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ive gone out with my boyfriend for a while now. and all weve done is kiss once. ive talked to him about it bc i know that he is the type of guy who gets nervous to do those things and is slow like that. i was the one who made the move in kissing him the first time also. anyways we got in this big fight last night about it. it got really bad and we almost broke up. but we made up. he told me that on monday (tomorrow) he was going to start doing those type of things (holding hands, kiss etc.). so i believed him and said okay. but then i started thinking that what if tomorrow he kisses me but then thinks oh i did something so everything is okay again. and then he will stop doing it. so to my question what do i do if things just stay the same after talking to him so many times? do i break up with him?
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Your right hes a slow move when it come to doin stuff, but your just gonna have to believe him a lil when he says he will start doin that stuff with you, and if he dont, i dont think you should break up with him, because he'll come around in his own time, its not worth ruining a relationship over.
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look, im not trying to sound mean, but you really need to take it slow. . .you could screw something up BAD!!
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you are very rude you are presuring him to kiss ect. if he isnt ready you shouldnt make him do that get a life okay honestly
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I'm not liking what you said in this question. You're basically pressuring him into kissing and hugging you. Sure, everybody wants to be kissed, but nobody wants to be forced into it, don't you wanna feel like hes holding your hand because he wants to? You probably do. But now, your gonna know that in the back of your mind, "hes only doing this because I am basically making him." If you liked and respected this guy, you would have just waited and would not have cared about the love stuff until he was ready. If you were nervous and scared about something, and was forced into it, you wouldn't like it, trust me. Now, I really think you should apologize to this guy and wait for him, or just break up with him and go for someone that you don't have to have patience for, because what road you're headed down, you belong with one of those guys. So, right now, I am suggesting a break up, but not because he won't kiss you, its because you won't wait for him.
-TheTeenGirl
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The first question you have to ask your self is "Do I like this guy"? If you do then you shouldn't worry about kissing or holding hands.. it's actaully not that big of a deal... The second question you have to ask yourself... "Am I pushing him to hard.. to where he feels uncomfortable?" You just need to give him time maybe he is afraid because he thinks you will just leave him.. and my output on this,You shound't leave him just becasue he is not ready to kiss or anything.. give him time and make the moves on him he will get used to it after a while.. hope I helped
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