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wut 2 do??...
well about a month ago..my firend lorena had a party...it was so much fun..and nothing but lots and lots of dancing! well this guy scott picked me, and we were dacing! towards the end of the party, scott came up to me and introduced himself. i knew he was older, so before he got to ask my number i told him 2 ask me how old i am..he did..and i told him im only 14...she got all surprised n like walked off because he was dissapointed..before he left the party, he was like well you are very pretty, i had fun dancing wit you, but your juss too young for me...
now..last weekend my frend jessica seen him at another party, he asked for my number..and she gave him it..
this week @ skool, ive been talking to my frends (which are scotts friends too) they told me he has a 2 month old baby..and still talks to his baby-mama...
then tuesdae comes..and he texts me...so we texted that whole nite...n yesterday he shows up at my school...and he juss wasnt cute!..he looked so different from what i remember @ that party...i dont know what to do..because he is 18...with a baby...and hes trying to talk 2 me!...my frends dont like him...but i just dont know!
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the only thing u can do is get out of that relationship. dancing with a guy is ok, hun im 14 too and i kno it's hard. I had a boyfriend who had a one year old son and i didnt think to get out of that relationship, i loved the baby more then i loved him. don't keep talking to him. you could cause a bigger mess if u do.
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i wouldnt get involved just yet and your not sure if you like him or not. and he has a baby and he needs to take care of his child. if he starts another relationship with someone then he might not spend as mich time with the baby as he should. tell him that your not sure at the moment and make your own decision its your choice not your friends.
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wow sweetie.. thats a lot to think about... well first things first, if you are 14 and he is 18 that is a huge age gap.. you should really think about what you are getting your self into, its alot of pressure to be with a guy that much older than you, expecialy when you are only 14... also.. your friends know you alot better then you think they do (usually) and if they say they dont like him then there is probaly something behind that resoning and you should really just listen tot hem.. your friends are always more impotant than a guy... also if he has a kid that means he has a history of getting girls pregnat now i do not know this guy and maybe it is different then it is but you dont want to end up like his baby's mom... however on a good note if he is still talking to the mom then he is a good, respectable guy and if he still takes care of the baby then you know that he cares and was not just going out to get her knocked up... b4 you decied anything you should just imagian what your life might be like with him in it then once you have done that then you can make a decision.. no one can really tell you what to do but you... so good luck sweetie...
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you might just inform him that he could go to jail if he doesn't leave you alone. That should cool his jets a little. If they don't then inform the school authorities that he is bugging you. It's their job to get rid of him. :)
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Be friends don't be more. Attraction towards just looks are very fatile.
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Dont worry, im just as confused as you are.
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He is not too old for you at all, that is a good healthy age difference. He is far more mature than guys your age, and he has a child that he takes care of! That shows that if you ever got pregnant he would be there for you! Aww. Sure, he could be scum, but from what you've said he sounds like a very nice guy. If a guy is scum he will tell you, you just have to know how to listen. My parents are 12 years apart and my mom always said I could date someone up to 4 years older than me, so I guess I have a more relaxed opinion about this. Treat him the same as any other boyfriend--don't open your knees until he says "I do." But I think it sounds like a lovely relationship waiting to happen...go for it! It's NONE of your friends' business. If you were dating a 40-year-old, well, then I would say that your friends would have a right to be worried, but an 18 year old is nothing. Have a great time! =)
Oh yeah, remember that if you guys do get together he does have a child he needs to take care of and sometimes the baby will come first. A good girlfriend would be supportive of this and also help to raise the child.
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hes not too old for you:| age is just a number[-X make sure you keep that in mind...yes the law does forbid some relationships with minors...i mean if you do like the guy...give him a chance..dont just shut him out coz ur friends dont like him or the fact that he has a kid...you dont kno the story of that situation...for all u kno that could have been an accident and he is simply taking responsibility for his actions (that is a WONDERFUL thing not a bad one!!) a lot of guys just walk away and leave the chick on her own with his kid and that aint right he is doin the right thing...just make sure that he and his babys momma arent still a thing ya kno...just make sure its all clear like that...if you realli like him just give him a fucking chance and if you dont like him like that then just stay friends with him...even if he does have a kid...everyone needs friends and from what you have said about him he seems like a nice guy...plus it always helps to have older guy friends...overprotective guy friends...ive got friends like that... a lot of my guy friends are older than me and lets just say no guy will hurt me now...and if a guy does hurt me...he gets it bad...i love having older guy friends who are willing to watch out for ya...keep that in mind babe and best of luck with everything
~nichole~
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Well first off do you like him...? if not then just tell him your too young you dont even have to mention the baby thing.. cause you really dont want some baby mama drama with some girl.. and you dont want to become involved with any of his problems either.. you should probably leave him alone before you get hurt.. much luv dez x0x0
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he just wants to get in your pants, i mean it's obvious if he already has a child.
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I would tell the guy that he needs to get someone his own age. You are to young to date anywayz.. i would know im 14!
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tell him to leave you alone, and block his number.
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