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There is this girl..
there is this girl named Courtney and she as a crush on my boyfriend. Well he has track with her and sits with her at lunch sometimes. Well she knows me and him are going out and she flirted with him right infront of me yesterday and then has the nerve to talk shit about me and give me dirty looks! Well me and her got into it but it was only words being said. My boyfriend yelled at me for yelling at her! He said that if I hit her at all that me and him are done! We I don't know what I should do.. its complicated! Please help!
.: Miss Confused :.
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say to your boyfriend..
WHY DO YOU CARE IF I HIT HER OR NOT? OR EVEN IF I HAVE OSMETHIGN TO SAY ABOUT IT.. WHY SHOULDNT I? YOUR MY BOYFRIEND ARNT YOU? WHY DONT YOU JUST GO OUT WITH HER IF YOU CARE SO MUCH ABOUT HER THEN?!?!
---or something along those lines..lol just make it clear how you feel because if ask me courtney is a bitch and your boyfriend..hes a jerkk BIG TIME
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you can play his game too! get with some boy and flirt with him in front of your boyfriend..see how he reacts if he gets mad that means he cares! ( thats a good thing ) if he doesnt..just keep your eyes open the right guy will come along
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ditch him! he sounds like a jerk, someone who flirts and spends time with another girl besides his GF, is not truly a good bf nor into you nor a good person!
you will find someone perfect for you,who understands and only loves you!
~Chris
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dump him he sucks!
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It seems like every girl I know who's name is Courtney is a witch. Tell your boyfriend not to hang around her. She has no right to flirt with your man. I don't blame you about wanting to punch her, I would too, but don't do it. It will give her plesure to see you mad. Good luck
Daisyswim
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He is evidently friends with Courtney. His reaction is why I always advise not to confront the other girl. Make him do it if you have a problem. Becauase they always seem to be the ones to get the sympathy!
You need to ask your boyfriend exactly what This other girl means to him. If he say's nothing, then you'll just have to trust him. Keep away from her as much as possible because she will probably try and bait you now. Good luck :)
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Talk to him hun.. tall him he also should talk to his friend Courtney about how she needs to respect your relationship with you and him.. and if he doesnt do that he most likely likes that she flirts with him or whatever.. or maybe all three of you guys talk about this together..much luv dez x0x0
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You need to tell him that its over. If he isnt going to see that she is saying all this shit about you and that she hates you, then he is nothing!!! and you deserve better. I think he still has feelings for her thats why there such good mates. Tell him its over and slap her one.
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I think your boyfriend doesn't love you and obviously likes Courtney than you. So I guess you should talk to him and ask him, who he would choose Courtney or you. If he chooses Courtney, just stay away from them and meet someone who's better to you. If he chooses you then tell him straight that you don't like the way Courtney is flirting with him and better stay away from Courtney or else you would ease out of the relationship.
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I HATE people that just don't understand the meaning of boyfriend and girlfriend. It means they're friggin TAKEN, not open for sale.
You need to talk to her ASAP and tell her what's up. Don't yell and go crazy. Just calmly tell her you love your boyfriend and you don't want anything to come between your relationship. Ask her to stop flirting with him because it makes you very insecure and uncomfortable.
I understand why your boyfriend said if you hit her the relationship is over. Think of it this way...who would want an abusive girlfriend that is too protective? So do not get violent and do not try to use bad words and etc.
That doesn't mean you should let it be though. Make sure this girl stops hitting on your man, calmly. Key word is 'calmly'. Also, you need to talk to your boyfriend and tell him exactly how you are feeling. You probably can't get Courtney out of his life completely, but you can try to get him to keep his distance a little bit more from her. If he does nothing about this situation, I don't think he's as great as you thought he was. A good boyfriend will care about your feelings.
Personally, my boyfriend is really sweet and really cares about our relationship so he has made an effort to talk to this girl (She's a slut, attention whore, and a huge flirt) I dislike VERY much as less as possible.
Just remember that every girl that may cause some trouble between you and your boyfriend is a TEST. Either way, you WIN and SHE loses. If your boyfriend goes for her, then you know he's not the right one and that she gets an unreliable guy. If he stays with you, you know you have found the right guy and she lost. See? It's all good. I discovered this when the girl I dislike (the one I mentioned above) caused some trouble for me. I hope it all works out.
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.:Miss Confused:.,
Dump that jerk and make courtney's life a living hell!
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PiNkPrInCeSs_001
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Ignore Courtney and dump him, because it seems to me like they like each other more than he likes you. I don't like saing stuff like that but its true.
h.i.h.
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tell him what for and explain the situation to him.
-hitler
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what a whore! HE choses her over you ..his own gf...to sit with at lunch?! you need to get your man in check and talk to him girl!! just be like...ok why don't you yell at courtney for talking shit about me and giving me dirty looks? are you just going to take her side? or just ask him whats up and why is he being like this..ask him if he likes her...but do it alone and in person..and dont be angry. just calmly tlel him you need to know because if he likes her then its over! because it kind of sounds to me that he likes her. and if he keeps it up...go hangout with the guys while hes with her..give him a taste of his own medicene..but that will jsut cause more probs. talk to him first..and see whats up..and tell her to stay the hell out of your relationships!
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Hey! it's fine he's going out with you not her,if he didnt like you over everyother girl then he wouldnt be going with you,but if you dont think thats the case then just tell him that you dont like it when he lets her do stuff like that, and u know he can have friends that are girls but its starting to look a little more then that to you. dont go blaming them of stuff though or they'll get defensive, just try and sound sweet about it and if he still doesnt do anything then screw him! hes an asshole if doesnt even try and change the ways between him and the other girl ya know? good luck babe! hope it turns out for the best
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Well, you shouldn't hit people anyway, so you shouldn't be stuck in that category, but as for why he's telling you he'll leave you if you hit her is hard. Shouldn't it be, if she hits you, their friendship is over? Not vise versa? Don't jump to conclusions, just think it through. She likes him more than a friend as you've obviously seen her flirt with him, but does he flirt back? If he flirts back and you think he likes her as well, you might need to have a talk with him. Ask him calmly and politly if he might like Courtney more than a friend. He might just be a really protective friend, and if that's the case and nothing more, so be it. That's how it's going to be. They will just be close friends, but if he doesn't feel the same way about her, Courtney is bound to give up sometime.
-Therocket♥
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