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He likes me but i'm not sure
Okay, Hi
Im having a bit of a problem, my friends brother, we'll call him mark, has a MASSIVE crush on me and I'm not sure i feel the same way.. I might a little bit, but definatly not the way he feels about me! I stayed at his house for a few days this summer because his sister is my best friend... or one of them, and i came in looking like myself, i am big on makeup and hair and stuff, but i came out with none, if not hardly and makeup on, a couple zits and limp hair that was a little greasy. I didnt look to good and a week or so later he said that he thinks that im beautiful - not hot, beautiful. On my first night there, my friend fell asleep on the couch and so it was just him and i, we talked for three or so hours and it was so easy to talk to him, and i could tell he was sooo happy he got to talk to just me... im not sure if that means anything but just thought i would share that with you.
Please help, im so confused as what to do!
and i cant ask him out because my friend would kill me!
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First of all, really decide if you feel the same way to this guy. Say you do and u really want to ask him out. Try talking to your best friend first about it before you do anything. Just mention that you and her brother have been getting along really well lately. Start hinting that you two might be interested. Be honest with her and if she's a good friend for ya, she'll understand AND support whatever you two decide to do. Maybe even have her brother talk to her. But there are a ton of ways to work with her. Don't let one person get in the way for both of y'all tho. Hope i helped and good luck!!!
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I understand how you feel! Your friend should understand your feelings with this guy. If shes a true friend she would look past the bad in this relationship and more towards the good. He sounds like an awesome guy, and passing the chance might not be smart. You don't want to regret going out with him but you don't want to regret not going out with him. So its a hard situation. I think the best thing to do is to talk to your friend. I think she's probably afraid your going to spend more time with her brother and forget about her. Write back if you have any more problems with that.. Good luck talking to your friend. And i hope all goes well.
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Well this is a sticky situation... maybe you could get his Screen-Name(if he has one) and talk to him online/or maybe on the phone... and get to know him a little better. like you said you like you think you like him a little bit.. well fi that grows and you do end up likeing him I would sit your friend down and tell her your feelings make sure that this wont intrude on your friendship but you have feelings for her brother and are curious what would happen... Good luck champ!
Stay beautiful, stay you!
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