well i was dating this kid jon for a while and he has a twin named jake. me and jon brokeup and he went out with this other girl. eventually they brokeup and she went out with his twin. i think she still likes jon and he really likes her and i sort of like jake now even though he has a g/f. he slept over the other night and kissed me. he always comes over and calls me beautiful and i really like him but i dont know what to do. i dont know how to tell him this and i really think he should breakup with his girlfriend before doing these things with me. what can i say to him? PLez helpp!
karenR answered Thursday August 18 2005, 8:04 am: Your instincts are right. He is only using you for what he can get if he doesn't break up with his girlfriend first. Plus, if he doesn't how will you ever know he wouldn't treat your relationship like hes treating theirs? You would never trust him. Tell him those things next time he gets all kissy with you. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
orphans answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 9:36 pm: just go up to him and say "jake i like you and i dont wanna be all modest but it seems that you like me too and i also feel used so if you like me i want you to stop wat you are doing unless you break up with your girlfriend so we can go out!" and if he doesnt do so then youa re being used and you will know the flat out truth....hope i helped [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
CutieAllTheWay41 answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 9:22 pm: We'll you need to talk to him if he has time and tell him that you have some feelings for him and ask himm if he has any feelings for him.BUT dont tell him u wanna go out with him because he will probably break up with the girl he goes out with now and he might break her heart.but u can if you want!anywayz hope you too work out and i think that kiss was something something!lol :) well i hope i helped you a little bit hearts;!
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sunnyville answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 9:19 pm: Tell him in a caring tone that for nothing to get get in their relationship,for the benefit for you too that he has to break up with her if he really wants you.If he doesn't want to don't be with this guy go out with someone else who is single which is better.I have a friend named John who has a girlfriend and he's a really nice guy which I saw that that his girlfriend is very fortunate to have someone like him because now it's hard to find a guy who is not a cheater or a player.It's better that the girlfriend doesn't know about you and him just not to get into trouble with her or a fight! [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
sexybeauty answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 9:02 pm: i think you just need to sit him down and told him it wasnt fair to you that he kissed you while he still has a girlfreiend and that he needs to explain where he thinks your relationship is at right now like are you just friends or more.. hope i helped [ sexybeauty's advice column | Ask sexybeauty A Question ]
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