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how long after having sex should you take the morning after pill? is there anything i can take so i dont get pregnant because i had sex last night and he accidentally "went" in me and the condom broke.. please try and help as soon as possible! (link)
you need to take the morning after pill up to 2 days after sex
striperella


My mothers' doctor tells me anti-depressants (SSRI's like prozac) will reduced the effectiveness of the birth control pill. I'm not sure I can trust him, as he is very sexually conservative and doesn't beleive unmarried people should have sex. He always seems to be trying to scare me out of having sex. (I rather not go to him anymore, but there are very very few family doctors where I live.)

I know the normal issues and chances with the pill, but I can't seem to find any reasources online that deal with this specifically. Does anyone have any idea or personal experience?

(20/f) (link)
well that is soooo fucking wrong he seems like an asshole, because i myself am on anti-depressants, and birth control and i asked my fam doc if the anti-depressants affect birth control and she said no they don't affect eachother so screw the doc and get the pill
striperella


At restaurants - what is the accepted etiquette/percentage for tipping someone who you have an outside friendship with? (link)
usually 10-20% normal don't break the bank because she's your friend but do give a tip
striperella


Is in normal for a car to leak water after the air conditioner has been used? (link)
yes it is it's perfectly fine but you do have to look after oil coming out so your car is fine
striperella


I was wondering if anyone knows of a good hair removal product or technique to remove hair from both of the "uhum" (the full back to front removal) areas for the girl, as well as the pitts, which can be done in the privacy of my own home.

Thanks (link)
well there are so many great things out on the market these days.
let's see you could try this new shaver from noxema that is specificaly a (down there) shaver, or nair might work, there is also a new thing called surgi-wax that you put on and pull of when dry no fabris to pull off wax with. can be found: long's walgreens or walmart and things such as this. since i don't have any money at the moment i'm just using my venus divine shaver works onders like you wouldn't belive and make sure to use skintamite shave gell makes legs smooth
striprella


Does anybody know where you can get really nice cute clothes for bigger sized girls, I mean im not fat fat but i am bigger than most girls my age ( 15 ) so if anybody knows any good places to get cute clothes your help would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!! (link)
old navy i perfection and if they don't have a certain shirt or top go to old navy.com
striperella


I have a problem with my boyfriend touching me 'down there.' We have been going out for 3 years now, we have had sex and all and I am still afraid to let him touch me down there or even see me down there. But I have a very good reason, I was molested at the age 5-6 years old, I have told my boyfriend this because he has asked me numerous times if that was the reason so I finally gave in and told him the truth. Now he knows, but he still tries to touch me there even though I have told him it makes me uncomfortable and I am not ready for that yet. I have always been shy about it, when he tries to touch me there it turns me off and it brings back memories of being molested. My question is how can I overcome this? And why does my boyfriend keep trying to go down there even when he knows, and when he does I push his hand away and he sort of seems mad and doesn't get it but sometimes he acts like he does get it, so I am not sure why he keeps doing this? (link)
be very firm don't let him touch you there you have a very good reason for him not to so put your foot down and call him on it if he gets mad talk to him about it but don't i repeat don't let him touch if you don't want it
he should understand
stripella


im a 13/m
and i have a lot of pubic hair. is it normal to shave it? (link)
yea because from a girls point of view, which i happen to be , well for me at least i happen to like a hairless man and so i'd say go for it and let me tell you , you'll like the differense and au naturale feel
striperlla


hi im a 13/m and im 5'1" and im 99lbs, and im pretty fit, but i noticed that over this summer i was really lazy, and im starting to lose my six pack. does any1 have any tips of the fastest way to get it back by the time school starts? (sept 4.) (link)
go to the gym every day for an hour and do alot of cardio and muscle work you'll like the difference and you might see some ladies
lol
striperella


okay i want to get my belly button pierced. and i hear it hurts so bad! like really bad. and i was just wondering if thats like really true and if someone could like give me hints on to make it not hurt like breathing techniques or something to make it hurt less. (link)
take a pain med(tylenol,advil, what have you)
like a half hour before you should feel lots better
striperella


