Hey guys, I'm new to the site. I love giving advice and you all can feel free to ask me anything. You can e-mail me if you feel your questions are more personal or if you just want to drop me a line! I don't really know how to be "rated" or whatever, but, ummm... I hope you like my advice!!!!
E-mail: gubblebum@direcway.com
Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Age: 13
AIM: ramaynard@mac.com
Member Since: March 7, 2005
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There's this guy I met about a month and a half ago that I really like. When I met him we discovered that we had the exact same interests and my friends kept telling me to go for it, but I didn't want to make the first move. Nothing happened that night but he seemed a little bit interested in me. Then 2 days later he got my screen name from a friend and we talked a little bit. My friend asked him if he liked me and he said he didn't know yet because we had just met. Then a couple days later he told me he wanted to do something with me that weekend and people who are friends with him kept asking me if I liked him. I thought that meant he liked me. We didn't end up doing anything until like 2 weeks ago. So I hung out with him and we completely got along and we had fun. The problem was that he seemed to be more touchy with all of the other girls there than me. I feel a little bit crazy about it, but I really want things to work out with him. So pretty much he keeps saying things to me that make him seem interested and get me excited, but he also says things that make it seem to me like he just wants to be friends. Another problem is he was away for a week and so I couldn't talk to him and then he came home and we haven't talked much since the last time we saw each other. If he had feelings for me he might have gotten over them since it's been so long. How can I tell if he likes me? (link)
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If it's meant to be, it will work out. Give it time. If you really think you should take this seriously, talk to him about it.
Hope I helped!
Sorry mine wasn't that long, I kindda have to go!!!
gubblebum
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i want to re dedicate my self to the lord but i need helping makeing my way up becoming a better christian...i have tried to read the bible but i need an easier way to understand...can anyone help me (link)
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Well, I think that's great and I really want to help. I'm not going to go all "sweaty double-chinned southern-accent preacher" on you, but I will tell you this:
1) Church. This doesn't mean you have to go to church to be a Christian, it just means... Well, church can be a big help, especially when you can worship with groups of people just like you.
2) Try the New King James Version Bible; it's really easy to understand and gives plenty of explanations at the bottem of each page.
3) Prayer. Nothing works better than that.
I'll be praying for you, too! (:
gubblebum
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I am interested in substances that can be smoked to get high/stoned that aren't already known drugs. I have done some research and have read about smoking banana peels and tea but I want to know about other things that can be smoked with good results. (link)
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You said it, Natt. Smoking = bad results for all of us. No offense, but if you aren't wanting to smoke these things... Why should you know anyway?
Good luck (on NOT smoking),
gubblebum (:
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okay well i used to like this kid matt, and he found out but we didnt make a big deal out of it. it was around christmas. now its like 3 months later and im starting to like him again. he doesnt know.. but it seems like he wants to be with me alot more. he is always volunteering me for things in school, like today in math we did this thing with judges ((dont ask)) and he was like.. she would be good at it!! and i was like.. but i dont like to talk.. and he was like.. shut up you love to talk you talk to me all the time.. and then at lunch he kept looking at me and whenever our eyes met he would smile at me. im not sure if i should tell him or not. (link)
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Oh my gosh! That is SO cool. I can't say for sure that he likes you, but I can definately say he's a sweet guy. (: I don't blame you for liking him!!! Okay, onto advice: Ahem! Okay. If you want him to know how you feel, go for it. There's nothing stopping you. However, if you're doubting that he might not like you or something, you should stop and think about what's happening. Do you think he would understand if you told him? Is he the kind of friend that would start avoiding you if he knew you liked him? If so, maybe you should hold it off? I don't know, it all depends on the situation. But in this case, I would definately go for it. He sounds like a sweet guy. (:
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i know alot of girls probably do this.. but i always compare myself to models and girls who i believe are prettier than me.. im always putting myself down and looking in the mirror finding everything thats wrong with me and wishing i was perfect like other girls I know... does anyone else do the same.. how do you get over it (link)
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Believe it or not, EVERYONE does this. They may not realize it, but everyone, whether it be hardly ever or all the time, wishes they could look a certain way or whatever. And you know what? There's always going to be someone who you think is prettier, smarter, cooler, or nicer than you. Know what else? That's not a bad thing. You are beautiful in your own way, and you don't need a mirror to tell you that. There's no reason you need to look like the girls on TV, because no one does, right? Be happy you're the way you are. Appreciate the fact that there are other girls who would give their right arms to be half as pretty as you! Most of all, don't let others tell you how you should look. Just because a celebrity is as thin as a toothpick and blonder than who knows what doesn't mean you have to be! Well, I hope my "novel" (lol) didn't bore you too much! (:
Good luck,
gubblebum
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okay.. i have gone to everyone i could.. and nobody helped me.. so im coming here...
