There's this guy that I like, and everyone thinks that we like each other. Everytime someone asks me if we like each other, I say no, but I really do. We both know that everyone thinks we like each other, but I don't know if he likes me or not. Everyone thinks he does though. How should I fix this? I'm 14/Female
Additional info, added Friday April 15 2005, 7:59 pm: This is only a little bit of it though. There's actually much more to it, but I don't want to mention too much. It might get confusing.
The guy's best friend likes (or liked) me. This was a couple of months ago, but I'm not sure if he still likes me. What more important, he's his BEST FRIEND. I'm not sure what I should do about this either.... . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? LiLJaZzY answered Sunday April 17 2005, 8:22 pm: i think you should tell him you like him..and if it was meant to be it will work out and if it wasnt you wouldnt want to waste your time on something that wouldnt work out anyways right? dont mind his bestfriend..this is about you and the guy you like..you cant always be worrying about other people i mean you have one life and it should be about you because it is YOUR life.. im not saying to be a bitch or anything but there are certain times where you gotta take a risk and go for it otherwise you will never know how things coulda/shoulda/and woulda been.. and for an example last summer my friend met this girl..they both liked each other it was plenty obvious but neither of them wanted to say anything because they werent positive about the way the other person felt..but then the girl had to move far away and later that summer he found out the girl was practically in love with him..u dont wanna feel that way do u? i say GO FOR IT!! add me to your friends and let me know how it goes! xOx [ LiLJaZzY's advice column | Ask LiLJaZzY A Question ]
Teza answered Saturday April 16 2005, 12:05 am: You will never know if he likes you unless you ask him or one of your or his friends does. Stop saying no. Just admit that you like him since people can already tell so dont lie about it. x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
Aunty_Anna answered Friday April 15 2005, 5:40 pm: What are you so shy about? if he doesn't like you he doesn't like you, but you don't know he doesn't! the only way you'll find out is if you have confidence enough to talk to him and tell him how you feel! even if the answer isn't what you're looking for... its better to try than regret! Good Luck! [ Aunty_Anna's advice column | Ask Aunty_Anna A Question ]
karenR answered Friday April 15 2005, 5:40 pm: Stop saying no. Go ask him what he thinks about all the gossip about you two. Good excuse to start a conversation. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
lilchicka101 answered Friday April 15 2005, 4:47 pm: If you like him then dont lie about it, if someone asks you just say you do and make sure it gets around to him then you can bring up the topic and it wont be a surprise to him at all and you can see if he has somethin to say about it. good luck hun! [ lilchicka101's advice column | Ask lilchicka101 A Question ]
ShYbl0nD3 answered Friday April 15 2005, 4:25 pm: the easyest way to fix this is to just go upp to him and ask. Or call him.. but its probably easyer going up to his face beacuse you can see his expressions, where when ur on the fone.. u cant.
xSavannahLx answered Friday April 15 2005, 4:20 pm: Okay...
Well, If It Seems Like He Does, He Probablly Does. If You All Are Friends, And He Doesn't Act Like It Bothers Him, Well, He Most Defanitly Does. Ask His Close Friends, Or If You Are Not A Shy Girl, Tell Him To Be Honest And Talk To Him About It. But Don't Tell Him You LOVE Him Right Off Start, Just Let Him Kinda Know. If You Tell Guys That Stuff It Will Make Them Sort Of Scared. Well, Hope I Helped!=))
Thank Yah=)
Savannah [ xSavannahLx's advice column | Ask xSavannahLx A Question ]
EGCiviccoupe answered Friday April 15 2005, 3:37 pm: Talk to him about it. Im sure once the topic gets going youw ill know if he does or not. Just go for it. You only live once :).... say something along the lines of
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