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2 many boys!
there are two boys.
the first one, ill call "BOB", his mom is my moms best friend. hes a few months younger then me, and hes so nice to me. he says i should be a model and all of this hes so nice. and i really like hanging out and talking with him. he hangs out in my group and im going to have to deal with seeing him for the ret of my life. our familys go on vacation together and everything. also, our names are next to eachother in the alphabet! our initials i mean. we have the whole "i love you" thing back and forth and he says he wouldent want to go out with anyone but i cannot go out with him because my mom will not let, she says hes to close of family. now i cant even seem to form a normal sentence when hes around. i think about him a lot during class.
Then, theres another boy. I saw him a one day and had a friend introdue us because they were friends. i couldent get him off my mind. then i saw him again and invited him to a party with me and we were dancing all night and he tried to kiss m good-bye but i woodent let him i just gave him a kiss on the cheek. hes a year younger but hes in my grade because he skipped and 2 weeks ago he was all i thought about. he never said anything sweet to me like that i was pretty or anything but he was so innocent and sweet and shy and i loved him and we texted for so long and whenever i closed my eyes all i saw was his eyes.
and so, me being the flirt i was we had a bet on sumthing stupid and i said if i won he had 2 ask me out and this was before BOB and his GF broke up and this was also when BOB and me didnt talk at all and so now, ROB and BOB both keep texting me and im stuck in the middle because ROB goes to a different school and he is teling people at his school that were kind of going out and i used to feel like this magic with ROB that i dont get around BOB but i cant be mean ad stop the I LOvE YOU stuff with BOB becayse i really do like him and hes so nice. but i dont get that "omg this is the most amazing person in the world" feeling like i did around ROB. now me and ROB havent talked in so long but im afraid if me an him do run into eachother ill get all into him again you know? i know this is so long but i have a delema lol thank you so so so much!!
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Honestly, I'd be with Rob. I mean, he tried to kiss you the third time you guys met, and then he's telling people at his school that he's dating you. He wants to flaunt you & show you off to the world, as his girlfriend! Also, you don't get the same feelings around Bob as you do with Rob. So, Rob is obviously the better choice.
As for Bob, explain to him that your mom wouldn't want you guys to go out because you're so close to the family & whatever, but you'd like to remain friends. And in the end, if things don't work out with Rob. Go for Bob & see how it goes with him. =) But for right now, keep him as a good friend. He sounds like the kind of guy that could be your best friend.
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hey you know...i think you should be seein rob rather than bob coz:
1) your mom wont have any p'blem
2) you do like rob alot
3) you click with him more than bob
4) he likes you too coz he tried to kiss you on your third meeting
5) girl if he's tellin people at skool about you, he really has something for you coz he is somewhat proud of the fact that you could be his gf.
6) you know that the magic thing is with rob more than bob.
7) i somehow get the feelin that bob might be using sheer flattery to get u...maybe coz he doesn't have a gf rite now.
8) i think bob would do better as a friend
so hurry up and talk to rob before its too late. bob can be in front of you your whole life but rob might just get so hurt that he might move away from you and never look back...
best of luck sweetie xxxxxxxx darkside89 xxxxxxx
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I would say you pursue "Rob" for now. Chances are that since "Bob" is a family friend and so on, you will be seeing him for a while. Since Rob goes to a different school, you may lose contact with him soon. If things don't work out with him, you can wait a bit then try with Bob. And you can keep the "I love you" thing going on with him too. Theres a girl I've known for ever and I love her to death, but more like a best friend or younger sister (even though she's older)... but yea, I tell her I love her and end AIM convos with "i love u" and all that. so yea, hope this helped.
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