Member Since: April 20, 2005
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Ok! I am 13 and a girl and my boyfriend is 14. He has a younger brother my age. He wants to keep our... um... love, a secret from almost everyone, expesically his mother and father. Now here's the problem, he said that we have to do that until his 16 when his aloud to date!!! I do truely love him and he loves me. What should I do? I don't want to keep it a secret but he said he'd break up with me if his parents or brother finds out! (P.S. I don't want to hurt him cuz he just broke up with a girl that he was dating for 2 years! She just said we're done and walked away! I don't want to hurt him...) (link)
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im sorry im not trying to be a bitch but you cant love someone when your 13 years old. i know you might think you are...im 15 right now and i went out with a guy for 7 months...i really thought it was love but not even that was. just let whatever happen happen. youll get over him sooner or later no matter how hard it is. if you really LIKE him alot then stay with him and keep it a secret but if you want people to know just talk to him about it...it always helps to talk
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About two or three months ago i went to a youth councelor to figure out why i had no friends, was lonely,depressed,angry and sometimes suicidal. They told me that it is because i worry too much about what people think about me and it causes me to have like an anxiety and stuff which made me lack the normal skills a person has for like comunicating with others which causes this friendless life. I was given three choices ither go on medication which i would never do, go to an organised activity with social workers and they would work with you and show you how to communicate and what not, and the other one was somewhat the same thing. Nither of the choices i had fit me well, so i decided to improve on it myself by not worrying about what people thought about me and talk to people and try to make plans to do something, and no matter how hard i try or what i do to try and improve nothing is working. All i want is to enjoy life in high school and have fun, i hate always thinking how my days sucked, my birthday is in 2 days and i wont get one happy bday at school, or have someone make me a card or anything like friends do at school so like i dont know just too much is running through my head and im getting ideas again and i just want to know how i can improve more or what to do....
Yours Truly:
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i was looking through all the questionas and picking which ones to answer and i decided to answer you first. your question really caught my eye because i feel the same way at times. high schools just a drag. most of the girls are anal bitches and the guys are stuck up jocks looking for sex. dont put yourself down, look for the people like YOU to be friends with. dont try and be with a certain group of people. just remember your not the only one in your school that feels this way, there has to be ATLEAST one other person. look out for this person, thier feeling the same way as you. and please never resort to suicide. i know people who have done that and its the most horrible thing. your family loves you, you cant do that to them, you cant do that to yourself. if you have anymore questions please ask me. i like you...your question was actually very WORTH answering. i hope i helped
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