Whenever I eat a large amount of dairy products of any kind, particularly milk, I get this awful painful feeling internally right below my back...and then I get diarrhea. Could I be lactose intolerant? (link)
thats exactly what it is and you should go to the doctor to get mads to get the proper calcium you need
striperella


i have never had sex ,still a virgin.well i had my period a couple of weeks ago and i normally get it at the end of the month.but any way i have blood stain coming from my virgina.its not like lots of blood.just like blood that mixed with the fluids . whats wrong.i have had my peroid for 4 years (link)
well this probably isn't your period see everyone when they pee lets some blood cells out but when you actually see blood and you've already had your period there could be something wrong and i would suggest going to the doctor
striperella


I have been having a headache every night for the past week. I listen to music often, but I have always listened to music alot. I get them out of nowhere. I take excederin. Why do I keep getting headaches and how do I get rid of them? (link)
then if this is happening often your not having headaches your having migranes. this can be taken care of but you need to talk to your doctor
hope you feel better
striperella


Can you help me make a cute new sn. here is some info please i really need help!

Name: Amanda
Age: 16
Fav. Color: hott pink and black
Fav. Words: star // hawt // tempting // sexy // kiss // stuff like that (link)
how bout:
tempting_u_with_a_sexy_kiss
striperella


okay, i use tampons during my period, but im nervous to go swimming with them in. Im afraid the water will soak the string, making the blood travel out trhough the tampon string. Does this happen or am i worrying for nothing? (link)
it won't matter if the string gets wet and nothing will show striperella


my hair is kinda frizzy. I dont usually blow dry my hair and i use herbal esscenses (sp?) shampoo and conditioner. What are some ways to make my hair less frizzy without getting that frizz ease stuff or blow drying (that takes a long time. i have a lot of hair)?????
i'll rate 5's for good answers! (link)
use warmed olive oil for example you take a bowl fill half way w/ water and then another bowl inside with olive oil. warm in microwave for min or so but safe o touch. now no metal or something not microwaveable and smooth on hair like gell focus on roots and ends
striperella


what do you do when your parentswant to do something you dont want to do for example church? (link)
well tell them if you do that you don;t belive in this faith and it just makes me want to be apart from you guys and that you won't go
striperella


well the other day when my friend slept over it was time to put our pj's on and i usually go into the bathroom to get changed and my friend just started to take it all of in front of me and i got nervous so i went to the bathroom.....does that mean anything?? like did she want to see me naked or somthing?? because she is usually a private person about that stuff

signed confused?

i rate 5's for GOOD answers

PS im a girl (link)
this doesn't mean anything she's just not as embarassed as you to change your both girls so get over yourself she's just changing
striperella


I'm 15 and one of my inner labias is about three times the size of the other. However, this wasn't always so. It started about 2 years ago when I started masturbating with the showerhead. (Could this be the cause of it?) Anyway, I figured it was just swollen, and the swelling would go down. However, as time went on, it only got worse. It's now a more purple-ish, darker color, and bigger. Anyways, point being, instead of it getting better like I assumed it would, it only got worse. And it's now two years later, and I haven't told anyone about it. I would really like to, but I am too embarrassed. Also, I'm afraid if my parents take me to a gynocologist or anything of that sort, they will find out I'm not a virgin anymore, WHICH CAN NOT HAPPEN. I've been a huge emotional wreck ever since, and I really need to find out more about this. Any advice, information, help, or ideas would be SO greatly appreciated. I rate 5's for any attempt. Thank you.
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have your friends take you to the emergency room this could be very very serious do something about it know or tell your mom that somethings going on down there and when you go to to the gynocologist go to her alone in her office and tell her what's been going on because it's called doctor /patient privaledge and she can't tell your moma nd dad unless you ask her to
it's ok
striperella


i'm wanting to get birth control to be safe but i aint having sex or anything but if i started doing stuff and it happened. i wouldnt get preg. i'm still a virgin. but i want to get on it to be safe. what should i do. get one of my friends to go with me and keep it away from my parent's so they don't know?? (link)
yes let you friends go with you and hide it from your parents and use also condoms and other methods to be safe
striperella




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