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i'm 15 and my boyfriend and i have been going out for like a year and a half. my question is:
if your boyfriend has been ignoring you for like a month, but hasnt like hinted anything about breaking up, whut does it all mean?
- confused </3
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ok i know exactly wat you mean. maybe he needs some time apart. i mean you have been going out a while. just give him his space for a little. but if he starts giving you those hints for a brake up or ignors you too long try talking to him. but dont sound mad just talk rationally
good luck
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It could mean so many things. The only real way to find out is to ask him. He could be thinking about breaking up with you. He could be cheating on you. He could be really busy. He could be going through tough times that dont even concern you. But you will never know what it is untill you call him and ask him. good luck.
♥ nicole
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It could mean a variety of things: good and bad. But as this is a relationship involving mistakes and emotions, expect the worst.
Because if you don't, it'll be like a slap in the face.
Just because he hasn't hinted doesn't mean he isn't planning on doing anything. Talk to him about it, and see what's really on his mind. But if you do talk to him, be warned that he might find the courage to tell you how he feels.
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Realistically? It could mean that he wants to break up with you, but isn't brave enough to do it in an upfront way.
Of course, it could also mean he's having any one of a million problems. The only way to really find out what's going on is to talk to him. And if he won't talk, then you pretty much have an answer - and you can find someone who will pay attention to you and both talk/listen when you want them to.
Best of luck.
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Try finding out why he might be doing that. Sit him down and ask him why he is ignoring you, find out what's up. Maybe he has something on his mind and he is afraid to get you involved with it? Also because he is ignoring you maybe he is trying to hint at a breakup or maybe he wants to tell you he wants to break up but he doesn't have the guts to say anything so he just simply ignored you, hoping you will get the hint and innitiate a breakup. There are ALOT of possibilities.
Definately ask him whats up though, find out why he is ignoring you.
Hope this helps and you find out whats wrong!
-Ryan
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i think you really need to ask him.. and find out whats going on with you and him.. ♥ Dez
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Dear Confused,
The only way you'll ever gewt an answer is if you ask the question. Take him somewhere and ask him. Maybe you two have grown apart, maybe its time to move on, what ever you do don't suspect that things are over util one of you has actually broken up.
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He has a lot on his mind and hes confused. Who knows what about but you need to talk to him and see whats up. Sometimes it can mean that the feelings might start to change but you never know. Just talk to him and comfort him about it.
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Well the only way to really know is to ask. No one can read minds, and we sure as heck can't tell what's going on with guys when they do the things they do. Maybe he's just stressed and needs some alone time. But you won't know unless you ask.
I suggest you call him, or go to his house one day and ask him what's going on. Don't be too confrontational about it, just point out that you feel like you're being ignored, and you're worried about the relationship. Ask him if he's okay, and if there's anything you can do to help.
Don't accuse him ("You've been ignoring me for a month. What the eff is going on with you?")
Just point out the obvious (to you): "I feel kind of ignored, and it's been bothering me for awhile. I'd like to know what's going on. Is it something I did?"
It's easier to avoid a fight if you're accusing yourself of something instead of him. If you accuse him he'll get all defensive and may not answer your question at all. Just be gentle about it.
I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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Maybe he's going through somthing hard in is life and just needs time to think, but you really need to talk to him about whats bothering him, maybe you can help.
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