ok i saw hitch today and it made me think even more of him! i just can't stop thinking of him. its driving me insane too. what should i do... i mean i really like him but im shy, i think hes shy too but i mean is it crazy that i think of him like evey second?
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? gubblebum answered Monday March 7 2005, 9:44 pm: Believe it or not, everyone goes through this. Most people go through it even more than once. I guess you could call it a stage. I'm not trying to say you don't like him, because obviously you do. I don't know the whole story, but think about it for a second. Can you definately see yourself with him in the later future? Don't go for him too fast, and guess what! The good news is, with us girls, the guys will go for US when THEY'RE ready! So if you think he likes you, wait around, I guess. But I guess what I'm really trying to say is everyone goes through this and you're definately not crazy!!!!!(: [ gubblebum's advice column | Ask gubblebum A Question ]
JadedinNowhere answered Monday March 7 2005, 5:00 pm: it's not crazy, and trick to get something off your mind is to try and focus on something else.. I usually try and write out what I'm thinking and it's like I'm pouring it out of my head and onto the paper.. it helps because I start thinking of other things like school or soccer or what have you. And besides, it's not such a bad thing to be thinking about a guy all the time.. just means it's puppy love.. :P
Claire15 answered Monday March 7 2005, 3:47 pm: I think of the guy I like constantly too, so don't worry it is normal. If you like him this much honey, you have to be brave and ask him out. You will regret it so much if you don't. Alternatively, you could get a friend to do it for you, but this way things might be awkward the first time you see each other after it. Go on, think about how happier you will be if he says yes.
However there is a chance that he will say no, so if your too scared to take the risk why don't you try to find out if he likes you too from one of his mates? This will take longer though, but at least you will get a heads up on what his answer will probably be when you ask him.
In my opinion I think you should just ask him outright. Good luck with whatever you decide to do.
Nightlife_Dreamer answered Monday March 7 2005, 11:32 am: Love is a very mysterious thing in life. Your heart is very crazy because it can determine who to like and not like. Sometimes its not the best decision either, but you cant help it. If you like him and you cant stop thinkin about him, let him know. Never be scared to show your feelings. It's always best to be open when it involves people. Just let him know, overcome your fear and tell him, something might work on it because if you dont you know what you missed or are missing until its actually gone and you have no chance at all. Good luck with your situation and I'm Hopeing for the best for you! [ Nightlife_Dreamer's advice column | Ask Nightlife_Dreamer A Question ]
monkeygirl answered Monday March 7 2005, 12:26 am: Hun If you really like him.. you need to go up to him and tell him or this is going to eat at you for a while... get it out in the open so he knows you reallt like him.. don't tell him you think about him all the time becasue the might just creep him out a little.. but if you feel uncomfortable doing it have a friend do it.. but I'm sure he will think more of you if you do it yourself.. well hope i helped good luck [ monkeygirl's advice column | Ask monkeygirl A Question ]
MummuM answered Sunday March 6 2005, 11:53 pm: It sounds like your mad crushing on this guy, to the point where you're going to fall in love. I think you should really do something about this. Since both you and him are shy, maybe try writing him an e-mail or letter explaining how much you like him. But hun, don't give up a chance like this. You never know. He might feel the same way about you and he's too shy to say something. So go for it and take the chance. He might be a really awesome guy to be with.
♥ Krissy [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
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