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Okay well my boyfriend and I have recently been having sex through about 3 months and we have been going out for three years. Not once have I had an orgasm, I always have to fake it and I sort of get tired faking it because I want to experience what an orgasm feels like. And I don't want him to give me oral or finger me or whatever, I want to have an orgasm through intercourse. The sex feels good, but there are times when I cant even feel it in me. Does anyone know how I could achieve this?

696969696 jkjk ummm maybe his penis is thin i dont mean to be grosss

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I live in an apartment with my mom. We want to get a cat and the landlady said we can if it doesn't have any claws. We aren't sure if thats ok to do to a cat. I no one other person who has a cat like this and the cat seems happy. What do you think?

declaw it besides it will be best for your forniture (sp?) and it just hurts for a few days also it prob wont run away

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Okay i'm 15 f and I have been going out with this guy (braiden 15m) on and off for about 3 years, and i really like him alot, but recently school started and there were alot of my old friends and peers that got really hot, and last night i was talking to one(kile 14m) on the phone and we were talking about our days and he was like i only saw like 3 hot chicks and i was like one is me cause i'm soo damn cute and he was like well yeah... and i was like Braiden is your bestfriend and he was like well the rest of his friends LIKE you too and i was like wtf do you mean and he was like nevermind... and I'm really confused because i really like braiden, but I also kinda like kile and i dont know what to do... Sorry so long, i rate high...

okay kile deff likes you and maybe you should start with someone new this year cuz if its off and on i dont think its gonna last

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This might sound retarded but- how do you kiss someone's neck?

pucker your lips, licking is good too

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ok im 15 and sometimes i feel like my boyfriend wants me to do more than just making out. But i dont think im ready and i dont want to yet. We've been together for 6 months and some people say thats a long time. But what should i do? is it bad for me to be 15 and not wanna do anything yet? is 6 months along time?

no you donthave to dont feel presured if he likes you then hell wait

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Hey you seem to give good advice....well okay i kind of have a little problem, i have noticed that im becoming kind of self concience.(sp?) I odnt kow how to spell it. sorry. and it sometimes makes me have low self esteem (sp?)sorry if this doesnt make any sense) And i am really starting to become self concience(sp?), like i really odnt liek anything bout my slef, and im just asking if theres anything i can do to change that? sorry if this is a gay question
thanks~

Thanks for the compliment and hah i cant spell either. Okay what would help you raise your self esteam one way to go is to brag about your self. not to others tho they might think your crazy but right it on a sheet of paper pick out the good things you like and then when you feel bad go back and look at them and you might actually be like " well i cant blah but i am really good at blah " hoped i helped

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My boyfriend and me have been going out for like a week or so now and hes 2 years older. What is the farthest we should have gotten by now, im 14 and im just wondering if we are going too fast.

sex......you should have done it by the frist night

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Hey! Ok, I have to give a speech in 2 weeks about the Great Wall of China. We're studying China and you got a list of things you could make your speech about and I picked the Great Wall. You were allowed to have a partner, but only one of my friends is in my class, and she's friends with another girl, so they're partners. I have to give a speech by myself, and I'm so terrified. I've never liked speeches. It's so hard and I always forget what I'm supposed to say, even if I've rehearsed it a thousand times! And to make things worse, it has to be a MINIMUM of 5 minutes. I'm so scared and don't know what to do. Does anyone have any tips on not being scared? And any good ways to memorize a good speech? And also, any good sites about the Great Wall would be appreciated. Thanks so much!

Try not looking at the class but the back walls. Use Index cards so if you forget. Good luck.

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ive gone out with my boyfriend for a while now. and all weve done is kiss once. ive talked to him about it bc i know that he is the type of guy who gets nervous to do those things and is slow like that. i was the one who made the move in kissing him the first time also. anyways we got in this big fight last night about it. it got really bad and we almost broke up. but we made up. he told me that on monday (tomorrow) he was going to start doing those type of things (holding hands, kiss etc.). so i believed him and said okay. but then i started thinking that what if tomorrow he kisses me but then thinks oh i did something so everything is okay again. and then he will stop doing it. so to my question what do i do if things just stay the same after talking to him so many times? do i break up with him?

you are very rude you are presuring him to kiss ect. if he isnt ready you shouldnt make him do that get a life okay honestly

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my best friend is mad at me because i wont break up with my boyfriend because moves really slow and weve been going out for a really long time and weve only kissed once and he is the type of guy who gets nervous to do those types of things. i like him alot so im willing to wait for him to be ready to do whatever. she doesnt think he is the right guy for me. he is a great guy and the only bad part about him is that it takes him forever to give one single kiss. do i break up with him if we dont even kiss? or do i just deal with it and stay with him? and ive already talked to him about it a few times and he says hes trying his best.

you dont even deserve him your lucky he is waiting why dont oyu go to a corner and get fucked by a man infested with STD's

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Ok i have athletics every morning and of course i sweat. Now i am begginging to get these red dots-bumps(they sorta look like tiny pimples i guess) in the middle of my chest or boobs. Does any one else have them? are they normal?? how do you get rid of them?? Its about to be time to wear a bathing suit and i dont want these things!! please help me!

