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Hi! Im Sam. Im 15. I live in ATX. i go to lake travis HS. i ve been through things people really won't believe so if u need advice about ur family or rlationships or whtever else. im soo here 4 u!

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OH HELP ME SAM
alas, i have these insane ureges to burn things everywhere i go.....like in the mall when i walk into a clothing store all i can think about is lighting the place up...or when i'm in a resteraunt i always set the napkins on fire...and whenever i see a kittie BURN!!!!!! MAUAHAHHAHAHA.....and i'm twichy all the time... please help me sam.... i cant get a girl friend this way...anyone interested i allways set on fire....so far only one has come back for a second date....please help me!!!!! MUAHAHHA FIRE FIRE BURN!!!! MUAHAHHAHA......*cries in the corner*

ummmm....this one i cant fix.....see a professional...ohh and stay away from lighters..

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Hi, I have this problem...

I get angry really easily. I think it’s because I don’t really like people in general. When I’m around a person, I feel disgusted. I don’t really know what’s wrong with me, but getting angry over everything is causing problems for me. I almost attacked my gym teacher the other day and I’ve had random urges, just to hurt people. Is there a way I can keep myself from getting angry over everything? Hearing someone’s voice can sometimes set me off too.

you need profecinal help no website answers can solve this. if you get set off by hearing people something is very wrong, not to be nosey but have you had an abusive parent, a tramatic experince, are you holding a grduge on someone? That could be part of the cause of your anger. i want you to e-mail me @ cookiemonster0869@yahoo.com i want to help you.

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Hi Sam! I need help on getting a guy to like me (NEED MAJOR ADVICE!). Lame, yeah. I know. Anyway, I need help. I have this magazine that has an article that is 25 Ways To Get His Attention and I've followed almost every one. Even the wear PINK thing. I think I've grabbed his attention in the last week, but I really can't tell. So, either he likes me or not. How do I tell? I'm a chick and I'm 13... >.>;;

Sweetie, First the magizine thing you shouldn't do if he likes you he should like you for who you are, not what Seventeen or CosmoGirl makes you. Second, the only way you're ever going to know if he likes you is to ASK HIM , the worst that could happen is he can say "we will just be friends", hun your're 13 there will be sooo many more guys to choose from. In all honesty the best thing i can tell you is you don't need a guy to make you happy. All they do is tear you up and let you go.

-Sam-

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ya well no easy way to put this so im jus comin out with it. Ive got this girl id go so far as to say im in love with, but she says to me something like thats why i never look into your eyes....and im thinking to myself what she means? and then she says to me "because i may fall for you an i dotn want to." an i guess i understnd that but it does hurt rilly bad and its lead me to do some dumbassed
things....like drink myself almost into a coma...more than once. and she knows about that and
well to say the least she is pissed at me and that dosent help at all. im jus starting to think im never gonna have the slightest chance with her but
that dont matter to me im always gonna have it there for this girl, and ill be the first to admit that ive done some dumb crap to screw our even friendship relationship up. and then when i see her at school i try as hard as i can to cover up how deeply depressed i am but i think she sees it in me. I jus dont know what to do about this
any advice would be great i jus need some if any.

If you really like her you should tell her, and if you have then maybe she's not ready for a relationship. Keep on her tho and stay close friends, most girls like guys they don't have to impress for him to like her, and if she is comfortable with you that makes it better, btw drinking wont help that. Take time and you mite get her.

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Does anyone know how to interpret dreams or w/e?
(Sorry it is so long, but it is interesting) Well, if you think you can help here it is:

