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my friend says she is always excluded but thats not true and its really annoying when i go to ride my bike with some friends and she gets upset cuz we did not invite her well she lives to far away and does not know how to ride a bike this is a really bothering me what should i do to make her see she is never excluded???
Tell her its a two way process, if she wants to do something, and next time she has a ride to your house or something then just tell her to call you, i mean if she cant pick up a phone herself then that's her problem. But do try to remember her every once and a while, like when you go to movies or arent really riding around too much just chilling at someones house. good luck!
okay so my ex-boyfriend cheated on me, but i still love him and i wana talk to him again cuz its hard to jus forget bout him. and this new boy that im feelin, i feel like hes just using me. he says he loves me though. what should i do?
Girl he cheated on you, i know you really wanna forgive him and forget that he did it but truth is you cant trust him with that kinda stuff right now, just keep him as a friend, and maybe if he grows up sometime you'll be there. I say you give the new guy a chance, you never know if he's using you or not, but just take it slow with him and if he cant put up with your slow pace then let em go!
lately, i've felt really sad, and i've felt all alone. i'm 8th grade/f, and i feel like a guy could fill up a space :( what can i do??
-all alone-
Have a fun night out with the girls, and bring up the topic about guys and see who they think is hot or sweet then check em out at school and try to start hanging around a guy or go with another girl that knows the guy better and you can just strike up a convo and see how it goes. then after you know he knows who you are and can start hanging around him your self just start making little comments and stuff see if they take the hint. Just trying to get close enough to a guy will help and you got someone to think about so you arent as lonely. good luck and hope you feel better and happy!
well, some stuff just happened and my crush asked me out. so we're gonna try the whole dating thing.
before, we went out for a day but he broke up with me. he told that it was cause he wasnt sure what i wanted out of the relationship and was worried about how to handle things.
anywho, now he told me he wants something "more" and not like..an occasional see him at school and hug in halllways. so now i'm pondering. the next time i see him and spend time with him should i make the first move or wait for him to?
i'm afraid if i wait he might break up with me again, but if i don't and kiss him or something, he might take it as i'm too eager and such.
so, should i be the one to make the first move?
See where it goes, next time your with him try and watch his actions and if he's getting nervous or looking for a time to do something with you. If you really dont know then just start off small, like grab his hand when he's sitting by you, or give a peck on the cheek when your in a hug, or lay your head on his shoulder, something like that. It will help build up the compfort level between you two, and maybe give him the courage to make the bigger move. hope it works out!
Ok first of all...this is really long but please read it because i really want some help. My dad has seemed to be a lot more meaner all of a sudden. Well hes always been mean sometimes but I mean hes just started to become physicaly mean. I was downstairs before because I was checking his email because a friend of mines mom was emailing him. So, I kept going down there to check it. (while he was on the phone down there) He started to get really annoyed and started yelling (like almost silently so of course the person on the phone couldnt hear him) and he just freaked out. He got off the phone with the person..and I walked passed him because I was going to go upstairs. He grabbed my arm and goes Whats your problem? And I said you! And hes like why? And I said nothing and attempted to go back upstairs. But he gripped me harder and it hurt because it was like squeezing my skin together and burning. Then he like grabbed my whole body and was pulling me towards him saying come onnn give me a hugg..Aliciaaa what is wrong. And he just wouldnt let me go upstairs. I was like uhh what the heck..whats so bad of me wanting to go upstairs? But yeah he just kept gripping onto me. And yeah I was of course trying to fight back and was quietly screaming. When I went upstairs my mom goes..what was going on down there? And I said dad wouldnt let me go..and he wouldnt let me go upstairs. She goes pff yeah right uh huh. And I was like he did!! didnt you hear me yelling?? He was gripping onto my arms. And she just kept saying riight im sure. And just now we were eating dinner in the living room and his business phone rang. He went and picked it up and goes..blah