Hey there everyone! My name is Rory... I am 14.. I am a TOTAL beach bum -hehe :) i love it! some other things i love are my friends- i have the best of the best! ummm hangin with them... beach, movies... boys :D(haha typical 14 year old girl!) ummmmm i dunno what else to say... if your in need of a friend, i'll try my best to help! :)
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Occupation: beach bum/student... Durr
Age: 14
Member Since: August 7, 2005
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Okay, Hi
Im having a bit of a problem, my friends brother, we'll call him mark, has a MASSIVE crush on me and I'm not sure i feel the same way.. I might a little bit, but definatly not the way he feels about me! I stayed at his house for a few days this summer because his sister is my best friend... or one of them, and i came in looking like myself, i am big on makeup and hair and stuff, but i came out with none, if not hardly and makeup on, a couple zits and limp hair that was a little greasy. I didnt look to good and a week or so later he said that he thinks that im beautiful - not hot, beautiful. On my first night there, my friend fell asleep on the couch and so it was just him and i, we talked for three or so hours and it was so easy to talk to him, and i could tell he was sooo happy he got to talk to just me... im not sure if that means anything but just thought i would share that with you.
Please help, im so confused as what to do!
and i cant ask him out because my friend would kill me! (link)
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Well this is a sticky situation... maybe you could get his Screen-Name(if he has one) and talk to him online/or maybe on the phone... and get to know him a little better. like you said you like you think you like him a little bit.. well fi that grows and you do end up likeing him I would sit your friend down and tell her your feelings make sure that this wont intrude on your friendship but you have feelings for her brother and are curious what would happen... Good luck champ!
Stay beautiful, stay you!
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This is so weird but..my friend has a pic of my ex bf that I like so much and she made him a website and it has the picture. When I saw the picture, I started crying. I dont even know why. Maybe cuz I haven't seen him for 4 months striaght. I'm supposed to be hanging out with him when I get back from vacation. What if when I see him i want to start crying?? What can I do and why did i start crying like that?? How can help myself from crying when I see him?? PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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AWW honey, You must miss him like crazii, thats most likely why you started to cry... as for why you cry... its just emotions... nothing we have control over unfortunately... but if you do see him and feel like crying make sure you can get to a bathroom or a private place fast. hope i helped!
stay beautiful, stay you!
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ok well i really want a botfreind!!! i am 13/f and i really want one this summer or school year! i have alot of guy friends but, its not the same, i want someone i could kiss and hug and stuff!! PLEASE HELP i will rate high!!!
=-(
signed,
lonley (link)
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Hey there! ever heard the expresion "do the right thing and the next right thing will happen"? well it basicly means just dont worry about it for now, worry about school and friend relationships... everything will fall into place, but if your really desperate just do nothing but flirt... one of them will egt the hint... i mean guys are stupid but not that stupid lol..
Stay beautiful, stay you!
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okay i know this may be a stupid question, but on myspace one of the choices for your relationship status is "swinger", what does that mean? i rate 5's for REAL answers. (link)
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Swinger means that your married or dating someone but you and your "other half" decide its okay to see other people while your dating... kinda icky if you ask me... but hey who am i to judge... whatever floats your boat right??
stay beautiful, stay you!
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if you talk to a boy online and you never saw him and you love eachother and have soo much in common and stuff, is that considered have a boyfriend even though you have never saw him and stuff?? bc i really love this guy and he feels the sam way but he lives real far away. is this like a boyfriend? and if it is say i went out with him and then i have a boyfriend here, would that be cheating on my online boyfriend?
I RATE SOOOO HIGH!!!
please help me quick!!
signed,
young, curious and in love (link)
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Well sure you can be in love... you dont have to hug and kiss to be going out... althought please be carefull i know this guys might seem harmless, but there are a bunch of sick-o's out there.(I'm not saying what your doing is wrong... i mean HEY my dad met my step mom online, and now they are married and have a new baby^____^). And if you two do decide you are dating it would be considered cheating if you had another boyfriend besides him.
stay beautiful, stay you!
