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Q: What's YOUR view on long distance relationships?
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Depending on the couple and how committed they are to the relationship, I believe that long distance relationships can work out. I've seen long distance relationships work out with people I know. My brother was in a LDR with his wife for a few years before they got married. Also, my best friend is currently going through a LDR with her boyfriend who is living in another country and they plan to get married in the future.

Q: I was just wondering.....how can you tell if a guy likes you?Because this guy that i really like looks like he likes me but Im not sure.What are some signs?

http://www.wikihow.com/Know-if-a-Guy-Likes-You

http://teenies674.tripod.com/id18.html

basically, lots of eye contact.

Q: so yeah i am pretty curious about how you know if a guy likes you soo....

yeaa?
http://www.wikihow.com/Know-if-a-Guy-Likes-You

http://teenies674.tripod.com/id18.html


Q: My face gets really dry ad flakey. What is a really good moisterizer that will keep my face moisterized all day?
Olay works really well for me. also, I would recommend that you apply the vaseline intensive care lotion before you sleep because it allows the lotion to settle while you're getting your beauty sleep.

Q: love songs are good too.
idontknow but they make me miss him.
here are some that i already like.

goodbye to you
tim mcgraw (taylor swift)
breathe
so contagious
the alamo is no place for dancing
with me
getting into you
your guardian angel
only one

i dont like metal/screamo.
or top 40 music.
so what are some songs that have to do with breakups? or love songs?



thanksabunchhxx
P.S. I'm still not over you-Rihanna
One of these days- Michelle Branch
Mine to Remember- Waz
Just so you know-Jesse Mccartney
Fallen through- Skye sweetnam
Your Face- Taylor Swift (find this on youtube, its an awesome song)
Over-Lindsay Lohan
Something I never had-Lindsay Lohan
someday we'll know-mandy moore
Can we still be friends-mandy moore
Find your way back-Michelle branch
I'd rather be in love-Michelle branch
come in with the rain-taylor swift
who knew-Pink
505- Arctic Monkeys
I hate that i love you-Rihanna and Ne-yo
all good things-mandy moore
white flag- dido
my boo-usher and alicia keys
who am i to say-hope
Skin-Alexz Johnson
Wait for you- elliot yamin
blackhole- lindsay lohan
the getaway-Hilary Duff
I'm only me when I'm with you-Taylor Swift
Symptoms of you-Lindsay Lohan
Tattoo-Jordin Sparks
Careless Whisper-Tamia
Out of the blue- aly and aj
big girls don't cry- Fergie


Q: i loveee brookes hair on bring it on: in it to win it. does anyone know how i can do some of the styles that she does? or websites where theyre are pictures? thanks!
Cassie Scerbo (Brooke) has a myspace page and there are pictures from her movie. so all you have to do is add her.

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=266734438

and her fan page may be helpful too.
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=257600912

also, try her official website at Cassiescerbo.com

Q: Does anybody know any good home remedies for getting rid of puffy eyes?
I know that this is an old question but the other two columnists didn't mention something else that works like a charm.

Slice a peeled avocado half into quarter-inch crescent-shapes. Lie down with a few slices under each eye and rest for 20 minutes.

Q: i have really dry hair and it wasnt like this before.i want to know what i can do to make it smooth as before or at least less dry.like what are good products or even any like home remedies.
Even this may be pricey,I would recommend changing your shampoo and conditioner and using salon products such as Paul Mitchell, Biolage or the Regis Olive oil shampoo and conditioner(the olive oil conditioner works like a charm). I would recommend using a leave in conditioner after washing your hair. what I'm using now is the biolage hydra seal leave in creme and it works really well.

I would recommend that you make a avocado hair mask. I tried it before and it worked for my hair.

[From Cosmopolitan] To whip up an avocado hair mask, mash one very ripe avocado, 2-3 tablespoons of olive oil, a banana and an egg (the last two are also very moisturizing) together in a blender. Blend until the mask has the texture of a cake batter, with no chunks. Apply one quarter of the mask to dry locks for 10 minutes, then shampoo and condition as usual.

Here is a simple recipe that works just as well:
In a small bowl, mash and combine: 1 avocado (1/2 for shorter hair)
1 egg yolk
1/2 teaspoon olive oil

Apply to hair and allow to remain 30 minutes or longer, then shampoo and condition as usual.



