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ok wow talking about myself feels weird...

uh im 13 and in 8th grade. i guess i give pretty good advice i mean my friends say i do. im in love with my boyfriend and i also am addicted to dashboard confessional, the starting line and new found glory ya i guess thats about it. arent i freakin hot in my pic??
Website: yea...its pretty sweet i guess
E-mail: klutzygrl414@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: boston
Occupation: uh...studnent
Age: 13
AIM: klutzygrl414
Member Since: August 7, 2005
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ok i no that this is not in the friendship categlorie but im really having a hard time trying to find out who i am ... like i change my mind alot about things i like and my friends and i want to be original and kool but i always seem mess up ok well i gotta go but all 5 ratings if you answer good! thanks
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well thats good! trying new fashions and things is good it gives you a chance to find out whats your favorite. so once you find somthing that you really like you will appreciate it more because you know what you went through to find it.
good luck


hiya
recently i feel like ive been loosing my self.
ive beeen moody, snapping at my parents and self harming, ive also been considering suicide because i dont see any reason why i can continue to live. my parents split up about a month ago, im overweight, and i just feel useless. i lost my first love over ago because i realised how much i wanted to be with him after he left. i just dont know what to do any more. im 16/f and i just feel like ive lost my life already. i dream about love falling asleep under the stars with the person i love but i cant find that person to be with.
any ideas why im feeling like this and how i can stop it will get 5's.
thanx
emma
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well teenage years are really hard. i think wat started it is your boy problems and then it all just snowballed. wat you need to do is try and get this guy back and then you'll feel better and be able to have more fun, lose the weight and have a good relationship with your family. good luck!!! your in my prayers!


ok well i might ask out a 6th grader and im in 7th grade and im probably gonna see her maybe 2 times a weekis this a problem? (link)
if it doesnt bother you or her then no, its no problem...if you really like her


13/f Ive played basketball for 5 yaers but this is diffrent i realy wanna make the JV squad and lets just say since last season ended in March ive done alot if couch sitting and junk food eating...what can i do to get back in to shape...tryouts are November 4th (link)
ok well i had the same problem... i got a little out of shapeso i went on two diets. the first was a low carb diet. where all u could eat was meat, veggies and eggs. that took off about .5 pounds a day..but then i tried an easier diet where i ate only fruits and veggies for a month and i lost 20 lbs. it was great

good luck


Is it weird to give a boy a poem in a frame to say goodbye?
If so how else can i give him the poem or somethign else to say goodbye? Something he will remember me by.
Thanx i need answers quick
~Mo (link)
k well it depends on the boy. he might like that or he might think its weird. i dont know him so i cant really tell you but you could also give him a present from you or somthing that he's been wanting for awhile

good luck


Okay, for starters, I'm 30, male.
I've been with my girlfriend for over 6 years, she's such a sweet person and I love her, but you know the excitement of the beginning has faded.

Now there's this girl, she's our common friend and she's amazingly beautiful, she's something special. What's amazing is that she never had a stable relationship although she certainly would like to.
Now I feel something changing inside me, my way of thinking about this other girl; can it be love? I don't really know, because we're pretty different and I don't think we could have a durable relationship, but somehow I feel an overwhelming attraction for her, and I DO know sex with her would be incredible.

Being such a sensitive person as I am, I am going through a horrible time, the only thing positive being my loss of appetite; my gf has noticed it and I and I have more or less dismissed it as a temporary situaton because of work, friends and all (it's been a hard year in those aspects), but she's probably thinking there may be a relationship problem behind this.

Now what to do? Shall I tell her? this could destroy our friendship, and I would really regret that (I guess it depends on how sympathetic and understanding a person you are), but I know I could give her some of the love and attention she deserves... I am also thinking about telling my girlfriend, she deserves sincerity, but who knows where this could bring us... At the moment I am thinking about telling the other girl, just to get it off my chest; she will probably reject me, but keeping it inside is hurting me. Telling my gf is in my mind too, but I'm not sure about it.

I can't help but feel this mixture of love and attraction/lust for her, and it's killing me. I don't believe denying it would rid me completely of her. I guess you can love two people at the same time, though I never thought I'd be in this situation myself. Damn, damn heart... (link)
wow...intense...

ok well first of all if your thinking of telling these girls how you feel then you have to be sure of your feelings. you have to think long and hard about if you tell this girland she rejects you..then your g/f is probly still going to find out and there will be trouble. so think about if having this other girl is worth losing your girlfriend

good luck


my ex juss broke up wit her bf and i realli still like her and her bf was cheating on her how can i get her to be back wit me cuz i still have realli strong feelings for her wut should i do? (link)
ok well right now your girlfriend is probrably really vulnerable. she's sad and confused and mad. do not try to ask her out right now, because she is on the rebound and you dont want to take advantage of her. instead, be a friend to her. comfort and talk to her. she will see how cool and nice you are and then you can ask her out.

good luck


I babysit a 6 year old girl. Is there any fun activities we can do that we will both like to do? Thanks for your answers. I rate good!! (link)
ok well probrably doing nails, watching movies, reading, just make sure you do somthing that she likes before thinking about what you want to do

good luck


i'm 15 and my boyfriend and i have been going out for like a year and a half. my question is:
if your boyfriend has been ignoring you for like a month, but hasnt like hinted anything about breaking up, whut does it all mean?
- confused (link)
ok i know exactly wat you mean. maybe he needs some time apart. i mean you have been going out a while. just give him his space for a little. but if he starts giving you those hints for a brake up or ignors you too long try talking to him. but dont sound mad just talk rationally

good luck


Hey. I'm going into the 8th grade, and I am striving for a 4.0 this year for all 4 quarters and Final. I badly want to get into the Science & Tech program at this highschool I want to go to. In 7th grade, I didn't do as well as I wanted to, and this year I need to make up for that by getting a 4.0 for all quarters. How can I focus more on my school work and manage my time so I'm able to get all 4.0's? Thanks! (link)
well organization always helps. making sure that you know what is due when is a good idea like having a notebook where you can write homework down. and when you are in class focus on the teacher and really try to grasp what they are saying (even if it really isnt that interesting). good luck with that 4.0!


hey,, well my brother has a friend,, his friend is 17 and im 13, joe, his friend and me a pretty tight, and stuff,, i really like Joe but idk if he likes me, and even when his g/f is there, hell look at me alot..his g/f is also 13..but shes ugly and he doesnt like her that much,, so, like, what should i do?? (link)
uh oh...ok well this is kind of laying on this kid joe's shoulders. if he really isnt into his girlfriend then he'll dump her and then you can make your move or maybe he'll ask you out (bonus) but do not, i repeat, do not move in on this guy until that girlfriend is out of the picture. you do not want to be the girl who he's cheating with

good luck


im gonna have a presentation in front of class.. im kinda shy and i was wondering what i can do to overcume my shyness and not be so afraid (link)
o this is a tough one. well u could try the age old way of pretending that people r in their underwear...but that doesnt usually work. i am into theatre and performances so when i go in front of a big crown and i get a little bit stage fright i take a deep breath, count to ten and then i try to find one special person in the audience like a close frind or my mom and i act as if they are the only one there. and just them looking at me and smiling helps me a lot!!
i hope i helped a little

good luck




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