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Hey, I'm 14.f and something has been bugging me. So many people have been starting to have sex, and i think its like, pathetic, how can teenagers, want to give blow jobs and hand jobs, i mean hello, its kinda weird for 13-16 year olds to do that at this age in my opinion. Does anybody out there agree with me that this stuff is stupid at this age? There have been so many questions on here about sex and hand jobs and everything and i think it is plain out pathetic! Teens shouldnt be worried about that kind of stuff at this age. Does anyone out there agree with me at all?
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that is so ture
kids are doing really stupid stuff now
and they are going to regret it when they are older
rock on for expressing your opinion
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I totally 101% agree with you!
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i agree totally !!
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Yes! Finally, a post that I can relate to! I am 100% in agreement with you here. Its not weird for kids those age to do that stuff, it is plain out stupid and low. Thinking of this bugs me too, but basically, all you have to think about are your thoughts and standards on the topic of sex, and make sure they aren't like any other teens your age. No, they definetly should not worry about things like sex with they are 13-16. You just disrespect yourself, and your chances of losing your childhood and being a child who goes out a lot increase by having sex. I am fully against teen sex too. I'm sure you've got unpleasant posts from 13 year olds, or older, but the best you can do is ignore them. I am 15, so this just might be your first agreeable answer. And you're only 14! I love seeing posts like this come from young girls like me. This is an awesome statement.
-TheTeenGirl
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i agree 100%
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okay im going to stay neutral on this because i do agree with you but then i dont so first off i am going to say i agree with you because it is such a young age to be doinga bout this and girls or boys are growing up so fast and keep thinking "hey i need this boyfriend/girlfriend" but then i disagree coz its there choice because its what they think if they are ready then they are ready
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im not saying i agree or disagree but whoever has sex at that age its there decision and if they want to think there "kool" for having sex that young let them think that. they will find out in the long run that they werent "kool" they were WHORES!so i think everyone should let them do what they want to do and if they get pregnant or get std's then thats there problem.but thts jus my opinion
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I agree, people should stop worrying so much, when it happends it happends and if it doesnt, its ok because there are plenty more years for it! especialy if you are only just 12 or something! Its stupid.... Society is brainwashing the kids of today...
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hi. yes i agree but at 16 i think that is agood age. but ya same here all these kids a are having sex and im like wow . and im srry but males only have small ones at that age and it is like they do not really fell it so why do it. please wright back and rate me . and if you have aim please talk to me my sn is wilsonharley75.
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i think everyone should stop worrying about it. in other words, i agree. no one should be having sex, that young. it's akward, saying something like "your too young for sex" because it doesn't matter how mature you are, its your age.
no ones really mature enough for sex until 17 or 18. guys who do it early on soon want it alot more often, then normal. girls start to think that it's cool to do it, making them seem like a better person.
growing up so fast could be bad, i mean look at micheal jackson. his childhood went down the drain, &now he's signing court papers. i mean, i'm not saying having sex at an early age can ruin your childhood, but with people& how they handle things these days, it could.
sorry to get into this, but yea i really feel the same way as you, &half the girls having sex young, were pressured into it by guys. older guys.
<33
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Yes, I agree with you. I think that for almost everyone under the age of 18 or so - and that's a ballpark figure - it's not only stupid, but HARMFUL to get into heavy sexual activity. Harmful to their characters, although that's an old-fashioned word and point of view.
It seems to make girls more shallow; they feel as if the one thing that matters about them is how "hott" they are, that they're nothing more than a sexual object. Meanwhile, boys learn to be users, and end up unable to approach a woman in an adult way. Instead their attitudes towards sex seem to be permanently frozen in a juvenile pattern - they can't help but THINK of women as sexual objects.
There are lots of other good reasons to wait until you're older to have sex, but rather than repeat them, I'll just link to them here:
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Now, I'm not saying that it's IMPOSSIBLE for there to be some 16-year-olds out there who are mature enough for a real sexual experience. I'm sure there are; everyone matures differently, and at different speeds. Frankly, there are a lot of 30-year-olds who aren't really ready for sex. :D
But for the most part, it's a lot smarter to wait. Serious sexual activity before full maturity is like eating raw dough; it's not as good as it would have been when it was ready. And it can cast a shadow over your ability to enjoy the real thing when the time is right.
