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hey i'm dani im here to help you with any possible questions about life love friends and whatever else you have on your mind...xox

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can anyone recommend a good reliable music download site? One that is easy to access and I won't have to install a whole bunch of stuff, because I want to be able to access from work or at home. And what is the price range per tune? I'd heard it's roughly $ .99 to $2.50 each?

Thanks :) I'll rate

um napster is 99 cents a song...but if you download bearshare, its nothing
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my BEST FRIEND has been for me since 2nd grade, and i dont want anything to come between us.

last year i went out with a guy, umm lou..sure...and he broke up with me...but ive always been crushing on him since. just crushing...i still flirt with others and stuff, but my best friend..uhh..zoe....nos that i "like" him.
lately shes been flirting with lou alot, and she came out and told me she likes him more than a friend. i was really upset, but she promised me that she wouldnt hurt me by going out with him or anything.
so now she told LOU that she liked him, and im thinking that they are soon going to go out, cuz my other friend came up to me and was like, "do you hate zoe now??" and im like why and their like "oops nvm" and so i think they're gonna go out or already are.
so what im asking is should i just let them go and break my heart..but still have my friend and try to forget about it-or let this situation hurt my friendship and make her realize how bad she really hurt me.
ill rate high nomatter what cuz this is longish...thnx

thats tough but if she does than shes a b****!! i wouldnt trust her evvr!!!!!

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I know you guys arent doctors. And I'm going to go to the doctors soon for a physical. But I have this red thing on the shin of my leg. It's not raised, and it doenst itch. It just seems like dry skin. Pinkish/red. Ive had it for like 2 or 3 weeks. It used to be the size of a dime, now its the size of a quarter. Once again, it's not raised. But I'm just wondering if anyone had the same thing, and that it is. thanks.

um if its line a circle outline then it is probably ring worm my friend had that. they have cream to cure it. but if its not, then im sorry i dont know

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okay well theres this guy lets call him 'jesse' and well i like him. he likes me also. how should i ask him out? should i ask him out or wait for him? he asked for my number the other night. do you think i should wait a while longer and then ask? please help i will rate high!

well flirt with him a little bit. ask him if he's into you. if he says yes then say that you are too. then ask him if he has a gf. if he says no then ask him out. if he likes you then he'll probably say yes!!
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okay.. well i think i started my peroid lol.. okay well .. i had this reddish brown discharge since saturday and now today and yesterday its been pure red.. did i start ? and its only noticable when i wipe and theres alot on the tp.. but none comes out in to the toilet .. can you explain that?

you started...all my friends who have theirs tell me all about it. they say that you dont pee it out, you wipe it out. nastyy i know. and thats the color that it is at first...its ok we all get it
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See I have this really awsome Dad. But I stopped seing him because him and my mom got in a fight. Like not physical. But like swearing. Then that went to court and I am not allowed to see him anymore. I havnt seen him in 5 years. And all my friends at school know him and get to see him and are always talking about how cool he is and I know he is cool but I miss him reallllyyy bad. And I cant wait until I am 18 to see him but I have to. Every night I cry and cry. What do I do? What do I do to stop being depressed. Everyone at school calls me bad names and a girl even sprained my pinky but the teachers dont really care. They just gave her lunch detention for one day. All my friends are like get over it. Dont care what people say. But ever since I strted public school (since 5th grade) people have been treating me like crap every day and it doesnt stop. Its not just the normal name calling, its worse and it has scarred me. I cant take it anymore. Its so annoying and I am a sensitive person but I act tough and just cry when I get home. I have tried to do something about it but they just blame it on me when I am kind to them even when their mean to me. I even got suspended once for no reasen. Well, the person blamed somthing on me and i got suspened for 4 days (in school suspension) plus week of detention. I dont know what to do. Plus my mom verbally fights with me a lot. I dont feel safe anywhere. What do I do? My mom even called me a loser and I suck and said my friends are losers and no1 likes me? HELP!I am a girl and I am 12. HELLLLLPPPPP!

