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Location: Michigan
Age: 14
Member Since: August 14, 2005
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Last Update: August 17, 2005
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I completely accept that no one else can tell someone whether they are in love or not but does anyone else find it a little silly when people say they are completely in love with someone they have never dated or kissed, or dated for a week or so?

I almost find it offensive. I don't like that word being taken so lightly and thrown around. Does this annoy anyone else here, or am I being too judgmental?

i agree.... it does love is such a huge thing to say and people do use it to often and it is annoying i think that when they say it they just are really saying that they like the person a lot.... you're not being to judgmental

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alright well heres my deal, i'm 14/f and my best friend well i LOVE her brother i went out with him secretley but then she found outt and she was pissed..so then we had to break up bcus his parents were always yellin @ him and she wuld always cry about it i dnt see wat the big deal was but anyways we got back together and we got sexually active, agen she found outt and we had to break it off except this time it was BIGG. I still love him and he still lvoes me we arent reallyy dating but together my mom says i can do better but i def. think hes it. wat shuld i do? end the relationship or just go for it and forget about his sister.

it pretty much all comes down to who do you care about more? i mean being sexually active is a big thing and you seem like you realy like the brother but then again she is your best friend so i mean if fyou think he is deffinately the one then go for him but jsut remember she will probably never forgive you so just relaly think about who you really care about! hope i helped!

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well i was dating this kid jon for a while and he has a twin named jake. me and jon brokeup and he went out with this other girl. eventually they brokeup and she went out with his twin. i think she still likes jon and he really likes her and i sort of like jake now even though he has a g/f. he slept over the other night and kissed me. he always comes over and calls me beautiful and i really like him but i dont know what to do. i dont know how to tell him this and i really think he should breakup with his girlfriend before doing these things with me. what can i say to him? PLez helpp!

i think you just need to sit him down and told him it wasnt fair to you that he kissed you while he still has a girlfreiend and that he needs to explain where he thinks your relationship is at right now like are you just friends or more.. hope i helped

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I use the words: incredible, awesome, beautiful and amazing all the time. I was wondering if you knew any words that mean basically the same thing, but are different?

fabulous, fantastic

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does hollister have a website? i've tried everything and can't seem to find it. thanks.

http://www.hollisterco.com/hol/homepage.html

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Hey i was wondering if any of you know a all around really good shampoo and conditioner.. i use brilliant brunette right now but i was wondering if theres like a better one maybe pantene the brunette expressions or garnier fructice or what... my hair is wavy i can curl or straighten it so yeah thanks! im looking for one to make it shiny and healthy and makes it just look good! 15 f

i use pantene and love it!! it smells good and works awesome!!

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I want to wait until I am married to have sex. My friend and I were talking and this is what she said to me, "My mom told me she didn't want me to wait until marriage to have sex, because she wanted me to know what to do." I was thinking about it and I don't know anymore. I mean I don't want to go and read things on what to do/watch porn and stuff. I am not that kind of girl. Plus, all my friends say they just want to wait until after they turn 16. I mean its not part of my religion. Its part of what I think is right. I mean I at least want to wait until marriage is on option... I don't know.

Should I wait?

it sounds like you are really unsure and it also sounds like you are trying to wait and you know who cares what your freinds are saying and the guy you are with wehn you gt married will love you so they wont care if you are a virgin or not!! but that is what i think and you shuld do what u think i am just giving you my opinion

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do most jobs.. (for example - target, any restaraunt, walgreens, menards, etc.) hire 15 year olds if they have a workers permit? bc im 15 and i really need a job.. that doesn't require you to work the fry machine..

sometimes they hire younger people to clean so if you dont mind cleaning then you will probably be able to find a job!

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i babysit this little boy and i am not so good with cooking. any ideas for cooking for a little boy. he likes chocolate and milk and he also likes cheese, but i don't know what to make for him that he likes or will like. any ideas? i rate really high!

macaroni and cheese is good! and its not that hard to make

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I'm thirteen and I want my navel pierced. My Grandparents [who were really strict with my Mom and her sister], are even okay with it. Both of my parents say that I'm too young. But my Dad doesn't live with me, so my Mom can still say yes. I asked her why she wouldn't let me get it done and she said 1] that she thinks if I got that done I would want my nipples done or something crazy like that. 2] she thinks I would walk around with belly shirts or something. I told her I'm not a whore like that and that I wouldn't do either of those. And my question to you is do you think I'm too young? And what do you think I should do to convince my Mom?

