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my sister
i fell realli bad for mi twin sis.. she studys hard and dose all of her homework and dose everything she can to try and keep her grades up...she cant get above a C and then she looks at me i dont do my homework or pay atention in school or study for tets i guess on themm.. and i get straight A's adnd i wish there was something could do you kno.. if you have anyideas or advice pleaseee help i rate well!!!
=] **((hailey))**
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You could ask some of you teachers what to do. You could also tell your sister to ask your teachers. They would help alot considering that they are the ones teaching you. You could also ask your parents about what to do. I hope my adivce helps.
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try studying with her, it might make it fun for the both of you and u wuld both be learning at the same time..try to make funn games involving what you need to study..it might help if she is getting help from someone she loves(pLeAsE rAtE)
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well have her try your stratgey then see if her grades go up!!
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im like that too. all these people dislike me because of it. im such a lazy fatty and i get good grades and make the sports teams i go out for. My bro is the same way though. i say dont feel bad, its not your fault. Maybe you could study with her or tutor her. If its the same girl who sister hits you its because she feels inferior. Hope i helped. O and there is nothing you can really do. You are just like me and have a natural understanding for things. She just needs to have focus. Dont let her get distracted and whatnot.
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Hailey,
Here's my point of view. You need to ask and answer one question for yourself. "Is my feeling bad out of love and concern for her, or is it my guilt over not being faithful?" I know that if I had a bro or sis who tried harder than me but achieved "poorer" results, I'd feel kind of guilty. So here's my advice, short and sweet. It's got two parts. First, try harder yourself. The fact that your sis looks at your lack of effort and better grades could be developing bitterness and resentment in her. Although that is something she needs to deal with, you can help by showing her that you're committed to doing your best. Remember, it doesn't matter in eternity who had the better grades. What matters is who gave all they could give. Secondly, encourage your sister. This is something for you and your parents to do. Help her to understand that her efforts will be rewarded in the long run. She is preparing herself for a disciplined, mature, organized future. She needs to know that she is loved and accepted for her faithfulness and diligence. By the way, her greatest need, and your's too, is know Christ as Savior and Lord. If you both do, great. You will be rewarded by Him. If you don't I'd be glad to share more with you.
--ByReasonofUse
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i think you should try getting her to study. ya know, maybe she can study with you er study with her friends. it helps a lot. you have to tell her that she juss needs to focus and concentrate and she'll do fine.
-hope that helped!
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I think you should study with her because like you said your getting straight A's so I think that would be a smart idea. Even if your not learning the same type of things still help your sister out. Or you could find her a tutor. Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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try to help her....tell her not to try so hard like you and maybe she'll get better grades
hope things work out
bii!
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help her study..and maybe it will help you study too even though you get straight a's and i think you are the person that gets bossed around by your twin..if it is this will also show her that your just as equal and if you have any more things wrong with your twin..leave it in my inbox..i hope i can help!! rate me if i did <3
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