blah blah..then goes to go turn down the volume on the tv. And I go ooohh my goooshh..now we cant even eat dinner without you having to be involved with your business? (he is wayyy overly obsessed and its all he cares about..and no matter where we are he will always talk about it) He didnt answer me and gave the phone to my mom. Then he came over to me and did his little silent yelling thing and goes..you shut the h*ll up! And I go oh my gosh im just trying to eat dinner. And he just kept telling me to shut up. Then for some STUPID reason he grabbed my plate and took it out to the kitchen. I go oh my gosh what are you doing?? Now I cant even eat?!? He came back out to me and grabbed my arm tightly and it burned again and he pulled me out to the kitchen. He goes you eat this out here. Then I tried to leave the kitchen because I was going to go up to my room..but he wouldnt let me and just kept pushing me back. Then I finally went up to my room and slammed the door and locked it. He came up and got it unlocked and came in and goes..what the h*ll do you think your doing? Shes trying to talk on the phone and all your doing is yelling. I was like oh my gosh you were the one who was yelling and who started it. you didnt havvve to answer the phone..and even when were eating dinner! and hes like bulls**t blah blah blah. Then I kept saying..get out of my room! And I pushed him out. Now he keeps coming back up here and asking..did I leave the remote in here? and I go no...and he just stood there and then left. Then he came back up and was like it has to be in here...and then he searched all over. It was stupid because we both know he didnt bring it up here..and I was just like uhh what the heck?? He just seems to like to start fights and likes to keep bringing it back up. My mom doesnt believe what I say..mostly because I think she would be too scared to say anything to him. So, she just pretends to not believe it and doesnt do anything about it. He is not a alcoholic. He just gets mad easy and for stupid things. Do you think hes becoming abusive? What should I do??
wow, ya if my dad did something like that id freek, i dont think its really abusive i think its more fusterating for him, my mom and dad get so flustered with me cuz i got a mouth of my own now and can fight back. He probably is getting stressed out and doesnt know how else to make you pay attention, tell your mom that you think the family should change the rules around a little bit like, dad cant work during supper and stuff liek that, if he starts getting worse at all make sure you have an adult lined up to go to and help you. also tell your dad when he's in a better mood that when he does stuff like that, it scares you and would appreciate it if he didnt do that again. Hope it gets better, just remember to have patients and try to take it in more then spit it out when your getting yelled at for dumb reasons! GOOD LUCk
i like this guy and he is sweet, attractive, and is so nice. He's funny and tall. One problem, got a girlfriend. He is so sweet tho and he pays more attention to me then his gf even tho i'm only his friend. Too bad his gf is my friend but not a really good one. He always flirts with me and i flirt back but is this ok?
Ya go ahead flirt wit him, find out that he likes you for sure. but once it starts getting a little more serious just tell him that your not gunna be the type to get in the middle of a relationship so if he wants to mess around with you hes gotta get rid of her. if he doesnt dump her then forget about it and move on
hi im 15 and i have long hair, like every other guy at school. but it looks really bad, like its always messed up when i wake up. it looks good with a hat on, but without nething..*twitch* ne ideas to what i can do to make it look good in like 5-10 minutes? thx
if you dont look good in it then why bother? go for your own style man dont follow everyone else, by the time you start gettin it to look good everyone is gunna have long hair and chicks wont like it anymore. CUT IT OFF
ok so i like this guy ALOT we hold hands at school and are togteher all the time. he likes me alot too. hes so sweet. but we BOTH jsut got out of long relationships and don't want a relationship right now. but its practically like we are going out. and EVERYONE is asking BOTH of us.. "do you like her??" "do you like him??" "i heard u like him..are you going out!?" like seriously soo much people...people i barely even KNOW..its getting soo annoying. i usualy just say yea i do...but its getting super annoying. how can this stop..i dont want to be rude or make it seem like i dont like him but people need to mind their own freaking business!
if you both like eachother alot then what's stopping you, what, are you gunna go around flirting with other guys just to be free or something? i dont get it just go out with him, forget the past. that way people know you like eachother and you are going out, no more questions asked.