im part of a divorced family too, but i get to see my mom and dad evenly. im so sorry about your situation. i am 12 also and i wouldnt be able to imagine the feelings that you are experiencing. stay strong and pray every night. stop fighting with your mother because that is probably giving you more stress. be all that you can be and dont take any crap from people. my hopes are with you!!
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ok so i have a boyfriend who i met online. he(20years old) lives in england and i(18) live in spring grove, pa,so as you can tell there is a distance problem. can a long distance relationship work?
thanks for any help,
jami

um well whatever you do...dont go visit him, because for all you know he is a 45 year old man hoping to kidnapp and rape you. IF he is lagitt, then long distance relationships can absolutely work, but watch out, dont give him any personal information about yourself. if he ever asks to see you, notify an adult or the police. the police go instead of you to make sure he is lagitamet. be careful...stay safe!!
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I don't really like talkin to my mom and or dad about boys or if have a boyfriend i get sord of embarressed that they will make a big deal out of it and i dont really want them too. Any tips on not to be embarressed or nervous???

well i talk to my mom about lots of things. remember parents are interested in your life because they love you and want to know whats going on in your life mainly to make sure that you are safe. at first i was SUPER nervous to talk to my mom about boys and stuff but now it has come easier...on the other hand i dont like talking to my dad...see my parents are divorced. but in most cases you dont have to, because if your parents are together, your mother usually tells your father everything. let your parents know whats happening...just because they care.
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Hi- Ever since I got my first period almost three years ago I've had a strange depository in my underwear. Im 15 and a female and I don't think that it's a yeast infection because the depository is not "clumps" or "chunks" nor is my vagina itchy, the depository is a white gooey liquid that I always see. I eat healthy and I'm still a virgin. I expected it to go away but Im starting to realise that it may actually be a problem.


help?????

ohh no problems with that its called discharge...it usually symbolizes that your period is a few days away...i learned it in health last year...no worries
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Okay i'm 15 f and I have been going out with this guy (braiden 15m) on and off for about 3 years, and i really like him alot, but recently school started and there were alot of my old friends and peers that got really hot, and last night i was talking to one(kile 14m) on the phone and we were talking about our days and he was like i only saw like 3 hot chicks and i was like one is me cause i'm soo damn cute and he was like well yeah... and i was like Braiden is your bestfriend and he was like well the rest of his friends LIKE you too and i was like wtf do you mean and he was like nevermind... and I'm really confused because i really like braiden, but I also kinda like kile and i dont know what to do... Sorry so long, i rate high...

well love is complicated when you like two different guys. stick to braiden if you really like him and i guess its okay to flirt with kyle for a little while but dont make it too flirty because he might backfire you and tell braiden that you flirt with him. my best bet would be to lay off kyle for a little bit and when he is around you and braiden show him how much you care for braiden...hopefully that will give him a hint that you are in a relationship and that you aren't into cheating!! hope i helped
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ME and my best friend used to never get in fights but lately she is like causing so much drama and like gettin pissed at me for nuthin and i dunno if there is anything i can do to change this.. should i baQ off for a lil while n let her get her issues strait.. or wut?!? please help!!

well i think you should confront your friend and ask her if anything has been bugging her lately. ask her if you have done anything wrong that she is upset with. that once happened to me and my best friend kara...she did something that i didnt quite like and so i ignored her for a little while and picked a couple of fights. since we've worked it out, we've been closer than ever and i love her to death!!! hope this will help x0x
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My boyfriend sits by like all girls in most of his classes, and he always seems to be flirtin with them. It also doesnt help that they're prettier than me. I was wondering if it's normal to feel jealous about this, and if so what should i do? I already tried talking to him about it, and he just kind of blew the subject off saying 'o no we werent flirting', evne though it looked like him and the girls were. Help please!

