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Im a girl & i am 13 years old. I really really like this guy. Im head over heals for him, and i feel so good when im around him. heres the problem: he's taken. I know i need to just wait my time, but I feel that if i wait any longer i will BURST! School starts in one week...and him & his gf both go to my school. I would just avoid him, but i go to a private school with only 10 kids in my class. I like him so much, but i know better than to tell him i like him when he is dating a differnt girl....but when hes with her & im there i pretty much dont exsist. please help me. :(
-heartbroken
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the thing is that the guy that you like is already taken and there isn't anything that you can really do because its like you have no control over your situation. I'm not asking you to get over him because I know that its not that easy. I think that you should date and see other guys and have fun since you're young and you have a couple more years of school left. You never know, you might find someone else who is better than the guy that you like or he breaks up with his gf and you would be able to make your move because not alot of relationships at the age of 13 is going to last forever. its kinda like what my teacher said dating when you're a teenager is like experimenting and practice in order to find out what you look for in a potential "soul mate".
Whenever you feel like you're going to explode, it definitely helps to write how you feel about him or if you wrote a letter to him(without sending it) on what you wish that you could tell him but can't.
If you really want to tell him that you like him go ahead and do it even though on the plus side- he finally knows how you feel and you might feel relieved but on the negative side- there will be drama and you might get hurt.
I can't really tell you what you should exactly do because I think that if I tell you the wrong thing, you might blame me. so please just do what you want to do and listen to your instinct. I know that my advice isn't great but if I personally knew you, I know that I would be able to help you a little more.
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If you tell him, don't think he's going to break up with his girlfriend and go out with you. He's taken, and they probably have a good relationship if it's lasted awhile & they're both 13-ish. When [if] you tell him, the girl he's with may think you're trying to steal him from her. She also may not care- you can never tell how someone will react until it happens. You may feel better about it at first, but things may get awkward between the two of you [or three, if you all hang out together]
if they all know you like this guy. There's nothing wrong with being good friends. It sucks, I know. It's happened to everyone at some point & you'll find someone who's available who makes you feel that way too. No use risking a friendship here. You're young, and you're gonna have a lot of crushes. If you don't focus on this guy 24/7, you'll realize that there's potential boyfriends all around, you just have to give them a chance.
-LM
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Dear heartbroken,
Well if you don't wanna wait any longer...and ofcourse it wouldn't be right to tell him how you feel, when he's with another girl. So right now you could try just becoming friends with him. Get to know him better. Than when he breaks up with his girlfriend than you could tell him how you feel.
*Good Luck*
~HottStuff
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