I don't know why but I am scared of love, but I want it so bad. I am 19 and have still never had a boyfriend or even a first kiss because I want my first kiss to be special. I am considered an attractive girl and guys like me and I like them too but I won't let anything happen because I personally feel like I don't carry enough self-confidence which my friends get angry about. I think I worry about life in general and I'm scared that I'll just end up alone forever. What should I do?
It's better to start learning now before later, hearts heal and for every guy you loose another one ten times better comes along. And dont worry about first kiss either! It's not first kiss in general that's most meaningful its the first kiss between two people that start that spark. I bet you most people think they're first kiss was not with someone truly 'special' and they prolly think it was a dumb boy to do it with but thats ok cuz our lips dont break they'll be just as good for the next guy that comes along. Your pretty girl! guys like you! A lot of people would wish for that! take it as a gift and start the lessons on relationships that will help you find mr right in the end!
What do you do if you find yourself more and more each day, liking a guy who does not believe in God? I am a christian and I have my morals, standards and beliefs and he doesn't meet my number one standard which is believeing in God and having a relationship with him but, on the other hand, I am so drawn to him I can't help it.He's a really great guy but should we just stay friends and nothing more?
Aren't we here to spread God's love? I mean that's something i hear everyday in church, and this is your chance, you can bring God in his life or show him how it all works, i mean if it's love with you two then nothing can get between it and he'll listen to you and im sure if you were to get married or watever he would have no problem going to church with you even if his childhood didnt have god in it. hope it all works out and you find out what you wanna do!
ok, i have a really good friend of another race that i had no doubt at all was gay. he was always checking out other guys and stuff so of course..duh, i thot he way gay. so we were really good friends and then all of a sudden he told me the DAY BEFORE april fools that he had had a really bad crush on me since the beguinning of last year. k, it TOTALLY threw me by suprise b/c i thot he was GAY!! so ne ways i though he was joking cos the next day was april fools but he wasn't kidding at all!!! so he kept stalking me and wouldn't leave me alone. he would always be like "have you though about it yet, you're taking FOREVER!!" but my mom just got home from the hospital from a really stressful and long-recovery surgery and she JUST now started walking. so i've been distracted obviously with my mom. so ne ways i was doing this filming project for school and he was stalking me the entire time. we were filming and he'd just be standing there looking around doing nothing, watching what we were doing when we all asked him to leave like 30 minutes ago, but he wouldn't leave. so finally we finished the project and i needed to change out of this crazy costume i was in so i told him "hey, i need to change into my regular clothes." an he just tood there starring at me, then he goes "well then?" like i was ACCTUALLY going to do it in front of him! so i told him he needed to go outside and he was all pissy about it. so then while i was changing i saw him STARRING AT ME THROUGH THE WINDOW WHILE I WAS CHANGING MY TOP!! oh my gosh it was so horrible! i felt so violated! and he's still been stalking me and saying "hey, how's your day?" to me in the hallway like we're going out even though it should be pretty clear to him that we're NOT!! so how do i tell this guy to get lost and leave me alone? i don't want to hurt his feelings, but then again he was starring at me while i was changing so i kind of do. ne suggestions? what should i say? i rate high
Damn i would be scared! You have to get it through his head that it's not gunna happen! Tell him that it's fine to be friends but hes gotta start acting like a friend more then someone thats trying to bang ya at any possible moment! and if he cant act appropriate then he's gotta go. I know you might feel really bad about it, but what has to be done has to be done ya kno? Good luck! and remember if all else fails, restraining orders can always be done,make sure he doesnt go any further then he has!
ok...i went out with this guy for a while on and off then finally we just stopped going out...then one of my friends went out wit him and i wasnt that comfortable at first but then got used to it but still thoguht about him..they broke up for a couple days and i started liking him again..but they got back together..and i still have feelings for him...whut should i do!?
let her have a chance..i mean something obviously didnt work out before so maybe you should let him move on for a while and you should too, and then if it doesnt work out between him and your friend and you still dont have anything going with someone else then give it a go, but you never know what else is out there. i mean, you've already had a lick, its time to try some new flavors! you get what im saying? if its ment to be it'll work out in the end.