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Can i simply have a yes or no answer to this question:
My brother used to put his hands down the back of my trousers and grab my butt and stuff like that, i told him to stop but he wouldnt. is this abuse? (link)
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Yes
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Well I wrote this, not really a poem, just kind of a one of those little writings.. will you tell me what you think of it so far... maybe some help on it, or wordings that would sound better?
After spending hours on end perfecting every detail about herself, she heard the doorbell ring. Her heart races to see him. This was the moment she had been waiting for, for so very long now.She lopes quickly to the front door and swiftly swings it open to see her love. Her heart sinks inside of her chest in her overwhelmed body and her beathing has stopped as if her heart would have. He looks amazing, more amazing than ever before. Not a word comes out of either of their mouths, both stand there completely speechless, both infatuated by their prescences's beauty... (link)
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Wow. Thats wonderful, i wish I could write like that... the best i can come up with is *roses are red, violets are blue, sugar is sweet, and so are you* (and i stole that from whoever made it up). I think you could have a future in writing!
Stay beautiful! Stay you!
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my *area* down there is constantly ITCHY!!!!!!! i don't know why! *female* i can't have crabs because i shaved the hair off it. i'm not sure if that was a good idea but once again, i really don't want to ask anybody in my family because they might make fun of me or embaress me etc. its REALLY itchy please help! (link)
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I would say it's itchy because you shaved down there. but if when the hair comes back, and it's still itchy maybe you can ask your mom to take you to the doctors(Tell her it's because you don't feel good... or you think you have an in-grown toenail, and make sure she stays out of the room) Or find an adult(maybe a friend's mom, or aunt, or older cousin) that you trust and have them take you.
Hope i helped!
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What do guys look for in a girl? It seems like all the guys go for the sluts and they don't want an actual relationship. (link)
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Guys make act that way... but tust me all they want is sexual stuff from the girl... so don't lower yourself to their level. Stay the same you you've always been. In the long run they will want a real girl, a real relationship not just a slut who can give them what they want for 10 minutes then be done. hope i heleped!
Stay beautiful! stay you!
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What age do you think a girl should be to go to a gyno? Not for birth control, just for health check ups? Thanks! (link)
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I think whenever a girl is ready to go to the gyno she should be able to... it's no big deal..
Hope i helped
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Is it possible for one's main vein to be cut open with a nail clipper??? I'm just curious (link)
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well, Sure its is I guess if you got down to the vein. But if you are thinking about hurting yourself, or even worse, please tell someone... I'm not acusing you of that... it's just thats how the questions sounds. So Please don't for you and everyone that loves you.
Please stay safe
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okay, i use tampons during my period, but im nervous to go swimming with them in. Im afraid the water will soak the string, making the blood travel out trhough the tampon string. Does this happen or am i worrying for nothing? (link)
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Not to worry! thats one of the reason tampons were invented :)... and if your really worried, after yoour done swimming... Change your tampon!
Hope i helped! Good luck!
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what do you do when your parentswant to do something you dont want to do for example church? (link)
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Well What I would do is tell your parents your feelings... tell them how you feel, why you feel that way, and how strongly you feel about it. I'm sure if they know how you feel they will understand.
Hope I heleped! Good luck!
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okay so i am around 5'3 and i weigh around 130.. i have stomach fat and i have been doing crunches for a long time and they dont help that much.. my question is, what can i do to lose this stomach fat? (link)
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I'm sorry to say it, because i don't like to do it either, but your gonna have to do aerobics... find a tape, like tae bo, or go running... something to get your heart rate up... also try and cut down on junk food (if you eat it)... It won't be fun, but it will be worth it!
Hope i helped! Good luck!
