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Lover and friends
Okay i'm 15 f and I have been going out with this guy (braiden 15m) on and off for about 3 years, and i really like him alot, but recently school started and there were alot of my old friends and peers that got really hot, and last night i was talking to one(kile 14m) on the phone and we were talking about our days and he was like i only saw like 3 hot chicks and i was like one is me cause i'm soo damn cute and he was like well yeah... and i was like Braiden is your bestfriend and he was like well the rest of his friends LIKE you too and i was like wtf do you mean and he was like nevermind... and I'm really confused because i really like braiden, but I also kinda like kile and i dont know what to do... Sorry so long, i rate high...
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You should probably stay with Braiden. If you really do like him then you shouldn't be worrying about his friend liking you. If you did hook up with Kile then that might cause some problems between you and Braiden and if you've been dating on and off for 3 years then im assuming you'd want to still be friends with him even if things never did work out between you two. If I were you I wouldn't do anything about his friends. I would do my best to ignore it and let that blow over. hope things work out!
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okay kile deff likes you and maybe you should start with someone new this year cuz if its off and on i dont think its gonna last
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Are you talking about brayden Tucker?!! Yes, well if you are, I know him....
If its a different brayden, I'm sorry I brought it up but anyways, you should know that guys do have alot of thoughts about other girls, just like you might think other boys are cute or hot too. It's part of a normal relationship, but he shouldn't really talk to you about that. it's kind of rude. You should talk to him though. Test his respect for you by having a friend go up and ask him if he would ever cheat on you, or if he would ever dump you just because another girl was hotter. If the answer is yes to either of those, hes not a good guy to be with. Maybe he will mature a little more as he gets older. Just make sure you speak up about this to him and don't let him walk all over you! Also, I think that maybe you should take a break for a while. Kyle sounds like he only wants you and Braiden to break up, and like you said, braiden and you have been on again off again for 3 years, so maybe its time to find someone new.
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My opinion is to stay with Braiden. You seem to really like him and 3 years is a long time! You just seem to have a crush on Kile though. If I were you, I would just flirt with Kile and see if your feelings for him would grow more and more. Don't break up with your boyfriend because you might regret it. Right now you aren't even sure if Kile likes you or maybe he does well I kinda got lost there but anyways..sorry lol. Just stay with him and see if your feelings change. You dont want to loose something good for something that might not work out. I`m sure everything will be okay though! Good luck babe!
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um stay with braiden and i think kile is up to something. i like the title "lovers and friends" by the way lol. <3
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well love is complicated when you like two different guys. stick to braiden if you really like him and i guess its okay to flirt with kyle for a little while but dont make it too flirty because he might backfire you and tell braiden that you flirt with him. my best bet would be to lay off kyle for a little bit and when he is around you and braiden show him how much you care for braiden...hopefully that will give him a hint that you are in a relationship and that you aren't into cheating!! hope i helped
x0 dani--trust me
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