Ok so I have a good amount of friends and everything... but I am a bit shy. I just know I'd have WAY more friends if I was more outgoing. It's just really hard for me. Can I have advice on how to become more outgoing... and what I should do? Thanks.
-Hopeful
Just dont think about what other people are going to think of you! Say what comes in your head and act like everyone is your friend, even if they're super annoying. If what you say is really retarded it's fine people will like you for making them laugh, if what you say is smart then people will like you for knowing whats going on. you get where im going? no matter what you'll be fine, and you already have friends that know the real you so you have absalutley nothing to loose. have fun!
there is this girl named Courtney and she as a crush on my boyfriend. Well he has track with her and sits with her at lunch sometimes. Well she knows me and him are going out and she flirted with him right infront of me yesterday and then has the nerve to talk shit about me and give me dirty looks! Well me and her got into it but it was only words being said. My boyfriend yelled at me for yelling at her! He said that if I hit her at all that me and him are done! We I don't know what I should do.. its complicated! Please help!
.: Miss Confused :.
Hey! it's fine he's going out with you not her,if he didnt like you over everyother girl then he wouldnt be going with you,but if you dont think thats the case then just tell him that you dont like it when he lets her do stuff like that, and u know he can have friends that are girls but its starting to look a little more then that to you. dont go blaming them of stuff though or they'll get defensive, just try and sound sweet about it and if he still doesnt do anything then screw him! hes an asshole if doesnt even try and change the ways between him and the other girl ya know? good luck babe! hope it turns out for the best
Last year I was on the track team on the four by 100 meter relay. It was awesome and I loved it. This year was not the same. I was absent for a few days and missed my chance to be on the relay team. Another girl, who I happen to not really like, got on the team. This is her first year to be in sports and she honestly thinks she's better than everyone. She's one of those girl's whose egos are bigger than their wardrobe. I was upset, yes, because I wanted to be on the team not her. I was mad and her and I got in a little fight. I got over it quickly because I realized that it was stupid of me to be upset, but she got her "BFF" involved. A few days after the last track meet her BFF posted this in her xanga hope you did great at the track meet w/ YOUR relay team..and showed kristin whos relay team that really is..! (because we ALL know its not hers)... I'm upset, but I don't know what to do? Am i right to be upset?
dang, ya go ahead and be mad you couldnt be on the team, but since your not then just leave it alone if you know your better then the girl then thats fine but you dont need to start a fight when truth is there is nothing you can do about it! so just sit back and move on. Wait until next year then you can show her that she isnt all that when your on the team too. you get wat im saying? sorry girl i know it sucks to have to sit back and grit your teeth, but i hope you can stick through it.
There's this guy that I like, and everyone thinks that we like each other. Everytime someone asks me if we like each other, I say no, but I really do. We both know that everyone thinks we like each other, but I don't know if he likes me or not. Everyone thinks he does though. How should I fix this? I'm 14/Female
If you like him then dont lie about it, if someone asks you just say you do and make sure it gets around to him then you can bring up the topic and it wont be a surprise to him at all and you can see if he has somethin to say about it. good luck hun!
I think I am pregnant what do I do what are the other side effects beside a missed peiord please help me out
theres these clinics around that take free pregnancy tests and keep it private, some of them have different systems where if u do something like watch a movie on pregnancys then u can get free stuff for the baby, just look it up in the phonebook. good luck
omg i just got braces like this morning and they are kind of sore..will anyone give me some advice on what to do and how to floss and all that stuff?? thanksss
advil, use the stuff the ppl give u to floss good luck