I get thoese to sometimes like last year when i was on basket ball they are from sweating try after you do they athletic thing washing your face and chest and they should go away

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What exactly is elijahs rock?
anyone who has the correct info on it I will rate 5
please only answer if you know it and give me a serious answer please

I think they might be talking abour Elijah Wood (he does rock) but i am not sure

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i hear constantly about 14 year olds having sex... this is scary. what has the world come to? one day people will be having sex at 8 and then people will finally realise there is a problem. i dont see why 14 year olds have sex when they are so young... at 14 i was like, gross, why have sex? i'm 17 now and i am a virgin... i am proud of that and i like it coz guys respect me and i know a guy isn't going out with me for sex. what i want to know is why do girls lose that respect at such a young age? and how young were people when they lost their virginity???
- confused

I congradulate you on not having sex i think alot of it is that they see movies like not another teen movie and things like that and they think they should but thats probably not all of the reasons but honestly they should wait

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I am an 18 year old male. My best friend and I have been talking on messenger and we have both realized that we have extra feelings for each other. She is coming to my college next year to be with me. The only thing is she is bringing a guy who I am pretty sure is her boyfriend. She says she wants to start something when she gets down here but now I'm afraid with this guy coming too that I wont get my chance with her. Should I confront her about this guy and see what she says? Is there anything else I can do? Thank you

Follow your heart, maybe they are just friends. And if she wants to start something then i am pretty sure she doessn't have a boyfriend

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I'm painting my room next weekend. A few years ago when I put up pictures and stuff like that I used glue and nail polish to hold them up. (don't ask) so how will I get the stuff off I tried like dish soap and water but it doesn't work

Use a dish cloth and REALLY HOT water and rub the spot where the nail polish and glue are

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Last night I did my washing but I was really tired so I just dumped it all in without looking to see what went in. Then when I checked this morning, I had found that I had slipped a fur coat into the mix.

Things happen and bada bing bada boom,

The coat feel apart,

Well I'm not that upset about the coat falling apart (a bit but not much) but now all my other clothes that went in that wash have fur all over them. I have tried shaking them off but they are still covered- what would be the best way to get all the fur off easily?

Take a tape roller, or if you dont have one take some tap and go over the things and the fur should come off.

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Theres stains all over my clothes and my carpet (from food and dirt and such). Ive tried using detregent on it but the stains arent coming out. What should I use on it instead?

Shout works really good on clothes. If the stain is set in then buy a tooth brush and put some shout on it and scrub it and put it in the wash but if you just got a stain on it then just put some shout on it and throw it in the wash. I dont know about the carpet thing because i have the same problem hah.....Hope i helped.

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I need advice on how to make cleaning my room fun... it's so boring and i just hate doing it. My room is large, and there is stuff all over it. Any ideas to make cleaning it more fun? and maybe easier? Thanks very much! I'll rate good ideas!

Get cool things like color full picture frams and like a butterfly chair or something that when you see these things you want to make sure people can see them when they come in. That should make you want to keep the room clean.

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i love seeing my room clean i truely do but i hate cleanin it when its messie and i know put it away after you take something out but sometimes i forget and it can be super hard and tips on how i can keep in check on how to keep my room somewhat clean....keep in mind at the age of 13 it can be hard.

Try before yougo to bed to make sure everything is put away so in the morning you can see your clean room and when you come home from school itwill be clean too and then it should be easy to keep it clean. Just make sure everything is put back when you are done with it.

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Im 15/f

Ive posted a question about my ex"friend" recently. (she was a "friend" at the time) She was judging all of my friends and always tagged along and was boring and couldnt continue a conversation. well, on wednesday at lunch time one of my friends gave me a note so i was walking and reading it, and then i hear footsteps next to me and someone dragging their feet, it was that "friend" and she was following me around again without talking..when she came up she didnt even say hi. *shrugs*.

Anyways yesterday we had the same class together and she now has made a new friend in that class (whos racist against me and is trash to be honest) So when she had someone else she pretened like i wasnt there and didnt try to talk to me (which is a good thing) so at lunchtime when she usually follows me around she now hangs out with her trashy racist new friend. After school like at night time she IMed me and said "can you do me a favor" so i made up an excuse and said i was busy.

Today i totally ignored her cause i have other people to hang out with because i always talk to random people cause im not shy. She on the other hand had noone so she hung out with a shy quiet girl that she always judged and said bad stuff about. I sit next to that girl in the class we have after lunch so she told me that my ex "friend" was talking about how she doesnt want to be my friend anymore. (which is SUCH a good thing, finally she got the point)

Anyways sorry this was wrong but i need advice on what to do from now on cause she and her racist friend are in my group in one of our classes.

Okay this happened to me kinda. I was stuck in a group with a gril i hated, but thankfully it was a short project. just make sure she does what she is supposed to do and nothing more than that. If she tries to talk to you say something like while she is asking the question " has anyone seen the glue" or something and try your best to ignor her.

Sorry buti hope i helped youin a way.

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