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Last Update: April 22, 2005
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WILL RATE HIGH my ex boyfriend is really worrying me. i broke up with him because he started to make me think that all he wanted from me was sex. im 14 hes 15. he was asking me if was a virgin (which i am), if i would leave him a sexy message on his messge maching, and he wasnt actualy talkin to me on the fone, it was all thr txt msgs.when i tried to talk to him he wouldnt pic up. and i cant stand relatiotships where there is no communication and he knew that was important to me. i went out with him once before and he broke up with me "because he thought i didnt like him" which didnt make much sense because i always made the first moves, he seemes like a whole different person now. anyway, i knew he drank occasionally and what i thoguht used to do some drugs. but i dont know, he says he has an anger problem and that he's going to get homeschooled. i think that would be worse for him. i know he has problems at home, but his parents are still marrried. he hurts himself, like he beats himself up and i dont understand. i dont think its anger problems i think he nees counsoling. i still care about him and i dont want him to do this to himself. i dont know what i should do...i dont want him to hurt himself (link)
Girl, if he said that, he's definetely not worth you! If all he wants is sex, he should just go find a whore... ohhh drinking is SO not cool!!! Maybe he should try to quit...? Ehh don't let him hurt himself, but don't get him into thinking you want him


I'm a 15 year old female. I really like this one boy, but the thing is he's always teasing me or hitting me. Sometimes it's actually funny and we play around but other times it really hurts physically & emotionally. Very little of the time he'll come up to me and start a normal conversation, flirt, etc. I have a strong feeling he likes me the way I like him. I know that if he told anyone, his immature friends would start on him. He wouldn't straight out tell me either because he's shy about that kind of stuff. What could I do to make him realize that if he makes a move, I'll go along with it? (link)
If you like that boy and he's teasing or hitting you, he most likely likes you too!! Wow, if you really like him, tell him, and he'll most likely tell you he likes you too!


I have a project for which I've been asked to interpret the lyrics of my choice of song.

I've chosen 'Glycerine' by Bush and, although the song is brilliant, I can't get get one clear meaning from it. I'm really terrible at breaking stuff like this down and I need a little bit of help.

It would help if you know this song but, if you want to give it a try anyways, there lyrics can be found here: http://www.geocities.com/SunsetStrip/Venue/2561/lyrics/glycerine.html

Could someone tell me THEIR interpretation of the song?

Thanks in advance. (link)
Hmmm I've listened to that before... it is DEFINETELY a hard song to comprehend... but just listen to it, read the lyrics, and eventually, you'll get it!


i like this girl at my church but im not sure if she likes me she has called me clingy before but idk. and if we ever broke up then it would probably seem alittle wierd seeing each other at church and i would still want to be her friend even if we did break up. i kissed her on the cheek on this trip with my church and everyone was around because it was true or dare and i think she got alittle mad even though she said that i could.. so im not sure what to do. oh and did i mention that she lives 30 to 45 minutes away from me.. should i go out with her? or what could i do to get her to like me alittle bit more? thanks ill rate 5's for good stuff. (link)
Well, if she has called you clingy, then definetely DON'T get too attatched... that'd make matters worse... yes, I admit, it'd be kind of wierd, but wierd can be ok... as long as you're comfortable! Hmm kissing on the cheek shows that you like her, and if she hasn't got that you like her already then I doubt she knows ANYTHING about you!!! But she let you, that's good... hmmm long distance relationships can be kind of complex... but I say go for it!!! To get her to like you more, show HER that YOU like her! Then she'll definetely drop more hints...


I want to dye my hair... not permanent, but not too temporary. I found a hair dye that's made by L'Oreal, called Color Pulse, that comes in a color that I would like for my hair. I have dark brown hair, and Color Pulse supposidly works on dark hair. It lasts for 8-10 shampoos, and also contains no peroxide or ammonia.

Has anyone used this before? What do you think? Is there anyother types of dyes that you would recommend in place of this? I am looking for a dark purpleish plumish type color, if that helps.

Thanks! (link)
Yeah I use color pulse for my hair, and it's kind of dark brown, and I try to make it look lighter... it really works, people have noticed a dramatic change... well, not "dramatic" but it'll definetely get the color you want it to be!


how do i tell a guy i love him?
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Well, hun, you can just talk to him for a while then finally let it out once you know more about him. Guys usually flip out when you tell them stuff like that, but he'll definetely have major feelings for you!!!


me and my boyfriend broke up a week ago and hes already talking to a few new girls. people warned me that he was like this before i went out with him. i had been "talking" with him since december and we finally started going out in march. he got mad at me over something really small so now he "hates" me but the thing is yesterday he called me to hang out..i was really confused and when i tryed talking to him later that night he was like fuck you im busy talking to my girlfriend. i still like him alot i had so much fun with him. hes a really great guy but i dont know what to do... hes really hard to get over. what should i do?!? (link)
Wow... break-ups can be hard to get over... trust me... but eventually, you will. Hun, don't let this one guy ruin your life... there are more fish in the sea!!!
Talking to a few new girls... hmmm... guys do that a lot! Natural born flirts, I tell you...
Just ignore him and play hard to get... trust me, you can still be friends!!!


Hey

i want to know some good songs...
the stuff i like is like:
Taking back sunday: youre so last summer
": this photograph is proof
Papa roach: scars
Story of the year: Sidewalks
": until the day i die
the killers: mr. brightside
green day: good riddence...

stuff like that
if anyone has any ideas on some other songs i would like please tell me...thank you (link)
Those are definetely some good songs... I request some System of a Down, My Chemical Romance, and New Found Glory... they're pretty sweet...


i want to join cross country next year, and i was wondering... what all do you do and how far do you run? (link)
Well, I do crosscountry... We usually run about 2-3 miles at least per day... not every day, like 3 or 4 times a week... and we jog around our school and run and we practice with hurdles but don't actually DO hurdles! It's just practice!
But my answer is definetely just run 2 to 3 miles at least... for us it's 6 tops!




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