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grossed out/confused


Question Posted Sunday August 14 2005, 11:43 am

well the other day when my friend slept over it was time to put our pj's on and i usually go into the bathroom to get changed and my friend just started to take it all of in front of me and i got nervous so i went to the bathroom.....does that mean anything?? like did she want to see me naked or somthing?? because she is usually a private person about that stuff

signed confused?

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dazed_and_confused_alot answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 1:50 pm:
this doesn't mean anything she's just not as embarassed as you to change your both girls so get over yourself she's just changing
striperella

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shutupnkissme98 answered Tuesday August 16 2005, 6:27 pm:
no she doesnt wanna c u naked. its normal for girls 2 not care about changing in front of each other. but if it bothers u wen she does it just turn around.its not a big deal

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XxTxX answered Tuesday August 16 2005, 1:51 pm:
..No she dont want you to see her..She is a girl and you are a girl..So she thought you would be confortable with her changing in there..She trusted you wouldnt look..But she thought you wouldnt just ignore it but you got unconfortable..So if she tries to do it again just turn around and pretend like nothing happen`..Hope i helped`

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orphans answered Monday August 15 2005, 9:56 pm:
dont worry and deffinantly dont say anything to her it will offend her most likely she just didnt care because a lot of girls just think that they all have the same body parts and there is no problem they just figure that if you care you'll turn around...lots of my friends do that..no big deal...hope i helped

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Girlwithamansname answered Monday August 15 2005, 7:41 am:
It's perfectly normal for people to get changed into their PJ's in the bedroom, even at a sleepover. It's quite likely that it was subconcious- she was used to doing it at home so she went ahead and did it. I doubt very much that she did it to see you naked.

I wouldn't take her actions as a sign of anything untoward or unusual. She might be Bi/gay but getting changed at a sleepover is no indication of this.

Don't worry about it. In future, if you would rather that she got changed in private, just ask something like 'Do you want to use the bathroom first or shall I'.

-Girlwithamansname

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kaylasays answered Sunday August 14 2005, 9:16 pm:
Hey,
She most likely didn't have the desire to see you naked. Dont worry about it. Some people are just more comfortable about other people seeing their body. It seems totally ok. Your probably just over reacting.
<33 kayla

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emotionalxoverdose answered Sunday August 14 2005, 8:54 pm:
no shes just not a private person or she felt comfortable around you.

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x_pink_x109 answered Sunday August 14 2005, 5:54 pm:
LOL
There is nothing wrong with that. It means she is comfortable "exposing" herself in front of you and she knows you will not make fun of her or everythin. Me and my friends dress in front of each other. There is nothing to worry about. It just means she knows she can trust you. It doesn't mean she is a lesbian or wants to see you naked. It means she wants to know that she can undress in front of you. I have always though of it as like this... I'm a girl, she's a girl, I have breasts, she has breasts, we have the same things so there is nothing to be ashamed of. If you have any other concerns, you know you can email me at x_pink_x109@yahoo.com if you like. O.K?

DON'T WORRY!

BeSt Of LuCk!

HoPe I HeLpEd!

&hearts; KaYlA &hearts;

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sexybeauty answered Sunday August 14 2005, 4:33 pm:
Well my friends and i usually change in front of each other i mean cus we are all girls... i mean do you have issues in the locker room or anything like that.. i'm sure she just thought that because you are both girls that you wouldnt mind... but if this is bothering you a lot you should confront her about it!!! hope i helped!!

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SexiiBabii answered Sunday August 14 2005, 4:00 pm:
Not to worry.. a lot of girls change in front of eachother, i do it all the time... I doubt your friend wanted to see you naked... the only reason she maybe just took it off right in front of you is because nobody else was around, just you too... and she most likely feel comfterable around you. If it really bothers you I would talk to her about it, just tell her that you would like to change by yourself...

Good luck! hope i helped!

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laogurl2004 answered Sunday August 14 2005, 2:53 pm:
no..lol..i do that all the time its not like shes turning lesbian..she probably just wants to change and get it ova with instead of walking..so dont think of it as a nasty thing..me and my friends do it all the time

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beautiful_disaster101 answered Sunday August 14 2005, 1:59 pm:
um, well i dont know your friend enough to say an EXACT answer, but maybe she just felt comfortable with you there, like if you're truly friends, it dosent really matter, i mean what does she have that you dont? i mean you dont have to look at her, but you can turn around. It really isnt a big deal. She may just trust you enough, you know? And if you really dont think that was the right answer, you can talk to her about it, you're friends! you can talk about anything!! It may seem umcomfortable, but believe it or not, it'll work out. Hope i helped! if you need me for the future, please IM me on AIM at "Silverwolf1561".

*Jill*

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M3GHANBUCHERvllybll answered Sunday August 14 2005, 1:44 pm:
i don't think this means anything. usually when i'm around my best friends we change together... but i mean we get down to our bras and underwear, but thats all. i mean, in gym we change around each other but we don't get naked... if you have more questions just drop one in my inbox


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icey0990 answered Sunday August 14 2005, 1:24 pm:
i agree with everyone else..it doesnt mean anything yet, but if stuff kind of like this happens more and more (like if she flirts with you or who knows what) then talk to her about it.
but i dont think it meant anything..she probably felt that it would be quick and easy to change right there, and she thought it wouldnnt be like you would stare at her or anything..so its all good no worries
-melis

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abercr0mbiie143 answered Sunday August 14 2005, 1:06 pm:
noo, maybe shes just used to doing that, i have a few friends that like to go into the bathroom and a few friends that just start doing what she did, if you dont feel confortable then just be like i gotta go to the bathroom and just change in there while your in there, i do it because i dont feel comfortable either.

hope that helps.
_*becca.rateme!!

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xomegaroni answered Sunday August 14 2005, 1:06 pm:
hmm..it doesn't really mean anything. maybe she juss feels more comfortable around you since you guys are friends. plus that happens in the locker room all the time. if it keeps happening and you feel weird about it, talk to her.

-hope that helped

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coolcam666 answered Sunday August 14 2005, 1:01 pm:
I agree if you are really friends then maybe she trusts you enough not to look or something, friends are for life and she would not do that to end a friendship or someting

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karenR answered Sunday August 14 2005, 12:44 pm:
Some girls are shy about undressing in front of their friends and some are not. It means nothing except that she trusts you. :)

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