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love is weird
i like this guy and he is sweet, attractive, and is so nice. He's funny and tall. One problem, got a girlfriend. He is so sweet tho and he pays more attention to me then his gf even tho i'm only his friend. Too bad his gf is my friend but not a really good one. He always flirts with me and i flirt back but is this ok?
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When you flirt as long as you don't mean anything then it is okay. But if you guys flirt and mean something then I think he should leave his girlfriend and go with you.
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~*MaRiYa*~
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well um................. not really only because he has a gf but maybe she should have a talk with hm and tell him how u feel!
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yea its fine. if you like it then just dont tell his gf and keep on letting him flirt. i for one would enjoy this.
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Flirtting is okay. So long as he has a girlfriend though I wouldn't take it further. It wouldn't be fair to her or you. If they break up though...talk to him. :)
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Well think how would you like if he was your boyfriend and was doing that with another girl that was some sort of friend to you..? MMMMMM wonders...you wouldnt like it.. you'd be pissed if you found out.. if he likes you more then her he should hook up with you before this girl gets hurt or yourself gets hurt cause he could eventually give you all these signs that he likes you then all the sudden you realize you was a fool for fallen and actually thinkin you had a chance.. so talk to him about this before you or his girl gets her.. also respect like you'd wanna be respected about the whole thing..much luv dez x0x0
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I think that its not ok to flirt because he is your friends boy friend. Stop flirting you will feel better because if he breaks up with her then you can ask her if she would mind you asking him out.
luv roxie
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Flirting will really get you in trouble especially when a guy is involved with someone else. Try to not flirt with him back and stay out of the two and notice what his reaction would be. If he'll be sad or he'll ask you why you're staying out then that's a good sign. He noticed you. If he doesn't mind then you need to let go. He already has a girlfriend. Just try what I told you then maybe you'll really find the answers.
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My honest opinion: It's NOT okay. Think of it this way, would YOU like to have YOUR boyfriend be flirting around with someone else? That'd be hurtful doncha agree? He and his girlfriend are going out so they probably have a strong attraction in the first place. I don't think it'd be a good idea to try and break it up. Just stay friends with him and stay far away from flirting with him.
And here's another way to look at it. If he flirts with someone else while he has a girlfriend of his own, what makes you think he can't do that if YOU were his girlfriend?
So either way, it might be best to just keep out of it. Good luck!
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Ya go ahead flirt wit him, find out that he likes you for sure. but once it starts getting a little more serious just tell him that your not gunna be the type to get in the middle of a relationship so if he wants to mess around with you hes gotta get rid of her. if he doesnt dump her then forget about it and move on
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maybe he likes you... but watch out for the gf you dont want her saying thing about you around the school or your other friends but if anything he'll come to the resscue
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Sure its okay! But its not good that he is treating his girlfriend like that but still. You cant blame him for flirting with you. If she isnt a really good friend of yours then go ahead flirt back. Nothing will happen. To me it seems like he likes you. x0
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Well, I'm Not Sure If Its The Best Thing For You To Do To A Friend. Even If Shes Not A Really Close One, Shes Still Your Friend, And You Should Just Put Yourself In Her Shoes And Just Think If You Were Dating This Certain Guy You Liked A Lot, And Your *Friend* Flirted With Him All The Time, Wouldn't You Feel Bad?. But Thats Also Wrong For The Guy To Do This To His Girlfriend. Even If He Don't Like Her That Much. He Might Be Around You All Of The Time Because He Sees You As Only A Friend.
Well, There Is Another Way To Look At It, Many People Loose Friends Like This Though, Or It Ends Up Sooo Wrong. Okay, Well Just Go On Flirting With That Boy You Like A Lot, And You All Might Date. But Honey You Can't Make Him Like You, Things Always Don't Go The Way We Want Them To. I Know That Part Of Life Sucks!. Well, I Hope I Helped!
Thank Yah!=))
Savannah
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Yes i think its fine. your not making any moves and if he didnt feel right he would stop or tell you..it sounds like their relationship is shaky and i think hes starting to like you. Just be sure not to make any moves on him or persuade him to break up with his gf..this might cause his gf to get mad at you and thats where all the drama starts. Maybe mention casually his gf and ask how they are?
-melissa-
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