ok im 15/f and i really like this guy! so that guy already knows cause 1 of my friends blabbed and he said i was pretty and all, but he hasn't asked me out! i talk to him whenever i can in class and stuff, but it doesn't seem to be working! oh ya, he's never had a gf before! how i do i get him to ask me out? pleaz help!
Teza answered Thursday April 21 2005, 11:42 pm: Guys who never had a girlfriend are really shy. You should ask him out first. It might take him a while tho so you should do it first. x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
iddybitty09 answered Thursday April 21 2005, 11:48 am: maybe you should find out if he might be gay first. Or maybe hes just really shy and thinks that your too pretty to go out with him.
mrs_radcliffe answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 2:44 pm: He could be shy in asking you , Why dont you ask him to the movies or to the beach or to yours and watch a few films. Then ask him out if he thinks your pretty he might say yes.
Daisy answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 5:11 am: Well if he hasn't ever had a girlfriend before then no wonder he hasn't asked you out! He obviously thinks you are really pretty and is probably really nervous about what to do or say to you. Do you have enough guts to ask him out? Or even suggest something like you are goin to the cinema with a group if your friens, would he like to come with some of his friends? Good luck! [ Daisy's advice column | Ask Daisy A Question ]
karenR answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 1:09 am: Sounds like you're doing about all you can on your end. Maybe you could bring up a movie that's playing in your area while your talking to him...say how you'd REALLY like to see that! Maybe he just needs a little prodding. Especially since he hasn't had a girlfriend before. Guy's have the same anxietys as you do, he may be afraid of being turned down. A little opening may be all he needs. Good luck. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
iWALKintoWALLS answered Tuesday April 19 2005, 8:08 pm: well, it sounds like he mighe not know how the dealy works. try talking to one of his friends to see if he likes you. but if you dont want to talk to talk to them for some reason, ask him out! it shows that you like doing what you wanna do, and dont be pushy or anything, but this guy might just be slow or scared of what you are going to say no...just try...it will be better than nothing happening...and if he says the whole"i want to get to know u better" then get to know him better, invite him over, just talk to him...maybe give him your phone number. well, thats what i have to say.
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LiLJaZzY answered Tuesday April 19 2005, 7:10 pm: ...pretend that theres a rumor going around school that people are thinking u guys go out..u should say "people are saying we go out, isnt that funny?" and if he says something like " ha, yea i know" say something like "yea but it would be nice, to have a boyfriend and all" and see what he says.. lol
orphans answered Tuesday April 19 2005, 6:58 pm: I think instead of a friend telling him you like him how about you go up to him and start a ice conversation and get to telling him you like him and see what he says. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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