well of course its normal to be feeling this way. but if you tried to talk about it and he blew it off, then there is obviously something that he doesn't want you to know. confront him again and tell him that if he doesnt listen to you then its over. tell him that if he wants other girls to be in his life, then you wont!!!!!
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Ok, first off if you are reading this and you know your just going to put something everyones going to say, please stop. I really truely need help! Ok, my best friend, lets call her 'Kristina' and me are going out with these 2 guys, lets call them Drew and West....ok well i go out with 'Drew' and 'Kristina' is going out with West! wellll....are relationshiphs with them are very....serious! i mean we love them to death buttt....me and 'west' have been talking online and becoming really good friends! and now...i find myself thinking about him sometimes and thinking about if i was with him and ive also had like 2 dreams about us making out or being together or something like that! andd everytime i think about this i cry and get upset because i dont want this to happen....but i think it is! i really dont have a clue what to do....somebody seriously needs to help me! like please dont send a smart remark please please try and see things from my point of view! act like you were me! ....thanks so much!

ok well i think you should first break up with your boyfriend, because if you like someone else then there is no point in having a bf that you dont love. you are in a tough situation, i mean...should you tell your friend that you kind of have feelings for her bf or keep it a secret...what i would do is tell her the situation and that you are not trying to steal him away from her...you are just feeling this way. if she reacts badly to this understand where she is coming from. appologize and keep everything else to yourself
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okay this is gonna sound gross but i need help. a few days ago i had a sore throat and my stomach hurt (like cramps) yesterday the sore throat was gone but my stomach was worse, like cramps and dizziness sorta. lastnight i kept waking up with diarrhea. i know its gross and all. but like whenever i started to wipe there was a little blood. now this morning i went to the bathroom (just number one) but there was blood. and now in my underwear there is a little blood. am i starting my period or is it because i was sick??? thanks in advance for anyone who tries to help. just only answer if you think you REALLY know. THANKS.

i think you are beginning "it" kind of gross but we will all eventually get it
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Hey
I was wondering..today i ran the mile in 8:47 minutes today. Do u think that is goos, bad or average? just wonderin because our coach didnt tell us. thanks! xoxo

wow!!! i think thats great!!! excellent job!!!

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ok my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 years and he thinks im going to leave him. everyone hes gotten close to has left him but i never will. i dont know how to make him see that i wont. i love him way to much and if i was going to leave him then i would have when he lied to me about something. but its also getting me nervous because i dont know if he wants to take a break or anything, and i dont want to ask because im afraid of his answer. what should i do? please help. i rate.

well, i think you should approach him and ask if there has been anything on his mind he wants to talk about with you. if he says no, simply leave it at that. dont tell him over and over that you wont leave him, but show gestures to him that make him happy.
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so here's the deal. my current ex boyfriend and i broke up after being on a break for almost 4 weeks. we were together for about a year. a month before this all happened my bessie dumped her ex because she wasn't happy with him and because she started to like another guy. so when they broke up, i was there for him -- and while my ex and i were on break/broken up, he was there for me. and i guess he started to like me A LOT. i have a few feelings for him, but i'm not sure if it's just because i miss having someone care about me. so here's the question, would it be wrong if me and him dated after i get over my ex [ which might take me a while. ] or would that be really disrespectful to my bessie ? i'm not sure. we're happy together. but first i need to make sure that what i'm feeling is true -- and not just rebound feelings. and then i need to get over the ex. so my main problem is what do i do about my best friend ?

well i dont think it would be disrespectful...you are broken up!! but ask your friend what she thinks and if she would feel disrespected...

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How can you make yourself believe? Can you write "I Believe In God" a thousand times on a sheet of paper? Because I've been having trouble believing lately.

well only you can decide whether you believe or not. i believe that God is always watching me through good times and bad times and i always remember that everything happens for a reason...good or bad. if you have been experiencing bad things in your life lately, try doing something to help others, god will reward you. try to pray at night. praying will definitely bring back your beliefs.
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How do you know if you believe in God or if you just think you do?

well, beliving in God is like being able to pray. all your prayers go to God and he knows everything that goes on in your mind. not believing in God is such a sin.
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how do i delete songs & photo's from my ipod?

delete them from itunes and then hook up your ipod and they will be deleted.
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