surround yourself with these great things called friends. When your alone in your bedroom at night thinking how much the world sucks. Well I just think about how great it is. I change my view on things. For the next week I want you to try to go for the glass is half full NOT half empty. You won't be like this forever trust me. Sometimes when life is just giving you a really bad couple of months you have to suck it up and work in what I call doubletime. Fill yourself with fun activies but don't forget to do your h.w. etc. I suggest that now you know how tiring everything in life can get PLAN STUFF.I found this a hugeeee time saver. I took an hour out of my entire summer to make a week plan for school. Calculating h.w. time and showering eating I found an entire 4 and a half hours that I could spend going or just relaxing. You'll be your bubbly self in no time and if your not suggest a physcologist or therapist. Your not crazy your just feeling the monday blues over and over again. Start yoga or kick boxing stress reliefs! Ask me for more advice if you need it!=) and smileee
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you could have a mild form of depression, you might want to ask your doctor about this one. It could aslo be that you just hab;t tried to put in the effort, you need to be willing to try. Just go out one night and pretend to have fun, acy happy and excited around all your friends at a dance or party and i bet by the end of the night you will stop pretending and actually have a good time. I tink you just need to find better activities or friends based on how you have changed and what you want to do now.
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hey, thats normal. teenage girls go through it all the time and most of the time its exagerated. still, it happens to the best of it. your insecure and you dont know what you want. it seems like everyone has fun without you and is turning your back on you. it will pass through. good luck.
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