I'm a 15 year old female. I really like this one boy, but the thing is he's always teasing me or hitting me. Sometimes it's actually funny and we play around but other times it really hurts physically & emotionally. Very little of the time he'll come up to me and start a normal conversation, flirt, etc. I have a strong feeling he likes me the way I like him. I know that if he told anyone, his immature friends would start on him. He wouldn't straight out tell me either because he's shy about that kind of stuff. What could I do to make him realize that if he makes a move, I'll go along with it?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? spoiledx3shortii answered Friday April 22 2005, 12:59 pm: why dont you tell him that you like him? than he may not be as nervous telling you that he also likes you back. because im sure one of the only reasons he has not come right out and told you that he has feelings for you is beacause he is scared you will reject him and not feel the same way back. but if he KNOWS you already like him he may be less nervous. If he keeps on hitting you or teasing you. ask him to please stop. just be like you really hurt when you hit me. can you please please stop? or something. if he cares about you than he will stop. <3 hope i helped ! [ spoiledx3shortii's advice column | Ask spoiledx3shortii A Question ]
o0xbrianna answered Thursday April 21 2005, 8:59 pm: Tell him you like him. He shouldn't be hitting you and making you emotional over it though. That is not right. Just flirt with him or tell him straight up you like him!
Michele answered Thursday April 21 2005, 3:17 pm: Honey, if he is teasing you and hitting you (and sometimes it hurts) and he is just flirting with you.....what is he going to do to you when you are actually "going out together" and he thinks he owns you. Try to learn more about him before making this move. Especially about his home life. IF he gets hit at home, or if his dad hit's his mom, then he will think that it is OK to hit the person he loves. Great for him/bad for you.
Find a nice guy who flirts with you by making you smile and happy, not hit you.
iddybitty09 answered Thursday April 21 2005, 11:49 am: Well if hes abusing you physically and mentally then i dont think hes the right guy for you, and if hes that immature around his friends then hes no worth it.
sadf16 answered Thursday April 21 2005, 3:59 am: Be open. I mean whatever he talks there, show to him that you are open-minded with regards to your relationship. If you aren't shy to do this, you can maybe hint to him throught talking to him about love life's and all that. See what'll be his reaction. If it's a positive then you're doing good, if negative try to have another tactic to let him make a move. [ sadf16's advice column | Ask sadf16 A Question ]
ShutUpAndDance answered Thursday April 21 2005, 12:04 am: If you like that boy and he's teasing or hitting you, he most likely likes you too!! Wow, if you really like him, tell him, and he'll most likely tell you he likes you too! [ ShutUpAndDance's advice column | Ask ShutUpAndDance A Question ]
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