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Long Distance Relationships
What's YOUR view on long distance relationships?
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I'm in a super long distance relationship, and I have never been happier. I love my boyfriend, and we only see each other every couple months, but we trust each other fully and I know he's not cheating or anything. We talk on skype everyday.
I'm not saying it's easy, or that I don't have my doubts, I just think you need to certain type of person to be in an LDR, and if you can handle it, it is well worth it.
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Depending on the couple and how committed they are to the relationship, I believe that long distance relationships can work out. I've seen long distance relationships work out with people I know. My brother was in a LDR with his wife for a few years before they got married. Also, my best friend is currently going through a LDR with her boyfriend who is living in another country and they plan to get married in the future.
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I tried one this summer, and things didn't work out at all. They ended sort of badly and I don't ever want to go through it again. It was really hard and it hurt a lot...
-Laura (17-f)
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they dont last long trust me i dated a boy from new york and it didnt go as i thought it would have but some people say they work out but mine didnt
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It depends.
I think they are fine, yeah a little hard, but if both people are commited to eachother and have a mutual trust, they're not bad. It's like a regular relationship, without the constantly seeing one another in person part.
It takes some work and patience, but there's nothing wrong with it in my oppinion :] if its worth it, the distance won't matter.
good luck ! have fun, hope i helped. xxo.
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Alright I would never consider a 30 minute drive to be long distance. I live in a rural area, my boyfriend went to the school in the next town over but it was still about 25 minutes to get to his house, yet I still saw him everyday. Now we're 4 and a half hours apart. He's in New York and I'm in Rhode Island. Yes its hard and frustrating but you can't let the little things get between you. Like when our schedules don't work out for a phone call that lasts more than 5 minutes. I see him once a month now and watching him leave never gets any easier but we're still just as strong and if not stronger than we were when we spent every minute together. Long distance relationships are worth it if the relationship is strong enough. One of the girls in my dorm suite just had her boyfriend break up with her because of the distance and they're a lot closer than I am to my boyfriend. They hadn't been dating long and I don't think their connection was strong enough for them to be separated. So overall, it depends on the relationship. In my case I know he's worth it.
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I don't mind them. They're hard, BUT they can work if both people put in the effort & the time.
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My opinion is.... how long distance is it?
if its out of the state...than thats no good.
if its out of the country...absolutely no good.
but if its only like a 30 minute drive than thats ok. long distance relationship are meant to last longer because it is more special everytime u se each other. Its kinda bad with a person from the same school because..theres alot of gossip, rumors, people getting in the way, stuf like that.
trust me, long distance is alot more special and will last wayyy longer. :)
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It's Pretty Hard :/ I tried That And Its So Complicated. You Can't See That person Everyday, You Can Probably Only Talk To Them by Phone Or IM. You'll Just Be Longing To Meet Them One Day..And They Could Have A Gf/Bf In Their State Along With You! They Could Be Lying To You And Just be Incredible Liars!
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Mhm[:
My personal opinion
on long distance relationships is that,
it doesn't matter how far the distance, if
you really love that person your
love can stand through anything.
Hope I Helped
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