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lonely...
lately, i've felt really sad, and i've felt all alone. i'm 8th grade/f, and i feel like a guy could fill up a space :( what can i do??
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i doubt that a guy could do anything for you, but you could try talking to your mom, a lot of teenage girls go through a point in their lives where they experience some mild to major depression, i'm sad to say that it's common, talk to you're mom though i'm sure that she can help
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dont woory i havnt had a bf yet
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i know what you mean i get that feeling all the time. what i do is that i just try keeping my mind off of it by concentrating on school and homework or i occupy myself by doing something else like talking to my friends on the phone. but think of it this way the person you're are meant to be with or someone who is supposed to be your future boyfriend is out there but you just haven't met him yet. Eventually you will find the person and it can happen anytime and anywhere. you can also just have fun now and enjoy life now and you shouldn't worry about having a boyfriend right now. ♥ peachgirly
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i'm sure there's a few guys who'd like to fill up that space too, hit on them.
-hitler
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be flirtatious... meet guys and talk to them alot.. i know how you feel, just hang out with your friends alot more, have fun!
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My brother is twenty three and he still hasn't found love. I'm not sure if he ever will because he pushes away everything and thinks marriage is stupid. That doesn't mean his life is worthless. You don't have to get married just to be happy. There are many people out there that are not married. Your life doesn't have to revolve around a man. And if you have excellent friends you can live life happily without being tied down to a guy.
The truth is, we never know when we will find our true love. Some find it later in love and some may never find it. The only thing we can do about that is not base our lives on boyfriends and girlfriends. We need to enjoy life despite what we don't have. Everyone has lots of things they wish they had.
What you need to do is not worry. Just be yourself and be happy. You will find the right guy someday and you shouldn't feel bad about yourself just because he hasn't arrived yet.
With excellent friends, you shouldn't need to worry 24/7 about getting a boy. With excellent friends, you don't even need a man to make you happy! Keep yourself busy. Go out with your friends, volunteer, community service, school activities, clubs, read, cook, clean, watch movies, all of that! It'll make you feel good, and you won't spend your time moping around all the time about a guy. It'll work. Happiness doesn't come right away, we have to work for it.
You're young. Live life!
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loneliness..yes i know the feeling very well...while a guy would make you feel better.. dont settle for just anyone..wait for a guy you lke and then go for him.. the feeling will pass its normal...until you find a guy you like just try hanging with friends a lot
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Have a fun night out with the girls, and bring up the topic about guys and see who they think is hot or sweet then check em out at school and try to start hanging around a guy or go with another girl that knows the guy better and you can just strike up a convo and see how it goes. then after you know he knows who you are and can start hanging around him your self just start making little comments and stuff see if they take the hint. Just trying to get close enough to a guy will help and you got someone to think about so you arent as lonely. good luck and hope you feel better and happy!
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If i were you (and i know that im not but anyway) i would try to look around at boys maybe try to get them to like you but try to get them to lke you for you what also may help (i know this helped me) was to hang w/ your friends alot more then you normally do
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well just look around. do you see any guys that your interested in? if thats the case and hes not your friend already then just ask him a question one day like whens that test or whatever and get talking with him. if you don't see any guys that you know ask your friends if they know any single guys. hope i helped!
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