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i like this girl at my church but im not sure if she likes me she has called me clingy before but idk. and if we ever broke up then it would probably seem alittle wierd seeing each other at church and i would still want to be her friend even if we did break up. i kissed her on the cheek on this trip with my church and everyone was around because it was true or dare and i think she got alittle mad even though she said that i could.. so im not sure what to do. oh and did i mention that she lives 30 to 45 minutes away from me.. should i go out with her? or what could i do to get her to like me alittle bit more? thanks ill rate 5's for good stuff.
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Well you really have a hard situation. First of all, if you really like her you could ask her if she thinks your cute. Start getting to know what she likes. Like her favorite band, colors she likes and then "become her". That means be what she likes. If you dont like that idea then try to find the same kind of girl at your school. Trust me if you guys fail, theres pleanty of fish in the sea! Hope i helped!
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Hmmm... with the distance, and the fact that she doesn't seem to be very open to the idea of dating you, I think you'd be better off trying to get over your crush and just pursue a friendship with this girl.
Be her friend, and maybe with time, it will develop into more- you ever know, love works in mysterious ways. For now, just focus on getting to know her better, show interest in her hobbies/interests, grow in God together (I assume since you know her from church, you're both Christian, if not, I apologize for my assumption).
To get her to like you more- just be yourself. That means instead of concentrating on trying to woo her, you just have fun and concentrate instead on getting to know her as a person, instead of as a potential girlfriend. The girlfriend thing will either happen or it won't- there is such a thing as trying too hard.
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Well, if she has called you clingy, then definetely DON'T get too attatched... that'd make matters worse... yes, I admit, it'd be kind of wierd, but wierd can be ok... as long as you're comfortable! Hmm kissing on the cheek shows that you like her, and if she hasn't got that you like her already then I doubt she knows ANYTHING about you!!! But she let you, that's good... hmmm long distance relationships can be kind of complex... but I say go for it!!! To get her to like you more, show HER that YOU like her! Then she'll definetely drop more hints...
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