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if you talk to a boy online and you never saw him and you love eachother and have soo much in common and stuff, is that considered have a boyfriend even though you have never saw him and stuff?? bc i really love this guy and he feels the sam way but he lives real far away. is this like a boyfriend? and if it is say i went out with him and then i have a boyfriend here, would that be cheating on my online boyfriend?
I RATE SOOOO HIGH!!!
please help me quick!!
signed,
young, curious and in love
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i would not consider a person who you met online , have never seen, etc a boyfriend...apart from it being dangerousous
he might be a 70 year old perv) , its easy to get carried away and think you are really in love, its probably nt love
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Online romances never work out,sorry to disappoint you.
And,to answer your questions..I suppose he has to ask you out or you ask him out to be boyfriend and girlfriend.And you should atleast see a picture of him.Yes,it is like a boyfriend and I suppose it would be cheating if you had two boyfriends...
Good luck,
~Long Lost <3
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it would be cheating if you didnt want him to date. obviously you need physical contact and you cant do that over the internet.
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im in the same situation.. and i question the same thing.. if you wanna talk about it drop one in my inbox. id like someone else to talk about this with. so if yu wanna.. im here ♥
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Look-- people can sound so different online then how they do in person. I used to talk to this girl named Katie, who went to the same school as me. We exchanged screenames so we could chat online, and when we did, she sounded so different when she typed. In person, she is a total jerk, but online she sounded so sweet and nice. DON'T EVER trust the internet, no matter how long you've known the person (believe me, killers are patient). I mean, don't you ever watch the news? People are getting killed every day because of the internet. You'll find a boyfriend if you just be patient and meet someone IN PERSON like at school or something.
Think about this: You'll never hear his voice, be able to hold his hand, stroke your fingers through his hair, kiss him, or even LOOK at him and smile.
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What do you mean you rate SOOO high? The highest you can rate is a five, so yeah.....Find a Real boyfriend.
I am expecting a five by the way.
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its only considered cheating on him if youre actually going with him? has the dude you talk to on the internet actually asked you out?
if he has, are you at a place that he could visit you? and you dont want to go to him, just incase.
if he hasnt, he isnt really your boyfriend.he's just some dude you talk to online,
trust me, i know, i've gone through the exact same thing.
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ya that's considered cheating, but i wouldn't even want one online like that in the first place. there's so many bad peeps online, so he might even be an old man trying to find out info about you so he can kidnap you. even if he is who he said he really was, if you don't know who he is, you've never seen him before, and you've never talked to him in real life before, then what's the point? things like that don't last forever anyway.
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for one... i wouldn't have an online boyfriend if i we're you. Those things never last, and for all you know he could be a 47 year old loser haha. But yeah cheating is cheating.. DON'T do it.
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well for one thing, you never know who could be the other person on the other side, talking to you online. and i personaly think you should meet the guy first before thinking hes your boyfriend...and im kind of so/so on the whole thing about cheating on your boyfriend
xoMickey27xo
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ok first..whatever you do...NEVER GO TO SEE HIM unless you are with a supervised adult. stories of kidnappings and rapes are heard pultiple times a week. stay safe..if you think you are in love then you may be just in lust. be careful who you talk to.
xox danii trust me
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Yes. I happen to love a girl, and I have no idea where she lives, but if you feel the love, it must be true.
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The internet can be a dangerous thing. Some people are just out to find people that are young and naive, so they can mess with their minds. Be careful what you tell people online, and never think that you know someone well enough to tell them anything. (such as your address or phone number.) If you have been talking to this person for a fairly long time, and he seems to have kept the same story, that is a very good thing. My suggestion would be to talk to him online, and only online. Never give out personal information to someone you do not know. It's not safe. I definitely would not suggest you "go out" with this person, simply b/c it's not necessarily a real relationship. More like "cyber infatuation." It's great that you two have a lot in common, but think about it. Wouldn't you rather find someone who you can actually meet and get to know in person? Find someone who has a lot in common with you, who lives 20 miles away instead of 200, or 2,000. I'm sure there is someone. And if you don't find them right away, then just be patient and eventually it will happen. Good luck!
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im in the same exact condition.but my advice to you is if you guys never meet, then u dont exactly get a real relationship untill you meet a guy in person...get to know eachother...u know.but in this case, its not as fun unless you guys meet in person.
*signed*
~*Hope my advice will help*~
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Well sure you can be in love... you dont have to hug and kiss to be going out... althought please be carefull i know this guys might seem harmless, but there are a bunch of sick-o's out there.(I'm not saying what your doing is wrong... i mean HEY my dad met my step mom online, and now they are married and have a new baby^____^). And if you two do decide you are dating it would be considered cheating if you had another boyfriend besides him.
stay beautiful, stay you!
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i dont really see that as a boyfriend if its online cause you dont know what he sounds like you dont know what he looks like and those are important to know about your boyfriend and he can be lieing about the age he is telling you..well i hope you find a boyfriend that you know
hope i helped
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i guess that would be considered a boyfriend..but you have to remember people online can be anyone they want be to because you cant see them. im not trying to put you down either. i dont really think that would be cheating if you have a boyfriend online and a boyfriend where you live because the boyfriend online you can only talk to and the boyfriend where you live you can actually see/hang out with. the boyfriend online is just like a really close friend i guess you can say cause you can tell him anything and you know he wont judge you
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