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Not Bestfriend's Anymore
I am really upset right now. Let me flashback:
"Kaley" and I went to the same school two years ago, and I was there since I was in first grade. She just started school there that year, so I wanted to be nice and talk to her. It turned out, we had a lot in common and by the end of the year, we were bestfriends. I went over her house a few times and we always had a blast. Then at when school ended for the summer, she was going to a different school and I was also going to a different one.
Last year, we promised eachother we would still keep in touch, which I TRIED to do but she obviously wasn't interested anymore in being there for me. Now a new year is starting again with school and everything, and she sent me an email with her AIM. She told me NOT to ever call her though because she's always "busy". Now, she was online a few seconds ago and her away message said "hey, I'm around the house. Lindsey, call me!" And then when I was on for only a few seconds, she signed off. well, my name isn't lindsey and that made me upset. I'm so upset now... how can I deal with this?
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well its really hard to keep in touch with people that you dont see at school everyday. it seems like shes already moved on so i would suggest just forgetting baout her and making a new best friend.she doesnt seem like a very good friend anyway if shes not even going to try and keep in contact with you.
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Hey! Um, I think this happened because you guys are both going to different schools. You guys were like really good friends during the school year, but now that she has moved it feels like the both of you have distanced right? Hmmm...what I would like to say is, "Don't worry". Because she is going to a different school, try to understand that she's meeting new people and experiencing new things,and also you are going through changes. Even if she seems to hang out with her other friends more,it doesn't mean that it will replace the bond you guys had back when you guys went to the same school. So go out, have fun and meet new people. Because after all, you guys are still going to remain friends.
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Yea i had a best friend who had to go to another school too and it was awful (i used to dispise her but we were best friends) Dont stop trying to lose faith.. keep intouch and maybe even tell her how bad your feeling if she was a true best friend she would welcome you with open arms.. (and if she isnt that far away try to give her a surpise visit) about the *busy* part nobody is rlly that busy- she may be going through a tough time or something i kno theres more to the story then what your friend is saying to you* Just be there for her and ask her what the deal is.. It hurts to lose a best friend but gaining one is even better~ IM me if you wanna chat more &hearts Steph~ P.S. Try not to think about it so much dont ever forget her- keep her as a part of a great friendship like a past time hero~*~
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losing a friend is never easy i've moved alot so i know how it feels and she's giving u the brush off and she sounds not that good of a friend if she won't keep in contact so i would spend sometime writing down how u feel and a list of good qualities in friends and get out there and try to get new better friends so hang in there it will get better
my heart goes out to you
striperella
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It sucks when someone you care about isn't interested in being your friend anymore. She may have been a great friend before, but she's obviously moved on. If she said to never call her, that's definite sign that she doesn't really want much of a friendship, even if you talk to her on AIM. So if she want's to forget about you, you should forget about her too. A new school year is the perfect opportunity to make new friends, and that's what you need to do. If you are a shy person, try joining a club or getting involved in a sport. That's a definite way to make friends. Just be sure to be friendly and smile whenever you meet new people. You'll make new friends in no time! I hope this helps, just ask if you need anymore advice. :-)
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i know you dont wanna here this but i am sure she is upset that she doesnt get to see you any more so she is trying to forget bout you and moving on to different people!! i know it is hard but just move to different friends and try to forget bout her!!
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