I was in a car with a few eighth graders I knew pretty well (this is probably because I was in a play with them last night) One of the eighth grders was driving (kelsey) and so we went riding around for a while. I can't clearly remeber where we stopped, but I know we stopped somewhere. I got out, and came back in. While I was trying to buckle my seatbelt, Kelsey was buckling hers as well (she was still driving) and the car started to slide down a hill that broke off into a cliff. At the bottom was a shallow river. We tried the brakes but they didnt work in time. The car slid down and landed in the river. None of us were hurt. It was actually kind of thrilling.
So we get out of the car as it begins to float down the river (at this point in the dream it is more like a van) It stops at one point (again I can't remeber) and we get out on this dock-barge thing. We enter what appears to be a big mall. At the enterance it has stores, all with perfect before their name(example: Perfect Fine Jewlery)
We were walking through and stuff and then the next part I remeber is that there were none of our parents there and we were sort of releaved. Then my friend Liz (who hadn't been in the car before) was there and she met this really nice guy. They were PERFECT for each other. Then I met this guy, and so both she and I were going out with them.The funny thing was, that "mall"
was actually the whole town. It was all indoors. Then my chorus teacher (who had directed the play) was there and said we needed to find a way to get home. We stayed a few weeks because we couldn't bare to leave everyone that we had become friends with. Then we left (I forget how we got home-I think I woke up then)but not before Liz and I each kissed outr "men" and said the sad goodbyes.

I know. Weird, right? I also write ( I won this kids in print contest before and have also writeen many plays) and was wondering if this would make a good story if I substitute some names and (obviously go more in depth and come up with a better theme) I WILL RATE 5'S FOR ANYONE WHO ANSWERS!!!

I would definatly do it , who knos maybe one day u will get published

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I know this is long but please don't skip it. Ok, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years and we've known each other for 4. I just had a baby by him. He's willing to help and he's been trying but the problem is my parents. They are extremely religious and they said that he could have nothing to do with the baby. I was 16 at the time I got pregnant and he was 20. I am now almost 18 and he's 23. My parents said that if he got involved at all with Christian, our son, then they would have him arrested for rape. They said that the only way he can get involved is if he comes and asks for "my hand in marriage" We're not in love though and it's not right to marry someone just because your parents want you to. We know that we made a mistake but we are trying to be responsible about it. But my parents are making it difficult. My father is always at work and my mom is sick now so things are tough around here. I wanted to call my bf and see if he could take christian until things got better or maybe we could work something out but my dad flipped out and said that if i did he would have him arrested. They also took my keys and I had to listen to a lecture about jesus to get them back. They said that they would rather put Christian up for adoption than have him go to his father. My question is can my bf get arrested for rape even though it was a while ago and I dont' want him to be? And also if they put him up for adoption wouldn't his father get rights to him anyways?

Please help me

*will rate high*

even tho u out urself in this possition. yes he can get arrested for statuatory rape, and yes he has first rights to christian before adoption, and jw wht religion are u?

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I was just curious to know if it was wierd that Im in 8th grade and have never had a first kiss? Part of it is that I am too nervous but I just wanted to know...ThAnX I RaTe HiGh!! Maddie 15/f

no hun ur not alone and it dosn't really matter either cause ur first "real" kiss is around this age anyways

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well about a month ago..my firend lorena had a party...it was so much fun..and nothing but lots and lots of dancing! well this guy scott picked me, and we were dacing! towards the end of the party, scott came up to me and introduced himself. i knew he was older, so before he got to ask my number i told him 2 ask me how old i am..he did..and i told him im only 14...she got all surprised n like walked off because he was dissapointed..before he left the party, he was like well you are very pretty, i had fun dancing wit you, but your juss too young for me...
now..last weekend my frend jessica seen him at another party, he asked for my number..and she gave him it..
this week @ skool, ive been talking to my frends (which are scotts friends too) they told me he has a 2 month old baby..and still talks to his baby-mama...
then tuesdae comes..and he texts me...so we texted that whole nite...n yesterday he shows up at my school...and he juss wasnt cute!..he looked so different from what i remember @ that party...i dont know what to do..because he is 18...with a baby...and hes trying to talk 2 me!...my frends dont like him...but i just dont know!

the only thing u can do is get out of that relationship. dancing with a guy is ok, hun im 14 too and i kno it's hard. I had a boyfriend who had a one year old son and i didnt think to get out of that relationship, i loved the baby more then i loved him. don't keep talking to him. you could cause a bigger mess if u do.

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