Here is another natural remedy but I'm not sure if this one works as well as the avocado mask:

A nourishing conditioner for dry or damaged hair which can be used for all hair types: Separate the white of an egg from the yolk, whip it to a peak. Add 1 Tbls. water to the yolk and blend until the mixture is creamy. Then mix the white and yolk together. Wet your hair with warm water, remove the excess moisture, and apply the mixture to your scalp with your fingertips. Massage gently until the froth is worked into your scalp, then rinse the hair with cool water. Keep applying the mixture until it is used up and then rinsed until all of the egg is washed away.


I hope that I helped!

Q: I've had this ONE pimple on my face since last week. It's not even really like a gross pimple or anything, it's basically like a red bump. Is there any way I could reduce the redness? Actually, is there any way I could get rid of it completely?


I've been washing my face obsessively, and putting this gel on it to get to get rid of it, and it's still not gone.


....is there anything else I could do?
please and thank you (:
First, washing your face nonstop actually worsens your skin because you're washing out all of the natural oil to keep your skin moisturized and it causes your skin to produce more oil. There are many things that you can do to get rid of your pimple.

1. (This is what I do.) put a tiny bit of neosporin on the area but don't put too much because there can be serious side effects.

Here are some natural remedies that might help:

Dab a small amount of toothpaste (paste, not gel) on pimples before bed; this helps dry out the pimples.

Mix equal amounts of lemon juice and rose water, apply to face with a cotton ball, and allow to sit for 30 minutes before rinsing. 15-20 days of this application helps cure pimples and also helps to remove blemishes and scars.

Apply fresh lemon juice on the affected area overnight. Wash off with warm water next morning.

For acne that hasn't seemed to respond to anything, steep 2-3 tsp. dried basil leaves in 1 cup boiling water for 10-20 minutes, cool, and apply to affected area with a cotton ball

Q: So my boyfriend and I were having some technical difficulties, and I want some songs to reassure me that I love him. He lied about something in the past and me,I blow everything out of proportion. So any good songs out there to help me out!?
Mine to Remember-Waz
P.S. I'm not over you- Rihanna
I hate that I love you- Rihanna and Ne yo
Symptoms of you-Lindsay Lohan
One of these days- Michelle Branch
505- Arctic Monkeys
Who am I to say- Hope
Wait for you- Elliot Yamin
Your Face- Taylor Swift [this one might be hard to find.]

Here are my favs. I'll list more later if I can think of anything else.

Q: Its the 2nd year I'm with my guy... I love him alot....
we've been through alot of problems through the last year.. but we love eachother alot and want to go on....

for this valentines i thought of burning some CD's full of love and romance movies along with some other presents...
I need help

please can you give me names of beautiful meaningful movies biased on love and romance???

in addition to that
something like a perfect guy movie would be great too..
also a movie that shows how two people realize they cant live without eachother would be great too


Please please help me..

I need names of many movies as possible biased on love and romance...
Here is some that I thought of at the top of my head:

Titanic, Simply Irresistible, Notebook, Sleepless in Seattle, Dirty Dancing, The Lover, Walk to Remember,Shop Girl(more of a comedy though), 10 Things I hate about you, Can't buy me love, Pretty in Pink

I'll add more if I can think of more.

Q: What are some good songs about getting cheated on?
Should've said no-Taylor Swift
Before he cheats-carrie underwood
Calling all detectives- Marie Serneholt
If you were me- Lindsay Lohan

I'll add more later if I can think of any

Q: Is there anyway you can make moles go away ?
All I can think of is if you go a dermatologist and ask them to surgically remove it. The only problem is that there might be a huge scar on your face if you do it.

Q: I don't know the name os this song all the lyrics i remember are these:

This love has taken its toll on me, she said goodbye too many times before....

Does anyone know the song?

Maggie
This Love by Maroon 5

Q: ok so i live in connceticut which is like this little kinda rich place in the us and i go to a really preppy school wereanytrhing that doesn't fit into the hollister look is emo. now im a guy so ofcourse im gonna get alot more crap about the whole emo look or whatevr but i dont think i shou8ld change for people i mean theres only like five kids out of the whole school that would fit into the punk skater look counting me and i hate being called gay or fag because i wear like skinny jeans and died my hair burguny. What do you think i should do about it. any advice helps =)
Its great that you're comfortable being yourself and that you're not following whats "in." The people who are picking on you are really fake and should just get a life. If you are comfortable with who you are and the way you look, ignore their comments and live your life normally. The people who pick on you are insecure and they need someone to make fun of so they can make themselves feel better or feel like they have high status.