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Amen!!!
I'm with you girl! Whats the point? Most of the guys people do stuff with, will just end up leaving them!!! And don't think you're the only girl who knows what right because there's plenty of us out there!!!
<3
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Hey,
I completely agree with you. Its discusting isn't it? The people who post questions about blow jobs and hand jobs...etc, are probably the same people who post questions a couple of weeks later saying that their pregnant and they dont know if they should keep the baby or not.
People are way too easy today. Girls will do anything to get a guy to like him and i think its totally pathetic. I mean, if your with a boy for a long time and you know he loves you, i suppose maybe you could give him a hand job or something to spice things up. BUT thats not usually the case. Teens go out and give like guys they barely even know bjs and stuff and then they complain when they get called whores...yeah...i agree with you 100%
<33 kayla
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wait till marrige
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Meh, it's a never ending struggle. Thanks Sexual Education ~ For teaching them well.
O' Brave New World With Such People In It.
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OMG! i totally agree with that whole paragraph!! I am so glad some one finally said something about it...madd props to you..
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I most definatley agree. Abstinence is the way to go. I guess lately society has been more...hmm whats the word 'acceptable' of it. I think its wrong. Really, kids having kids? Guess its up to our generation to put a dramatic stop to it. Don't see whats the big rush and why everyone just can't wait until marriage and stuff. Just ruins it all and then its not as fun. Anyways, hopefully something will come along and stop all of this, because 'the talk' didn't, STD scare hasn't either. Something better stop all of it though.
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I definitely agree!!! I tried to find a website but I found none. but I do agree!! good luck!
***Jess***♥
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Agreed.
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I don't like to judge but I can only say that teens at that age shouldn't worry about having sex because they are just teens in my opinion they should worry about more important things like about a having a good career in their future.
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Actually I agree with you here. I think that there are far more important things for teenagers to be worrying about than sex. Also, I like to think of sex as a serious emotional commitment that few teenagers are actually ready for (though they believe that they are). I think that at this age, a lot of kids think of it as just messing around, which really belittles intimate acts when you've found the person you really love. That, and it opens a whole world of emotional issues, as well as possibilities of teen pregnancy and STD's.
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i agree with you all the way. i am 14 and a virgin and i am keeping it that way and i am not planning to change it every soon. if any guy has a problem with it then they can go f**** off because i wopnt loose to a guy thta i am not going to spend a lot of time with. i think that peopel do it from ages 13-16 just to ahve fun and experment and see what it is like. even though they shouldnt do it because of the fact that they can get pregnant and then they would have to drop out of school to take care of the baby or have an abortion and which ever happens guys really dont give a fuck. (most of the time) they like to do it for there own pleasure.
*~Stephanie~*
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I am against Sex at this age as well... but other people's comfert with sex may be different with yours. I agree this is too young, but we can't do anything about it.
Hope i helped! Good Luck!
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I agree with you 100%. I think the only reason teens do this now is because it's the "cool" thing to do. They do this to fit in with other groups and people at school. Then they think just because you have sex with someone you're the cool kid in school. When really, losing your virgin isn't all that it's cracked up to be. I mean it's great if you love the person and you are ready. But you shouldn't have sex just to fix in and that is what some girls are doing. It's sad.
♥ Krissy
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I totally think it is. It's really stupid in my opinion. Especially because teen relationships don't usually last & when they don't. They deny ever doing it & regrets it. It IS stupid.
I think it's especially stupid when someone asks a sexual questions like, how to give a handjob & if they should have sex. It's like if you don't know how to do it, learn on your own. You shouldn't be asking random people whether or not YOU should be ruining your own life. Hah. =)
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i am so with you on this one i agree with you 100% i think it is VERY stupid
♥ theresa
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