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how do you get over boys? i was with this guy for 7 months, we never officially dated but it was known that we were together. we had a sexual relationship and i fell for him big time. he suddenly started fooling around with his ex girlfriend behind my back and told me that he never really liked me to begin with. we hadnt had sex until about 8 days before we split and so he had no reason to keep me around to use me. he wasnt getting any benefits for staying with me for 7 months because i never really "did" anything for him. i know hes in denial that he never liked me. once i found out about him and his ex girlfriend (he never told me, my frined did) i decided to stop talking to him completely. i havent spoken to or seen him in 2 weeks. i unfortunatly cannto stop thinking about him. any advice...i know this was long sorry ill rate high (link)
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Well everyone has a first love... your story reminds me of my 1st love... I was "the girl on the side" and we were very very close... but after we had done some stuff.... he stopped treating me the way he use to, he was just plain mean, and he just started to ignore me completely. So i can some-what understand what you feel... It's going to be hard, but you have to go on with life, whenever you start to think about him think of something else like what your going to do with your friends over the weekend, flirt with other guys, act as if you and him never had a thing... it might take a while... but there is no magic cure... you can't just forget about him over night... you can do it, you seem like a strong girl...
hope i helped! Good luck!
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i know there has been a lot of questions like this so... i hope i'm not getting on your nerves! okay my birthday is in october and i'm turning 14, i have no idea what to do for my party b/c i can't have everyone over to my house or anything and what would we do anyway? i was thinking maybe w/all girls head to a spa or something, but i have a TON of guy friends. so please help! GOOD answers get 5's i'll report you if i have to! (link)
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Well it all depends on what you like to do...
You could:
~Rent a hall, and hire a DJ and have a dance party
~Have your party at a roller rink
~have a pool party(if u have a pool), and have all the girls sleep over! and play fun games... like truth or dare! its a sleep over must!
Hope i helped! Good luck!
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Hey, I'm 14.f and something has been bugging me. So many people have been starting to have sex, and i think its like, pathetic, how can teenagers, want to give blow jobs and hand jobs, i mean hello, its kinda weird for 13-16 year olds to do that at this age in my opinion. Does anybody out there agree with me that this stuff is stupid at this age? There have been so many questions on here about sex and hand jobs and everything and i think it is plain out pathetic! Teens shouldnt be worried about that kind of stuff at this age. Does anyone out there agree with me at all?
Thanks-
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I am against Sex at this age as well... but other people's comfert with sex may be different with yours. I agree this is too young, but we can't do anything about it.
Hope i helped! Good Luck!
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My boyfriend fingered me a couple days ago and now, 5 days after my period has ended I am bleeding very slightly (I can only notice when I wipe) and when I pee it stings a little. What does this mean? (link)
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well I'm not a doctor so I cant answer for sure... your body could be changing along with your period... if your very conserned i would consult a doctor.
hope i helped! Good luck!
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OK, my problem is a bit weird. I'm 16, and that's normal, at least I hope. Anyways, I relised on my vacation last week that I never want to get married. And this isn't one of those "Oh, you're still too young to decide" things. It is one of those impulses that I know I'll have for the rest of my life.
Yet, I still want a child when I'm older. A few years back, I had another one of these impulses which told me that I do not want a child of my own, but I want to adopt.
I really don't know. Is this normal? Or is something wrong with me? (link)
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Its not at all weird! some people know exactly what they want from the time they are 5 or 6... and others are never staying the same, they are always changing... its a good thing you know what you want to do with your life. you have a goal and this will help you because you know what you want and nothing will get in the way.
hope i helped! good luck!
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well the other day when my friend slept over it was time to put our pj's on and i usually go into the bathroom to get changed and my friend just started to take it all of in front of me and i got nervous so i went to the bathroom.....does that mean anything?? like did she want to see me naked or somthing?? because she is usually a private person about that stuff
signed confused?
i rate 5's for GOOD answers
PS im a girl (link)
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Not to worry.. a lot of girls change in front of eachother, i do it all the time... I doubt your friend wanted to see you naked... the only reason she maybe just took it off right in front of you is because nobody else was around, just you too... and she most likely feel comfterable around you. If it really bothers you I would talk to her about it, just tell her that you would like to change by yourself...
Good luck! hope i helped!
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