Q: lol thanks! more about ddr, like so she created her own spins and turns for each song?

im just confused b/c it seems like any random person who comes up to the game looks like they all know the same turns and moves?? like its all synchronized beforehand? not something they create by themselves, otherwise they would not know what the other person was doing?
Well, some people could just know the dance steps really well and they can create their own moves when they actually go on. for example,a person could know the beats and parts of the songs really well in order to create their own moves. so some people are just creative to do that but some people really practice to create their own routine. In Japan, the people there are like hardcore so it seems like they have a natural talent for DDR but I'm not really sure if they practiced in advance.I guess that some routines are synchronized beforehand and some aren't. I hope that I helped.

Q: Im a girl & i am 13 years old. I really really like this guy. Im head over heals for him, and i feel so good when im around him. heres the problem: he's taken. I know i need to just wait my time, but I feel that if i wait any longer i will BURST! School starts in one week...and him & his gf both go to my school. I would just avoid him, but i go to a private school with only 10 kids in my class. I like him so much, but i know better than to tell him i like him when he is dating a differnt girl....but when hes with her & im there i pretty much dont exsist. please help me. :(

-heartbroken
the thing is that the guy that you like is already taken and there isn't anything that you can really do because its like you have no control over your situation. I'm not asking you to get over him because I know that its not that easy. I think that you should date and see other guys and have fun since you're young and you have a couple more years of school left. You never know, you might find someone else who is better than the guy that you like or he breaks up with his gf and you would be able to make your move because not alot of relationships at the age of 13 is going to last forever. its kinda like what my teacher said dating when you're a teenager is like experimenting and practice in order to find out what you look for in a potential "soul mate".

Whenever you feel like you're going to explode, it definitely helps to write how you feel about him or if you wrote a letter to him(without sending it) on what you wish that you could tell him but can't.

If you really want to tell him that you like him go ahead and do it even though on the plus side- he finally knows how you feel and you might feel relieved but on the negative side- there will be drama and you might get hurt.

I can't really tell you what you should exactly do because I think that if I tell you the wrong thing, you might blame me. so please just do what you want to do and listen to your instinct. I know that my advice isn't great but if I personally knew you, I know that I would be able to help you a little more.

Q: what kind of chocolate brand should i buy for feeling sad? and the chocolate should be with nuts do you guys know any brand or where should i buy?
hmmm...if you want to splurge, buy Godiva chocolate but if you don't want to spend too much money then I would recommend hersheys, twix or snickers. oh yeah, truffles are good too. :-]

Q: on those ddr machines you see in arcades and stuff, how do people know what to do with the rest of their body? i know the feet follow the arrows but when do you spin and turn and do other stuff?
well, a friend of mine is a ddr expert and she is able to do those tricks by memorizing the steps through a step chart for a specific song on this website: http://www.ddrfreak.com/stepcharts/stepcharts.php

The cool thing is that she was able to do a whole song backwards without looking at the screen and she would have a high score. so you kinda have to create a routine for yourself, in order for you to do the spins and turns.

Q: does anyone know how to get rid of dark eye bags??
everytime i look in the mirror i notice my bags. it's so dark and ugly it freaks me out... any suggestions? XP
You should apply a cold compress. There are many things that you can do to reduce the puffiness under your eyes.

1. get a bowl of cold water and put in some ice. Then, get a washcloth, soak it in the bowl of water and put the washcloth over your eyes.
2.put a slice of cucumber on both of your eyes.
3.use two cold tea bags and put them on your eyes.
4.soak cotton wool pads in cold water then place them on your eyes
5.wash your face with cold water

I read in a magazine that there is a new product being sold in department stores that gets rid of eye bags immediately. I don't remember what the brand was called but I'm sure that you can find out by asking if you plan to buy it.

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"Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances, you just have to live life to the fullest. laugh as much as you can, spend all your money, tell someone what they mean to you, tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someones hand, comfort a friend, pig out, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, smile till your face hurts, dont be afraid to take chances or fall in love...& most of all live in the moment cause when you look back someday knowing you have no regrets it's gonna be what makes you smile."


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