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okay well im set that my dad is cheating on my mom. these are the things that lead me to beleive that.
1. when we first got our sprint cell phones, he only got me 500 text msgs a month because he said, "if you need to tell/ask someone something, just call them" and stuff like "texting is stupid" "its so pointless" yatta yatta. but i was cool with it. well i went over twice and he said "if oyu go over again, you get your phone taken away" then like yte next day, he texts me and says he got me unlimited and he unblocked texting from his phone, so now HE could text. i was like... okay?? but COOL. then one he was texting like CRAZY and i was just like "who ya text'n" and he was like "NONE OF YOU FREAKIN BUSINESS" and he like, hisd his phone. and he talks on it every night when my moms not home and when i ask, "who ya talkn to?" (real casually) he freaks out and says "WHY DOES IT MATTER?!?!"
2 he says he need to go to the grocerie store and i was like "okay" w/e. and i asked him to get me some peach tea. he was gone for like a hour and a half but i though "oh he's probably buying a bunch of stuff" you know? but he came back and the ONLY thing he had bought was my peach tea... i was like "wow. that took forever. and all you bought was peach tea?" (cause we are like low on food, and i had nothing to eat) and he got all defensive and was like "JUST CHILL OUT, OKAY?"
3 he always talks crap about my mom behind her back. little things that dont even matter. they are pointless. like we are talking about something that has nothing to do with her and he'll bring up somthing bad about her and go on raving about it.
4 he's been late coming home from work lately
5 i know this seems gross, but they never like, kiss or flirt with each other anymore. and im pretty sure they dont have sex. (ew, but a necessity in a relationship)
so idk. what do you guys think? its freaking me out. omggg. and if you think he IS, what do i do????? i am so helpless. do i tell someone. who? do i talk to him about it??? gaww im so lost. ):
thank in advance.
xoxo (:
ps. my parents have been separeted MANY times before and devorced twice but got back together both times. (link)
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i had something kinda similar, but not really, happen to me. I found out that my dad smokes cigarettes and he was trying to hide it. So one day after he caught me smoking something else (dont wanna go into details}, i grabbed his pack of cigarettes from his hiding spot and confronted him just like he confronted me. Do the same with your dad. Just be like "hey dad, do you mind if we talk real quick after dinner? I have something I've been wanting to ask you.." and then say "I know its stupid, but i keep getting the feeling that you are cheating on mom" or something like that. DONT make it sound like you are attacking/berating him or he will deny it out of self defense.
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there are two boys.
the first one, ill call "BOB", his mom is my moms best friend. hes a few months younger then me, and hes so nice to me. he says i should be a model and all of this hes so nice. and i really like hanging out and talking with him. he hangs out in my group and im going to have to deal with seeing him for the ret of my life. our familys go on vacation together and everything. also, our names are next to eachother in the alphabet! our initials i mean. we have the whole "i love you" thing back and forth and he says he wouldent want to go out with anyone but i cannot go out with him because my mom will not let, she says hes to close of family. now i cant even seem to form a normal sentence when hes around. i think about him a lot during class.
Then, theres another boy. I saw him a one day and had a friend introdue us because they were friends. i couldent get him off my mind. then i saw him again and invited him to a party with me and we were dancing all night and he tried to kiss m good-bye but i woodent let him i just gave him a kiss on the cheek. hes a year younger but hes in my grade because he skipped and 2 weeks ago he was all i thought about. he never said anything sweet to me like that i was pretty or anything but he was so innocent and sweet and shy and i loved him and we texted for so long and whenever i closed my eyes all i saw was his eyes.
and so, me being the flirt i was we had a bet on sumthing stupid and i said if i won he had 2 ask me out and this was before BOB and his GF broke up and this was also when BOB and me didnt talk at all and so now, ROB and BOB both keep texting me and im stuck in the middle because ROB goes to a different school and he is teling people at his school that were kind of going out and i used to feel like this magic with ROB that i dont get around BOB but i cant be mean ad stop the I LOvE YOU stuff with BOB becayse i really do like him and hes so nice. but i dont get that "omg this is the most amazing person in the world" feeling like i did around ROB. now me and ROB havent talked in so long but im afraid if me an him do run into eachother ill get all into him again you know? i know this is so long but i have a delema lol thank you so so so much!! (link)
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I would say you pursue "Rob" for now. Chances are that since "Bob" is a family friend and so on, you will be seeing him for a while. Since Rob goes to a different school, you may lose contact with him soon. If things don't work out with him, you can wait a bit then try with Bob. And you can keep the "I love you" thing going on with him too. Theres a girl I've known for ever and I love her to death, but more like a best friend or younger sister (even though she's older)... but yea, I tell her I love her and end AIM convos with "i love u" and all that. so yea, hope this helped.
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