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Boyfriend trouble
Ok! I am 13 and a girl and my boyfriend is 14. He has a younger brother my age. He wants to keep our... um... love, a secret from almost everyone, expesically his mother and father. Now here's the problem, he said that we have to do that until his 16 when his aloud to date!!! I do truely love him and he loves me. What should I do? I don't want to keep it a secret but he said he'd break up with me if his parents or brother finds out! (P.S. I don't want to hurt him cuz he just broke up with a girl that he was dating for 2 years! She just said we're done and walked away! I don't want to hurt him...)
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I think that if he isn't allowed to date, you shouldn't be dating him. If this means dumping him, so be it. You should come back to him in two years when he's sicteen, but definetly don't forget about this guy. You say you like him a lot, but who do you like more? Your boyfriend, or the "jacket lending guy"?
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Do what you wanna do. If you truly loved your bf, you would do anything and wait until he's ready to tell his parents. That's all I can do.
Hope I helped.
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im sorry im not trying to be a bitch but you cant love someone when your 13 years old. i know you might think you are...im 15 right now and i went out with a guy for 7 months...i really thought it was love but not even that was. just let whatever happen happen. youll get over him sooner or later no matter how hard it is. if you really LIKE him alot then stay with him and keep it a secret but if you want people to know just talk to him about it...it always helps to talk
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I think your boyfriend should mind his parents because it isn't fair to the girls. Know what I mean. I think you should tell him you'll just stay friends until he's 16. Then your free to pursue other intrests! :)
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Hi,
I think your boyfriend needs to keep your relationship a secret because his parents may be really really mean,and really give him a hard time about it. I mean you don't live at his house, you don't know what kind of parents he has. He may really like you a lot, but his parents would really get on his case. If they are hard on him or even beat him, he may not tell you because he has too much pride. So he asked you to keep it a secret. After all, he has to live with them, not you. I think you should respect his wishes. If you love someone, and they ask you to do them a favor, unless it goes against your values, or is against the law, you should do it.
NOw the Jacket-offering guy was paying attention to you. And that made you happy. That is normal. Boys that age, act silly, that is a way they have of flirting with a girl. And you enjoyed the attention. All boys and girls like attention. And all boys and girls flirt. It does not mean someone is in love with you, and it doesn't mean that you have to do more than acknowledge the attention. It is flattering. And it's fun, and it can be completely innocent. But it is never ok to flirt in front of your boyfriend (or girlfiend for boys). But of course, if you are not in a relationship, then all is fair in love and war.
You have to give the whole situation some time. Take the time to figure out which one you like better.
YOu may have a problem with having to keep your realtionship with your boyfriend a secret. Under normal circumstances, that would not be OK. And if so, that is OK. Then this is not a match for you. And that is ok, too. It happens all the time. It is confusing to have choices, but it is better than the opposite, which is having no one interested in you at all. So enjoy! You must be very pretty, and a nice girl too.
I hope this helped.
Michele
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well.. it depends on how long you have been with him.. i seriously don't think you are "in love with him" and my parents say the same thing..."your not allowed to date till your 16"... the big ordeal.. anyway tell him his parents are in a good mood just be like i really like this girl and i asked her out n she said yes.. to parents dating...is like going in a car with another person to dinner or a movie... but to people who r 13-16 see it as im his girlfriend and hes my boyfriend and we are dating.. but i think to his parents they mean goin somewhere with someone else..i know that was a little confusing but tell him that they shouldn't care if e has a girl friend.. just don't call it dating around them.. you are just boyfriend/girlfriend!
Hope i helped...even though it confusing!!!
Let me know what happens Goodluck!
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well, if you love him, you have to be willing to go to extreams to be with him! i know how you feel!!
Thanks for lettting me help you
always there-
Kelsa! :)
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