Ya hunn i think you are still a bit young to be gettint your naval pierced... i think you should a wait a few years and if you really still want it then maybe your mom will feel better cus you will be older

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what is the best product to use on acne?

i think biore is

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does anyone know any songs to dance to or just rock to or cheer to or anything like that? i dont care what type of music it is. thanks

outrageous-britney spears
do somethin-britney spears
gwen stefani-hollaback girl

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Hey what would you get a guy for his sweet 16th? I haven't known him very long, only about 2 years, and we don't see each other very often, so it can't really be a memorable sort of thing. He likes basketball, and basically most sports. He listens to R&B and hip hop and that sorta stuff; his favourite shows are The OC, Will &Grace, 70s show, and Paradise Hotel. I'm thinking of getting him a CD or a gift certificate, what do you think? If it's a gift certificate, how much money should I put on it and it will be appropriate? And what store should I get? He wears like..Phat Farm, Rocawear, Timberland, Adidas, Nike, and you get my drift. Btw I live in Ontario Canada if that helps with the stores. Are there any other suggestions of what to get him?Thanks.

i think a gift certificate is good! probably for like $25.00-$40.00 depending on your price range and i think i good place would be like a cd store! hope i hlepd

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well i feel so left out of my family cuz somehow someone except for me is really smart. like my sister she was supposed to skip a grade. my brother is supposivly smart, i dont kno how but then my mom is smart and my dad is smart but with me i feel like i'm the only one in my family that is good at sports. it feels like everyone else is smart except me. and it shows. my parents just somehow show it. help me plz i dno wat to do

Dont get down on yourself for not being the smartest!! you said that you are good at sports show your family that even thought you are not the smartest you are still good at something!!

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I am really upset right now. Let me flashback:
"Kaley" and I went to the same school two years ago, and I was there since I was in first grade. She just started school there that year, so I wanted to be nice and talk to her. It turned out, we had a lot in common and by the end of the year, we were bestfriends. I went over her house a few times and we always had a blast. Then at when school ended for the summer, she was going to a different school and I was also going to a different one.
Last year, we promised eachother we would still keep in touch, which I TRIED to do but she obviously wasn't interested anymore in being there for me. Now a new year is starting again with school and everything, and she sent me an email with her AIM. She told me NOT to ever call her though because she's always "busy". Now, she was online a few seconds ago and her away message said "hey, I'm around the house. Lindsey, call me!" And then when I was on for only a few seconds, she signed off. well, my name isn't lindsey and that made me upset. I'm so upset now... how can I deal with this?

i know you dont wanna here this but i am sure she is upset that she doesnt get to see you any more so she is trying to forget bout you and moving on to different people!! i know it is hard but just move to different friends and try to forget bout her!!

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I would like to reward him with a special treat but i don't know any candy this kid likes. do you guys know of anything sweet for a 4 year old? please help! i rate high!

ask him what kinda candy he likes or just give him something else!

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When I'm giving my boyfriend a handjob or head, I don't think he enjoys it very much, like he doesn't cum or anything. What can I do to make him like it more..?

You need to ask him what he likes you to do like have him tell you exactly what he wants you to do!

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yea, its me again..I forgot to ask this..Well, i know that EvErYoNe argues and fights..Since i grew up in a family that everytime someone STARTED to argue, it blew out into a fist fight and cops coming and me getting hit, so everytime ANYONE at all argues, i get REALLY shaky, crying, and everything like that! I live with my dad now, i have for 3 years and nothing like this has happened before until now, or atleast i havent noticed it..Like a few weeks ago, my dad and step-mom got into a big arguement over something and i was in my room with the door shut, but i could hear them b/c they were only on the other side of the wall..and i know that this would NEVER happen b/c they're just not this kind of people, but since everything before happened, i was scared that they would hit each other and come after me and the police would come, but i know it wouldnt happen but i still get scared..can anyone give me any help on what i should do?? I really need help on this b.c its getting so bad that i actually hated them for a minute b/c i pictured it being my real mom..i got HORRIBLE flashbacks..Please help me!! :(

hunn, i am sry you ever had to go through something so traumatic!! but it sounds like you really do need some help i am strongly suggesting counceling it really does help! and next time they have a fight you might want to try like listening to some music to drain out the fighting!! hope i helped!!

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well i go to school and my parents expect me to get high grades like they did or say they did when they were little but with me for some reason i dont get high grades and my parents hav been takeing my stuf away from me when i dont get high grades and i do apply myself to try to get high grades........help plz

I think you need to sit you parents down and tell them that even though you dont get the highest you are still trying you hardest and if that is not good enough then your sorry... but hunn if your trying your hardest then dont worry bout what your parents say and even though they take your stuff away keep trying your hardest and try to show them that you do like do your homework in front of them or ask them for help maybe they would like that!! hope i helped!!

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hey. i babysit this cute lil boy who is four. he is very good and i want to have a nice way to reward him for helping me alot. he helps clean the table and goes potty by himself. does anybody know anything i could give him or treat him to when he is good?

Candy usually is good... i dont know many kids who dont like candy... or maybe like a small stuffed animal.... even like a toy car... hope i helped!!

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