Member Since: April 8, 2005
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Last Update: April 8, 2005
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We recentley got rid of my beloved pet, Mac. He was a yellow lab, 6months old and like 154 pounds. i loved hime so much and whenever i think about him or ee pics of him i start to cry. How can i get over this? (link)
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Losing a pet is like losing a loved one. Whenever anyone loses a beloved pet, emotion often overcomes us. I'd like to be the great adivisor who could help you, but in once losing a beloved pet myself, I can't. All I can tell you is what helped pull me through to this very day. I keep every picture and write down every fond memory I had with that animal. It may not bring your pet back and it certainly wont help the pain, but remembering the good times, even if you're fighting back tears, I promise, that you'll always have a smile on your face. When you feel ready enough, and if your living quarters allow it, I'd suggest getting a animal of the same type. The best way to keep the memory of your beloved pet alive, if you can handle it, name him MacII. Some can't handle that, because it reminds them too much of their lost pet, but if you can, it helped me remember my lost pet, maybe it'll help you too.
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ok well my bf and i have been going out for about 2 mounths. well a couple days ago i found out that about a day after we were going out he made out w/ my best friend(brigitte) at my other friends house(austin). well b4 i knew this my bf and i were at a party and we made out and stuff and it made my friend(brigitte) that had madeout w/ him a couple weeks b4 really mad at me and i had no clue wut was going on! and so i found out wut had happened and i was mad too for a while but i got over it but my other freind kinda hasnt and she is like my best friend!!!!! i dont kno wut to do... dump my boyfriend or dump my best freind? HELP! (link)
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No matter what happens in life, your friends should always come first. True friends will forgive all in good time. But that does not mean dump the boyfriend right away. Confront him first and ask him why he would do this to you AND her. This isn't just about your relationship with him and it's not just about your friendship with her. This involves all three of you. First, even before you confront him, apologize to her. You may not feel like you did anything wrong, but it will make her feel better knowing you care enough to do something unneeded to make her feel better. Explain to her what happened and that you're sorry for not explaining to her what was going on. Once you two have patched everything up, take her with you to confront your boyfriend. Each of you (including the boyfriend) explain your side of the story, without inturupting eachother. Talk everything out, and decide on where your relationship is going. Be careful though, no one likes to lose a best friend.
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It'z not really confused. I just couldnt think of another way to put it at the momentI been with my boyfriend for almost 3 months now. We had kindergarten together, and although i dont really remember him, honestly, my gramma said i used 2 come home and talk about him. This was said after everyone found out that he first started liking me in kindergarten [which i didnt even think we were old enough for feelings then lol but whatever]. Anyway...even tho it hasnt even been that long since we've been together, it just seems like this is it. I've went thru plenty of n****z to kno whatz right and what aint..and this aint lust. Everyone keeps tellin me that u cant kno love after this short period of time, and that we just aint thinkin right. I honestly love him, and I kno he does too, [i'm a nosy broad, i talk to hiz boyz]. He asked me how i feel about him, and all of a sudden i dont know what to say (link)
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This is always a hard feeling to understand. After all, love is an extreme emotion. Most likely, the reason you don't know what to say, is because finally people have convinced you that you're not in love. In my personal opinion, love has no age boundaries, love is with that one special person made only for you. Some people search all there lives and still don't find that person. That is why when adult lovers finally find eachother, it is so amazing. I beleive that most likely, your peers and/or family members do not believe that it is love because they either have not found there person or believe that they had to search so long for their match that it is impossible for you to find yours. Others believe, that because most teens and young adults get extremely attached to someone and sooon get bored, and knowing this, they want to spear us the hurt that they believe is coming. Trust me, I know what love feels like,and there are no age boundaries.
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What do I do if I like a guy but you don't know if he likes you? (link)
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Well, to be honest, there's never a good answer to that question. Most people would tell you to write a note or have a friend tell him. Guys admire courage. So, I would tell you to gather all your courage and tell him straight out. Some of out there, I know from experience, don't have the courage to walk up to someone and be so blunt. If you're one of these people, just drop hints here or there. Invite him over some time, get concert tickets and invite him (if you can afford them), get to know him a little better. If he bites, reel him in. If not, I'd say it's best to move on.
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