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Am I the Only one?
I was just curious to know if it was wierd that Im in 8th grade and have never had a first kiss? Part of it is that I am too nervous but I just wanted to know...ThAnX I RaTe HiGh!! Maddie 15/f
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OMG no it is totally normal..Like I've seen people on tv that didn't get their first kiss until late 20's!! AHH..but yeah nothing's wrong! Also, when you meet a guy and you really like him, then go for it! ..and there you go...your first kiss! Hope I helped!..yeah i kno it's not as easy as it sounds but hey, it's bound to happen right?
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Its not wierd.. i have alot of friends that havent had there first kiss yet. hope i helped.
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no hun ur not alone and it dosn't really matter either cause ur first "real" kiss is around this age anyways
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wat far too dramatic said was rude - its normal i didnt get mine untill 7th grade - its REALLY okay.. dont rush thing - let everything b special when it comes !! i promise dont rush it ! always smiLe - if u got any more questions e-mail me .. =]
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totally normal.. im in 8th nd got it this year. xO ali
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no not really. it doesnt matter and sometimes it works out better it you dont then you can save the drama of that guy goin around talkin shit about you and how you kiss after you 2 dont like each other no more. consider yourself lucky. btw did u fail?
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You are so not alone. I haven't even had a boyfriend before, let alone a kiss, and am starting the nineth grade. It's really for the best, though. Most junior high/ middle school relationships don't last as long as long as high school. You'll meet the right one eventually.
Don't give up hope
hope it works out
God bless
~aeromonkey~
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This is a random guess...but do you live in ky? b/c I know a madison that is 15/f in 8th grade that has an advice column...lol ok. Sorry if you're not that person. You probably think I'm crazy right now, but oh well.
And to answer your question, no it's perfectly normal to not have had your first kiss yet. After all, don't you want it to be with the RIGHT guy, not just any guy? I think that it would be WAY better if it was with the right guy (like it was with me, I made sure I really WANTED it to be this guy before it happened).
A lot of my friends haven't either, and I'm in 8th grade too. You're time will come, don't worry. Until then, just look forward to it! =)
Hope I helped
♥ Elmo
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definitely not.
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It's not weird at all, Maddie. I got my first real kiss when I was a freshman in high school, and many of my friends didn't get theirs until later. Don't think for a minute that you're behind at all. Once you've had it, you can't go back, and you may not even enjoy it. Don't do as I did, and go kiss the first boy who's looking. Just take it slow, and remember, kissing's fun, but kind of over-rated. If it's not amazing, don't be surprised.
Hope I helped!
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No!! A couple of my friends in highschool (even the juniors) haven't had a boyfriend yet OR a first kiss. Some people are just not very interested in it. And some are fickle, and waiting for the right guy. Some just never have, but really want to kiss someone...
I remember I was nervous when I had my first kiss (especially since I was the one to make the move) and it was pretty embarassing (since I couldn't REACH him because I was so short... even on my toes...) but he got it and he bent down to kiss me. Anyway, the point is most guys want to be kissed... just like most girls. So if you have a boyfriend, make your move!!
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Well my mom didn't want me to have my first kiss till i was in high school but in the 6th grade i did with my 1st boyfriend so it's not big deal. just try and get it over with. i hope i helped you maddie
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no its not weird alot of girls that i know are like 17 and 18 and the've never even had a b*f so i dont think it;s weird.
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Nah. I'm the same as you. I'm not abnormal. The "most" that I've done with a guy: hug, say "I love you". Nothin' too special. You're not weird. It's a good thing that you're nervous; because if you're not nervous, and you're straightforward and flirty - you'll end up on a road that you don't want to be on. Stay the way you are, Maddie.
-FunnyCide
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no, its not weird. i knew someone who was 15 when they got their first kiss.
but don't be nervous about it. its not something that you can be good at or anything, just go with the flow and it will come naturally.
hope i helped.
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hey..
no its not weird that you havent gotten your first kiss. I havent had mine either and i am in 8th grade also. You shouldnt rush into any thing your first kiss should be something that you would want to remember and is special to you. So dont worry and just be yourself and you'll be fine. You dont want to rush into anything and then it ends up to be not what you wanted. So just wait and eventually you will have your first kiss when its the right time! Good luck and if you need anything else im me at XxBLOsurferNDExX.
-BLONDEalErT28
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nope not weird. im in 9th grade and i had my first kiss the summer after 8th grade
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FiRst of all.. you'Re only, what... 13, 14?? You have PLENTY of time foR all of that!! And what you'Re feeling is **definitely** NOT uncommon. Be it 12, 17, oR 20... not having been kissed is not as big of a deal as you might assume. I know *TONS* and *TONS* of people who aRe aRound 20-21, and have STILL neveR even held hands with someone. You shouldn't woRRie oveR this, Maddie, you'Re most ceRtainly *NOT* alone! =D
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I'm in the 8th grade and haven't had my REAL first kiss. I think that that's the one kiss you remeber froever, and I want it to be with someone special!!!!
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Of course it's not weird! Lots of people don't even get their first kisses until High School, or even College, and it's completely normal. A lot of young girls assume that since their friends, or the people in movies or books and telivision seem to always get their first kisses at ten or twelve, that's when they should have their first kisses at that age too.
Well, it's not true. I didn't get my first kiss until last summer, and that was after my sophomore year in high school. You definitely don't have to push yourself to kiss some guy that you don't even like because you want your first kiss over with.
Just don't worry about it, and when it happens, you'll have a good memory--not a bad one.
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hey girl i didnt have my first kiss with a guy until i was 15 years i was almost 16.. i was always nervous to kiss a guy i mean when i was 13 and 14 i practiced with friends and kissed friends to goof around but never kissed somebody that ment something to me wil i was 15.. so no its no unNORMAL i think you will know when your ready when the time comes.. much luv dez x0x0
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no it isnt, whats weird is that you are 15 and in 8th grade. ill assume one of those was a type-o, but yeah its perfectly normal some people dont get their first kiss till late in high school.
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