okay... well.. i met this guy.. and hes really nice.. and hes 17 and im 16.. okay.. well.. me and hm started hanging out... and the other nite.. we were gunna go to a party together.. and.. well.. lets just sae.. we didnt make it to the party.. we hung out in his car for about 4 hours.. well.. im so confused... i dont know what to do at all... like.. i know i care for him but i dont want to go any farther with him because he probably doesnt care about me like i do about him.. and im so confused!! please help! (link)
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If you don't feel like he likes you the way you like him, then I wouldn't suggest you "keep going." Obviously, doubt is NOT a good sign. Ask yourelf, how long have I known this guy? Has this happened to me before? If this HAS happened to you before, you should know what to do. This happened to a friend of mine and she ended up getting screwed. Some guys like this go in for what they want and back out when they find an easier girl. So don't offer him anything, and if he stays there, good for him. I can't promise you something good will come out of this, but if you resist for a while, it will end up for the best.
Hope that made sense!
Good luck,
gubblebum Ü
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All of my freinds and even people that arent my freinds are convinced that I'm rich and spoiled. I am defeintly not rich but my family has money. Every time I go shopping, or get somthing new they call me spoiled or rich. Its really annoying and they say it in a mean way and they wont stop. How can i get them to stop saying that? (link)
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Wow. Talk about rudeness!!! (: Look, you can't let people tell you how it is if they don't know how it is. This is true insanity! lol But hey, whether you're "rich" or not is none of their buisness, and if they're so concerned about your money, how are they your friends? If you think these people are your true friends, tell them how you feel and they should listen. If not, they're losers, and who needs them? I know it's easier said then done, but it works, and it's a good way of getting rude people out of your circle. They can say whatever they want, but you know you're not spoiled, so you shouldn't have to worry about it. Hope this helped! Ü ®
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ok i saw hitch today and it made me think even more of him! i just can't stop thinking of him. its driving me insane too. what should i do... i mean i really like him but im shy, i think hes shy too but i mean is it crazy that i think of him like evey second?
PLZ HELP! i rate high
*me (link)
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Believe it or not, everyone goes through this. Most people go through it even more than once. I guess you could call it a stage. I'm not trying to say you don't like him, because obviously you do. I don't know the whole story, but think about it for a second. Can you definately see yourself with him in the later future? Don't go for him too fast, and guess what! The good news is, with us girls, the guys will go for US when THEY'RE ready! So if you think he likes you, wait around, I guess. But I guess what I'm really trying to say is everyone goes through this and you're definately not crazy!!!!!(:
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well i have this friend and she is all nice and stuff around me...but when another person is around us shes different...for example today we went to abercrombie and i grabbed this shirt and she said she didnt like it...but then when my other friend came and said she liked it, she changed her mind...what should i do about it? (link)
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Clearly your friend is trying to please her other friend. If that made any sense... (: I know I have caught myself acting this way in the past, and I discovered that it's actually really easy to act this way. It may not even be her problem. Don't be too suspicious about her, especially if she's never acted this way before. Remember, when people are being "followers," it's the leader that they're going after. It could be the other friend causing her to act that way... You never know. It's rude to act like that, and if she's a good friend, she'll understand how you feel if you confront her with pure sincerity. Hope this helped!
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13/middle school
I don't know how to talk or start a convo with a boy (mainly a boy I like). Can someone please tell me ways to talk or start a convo without sounding like I like them? I am always so shy nd nervous so I really need help. (link)
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Well, I'm not an expert, but I do know that you should treat this person as you would treat any other person. Like the other day, me and a few friends were hanging out. One of thos friends happened to be a guy I liked. I just started talking to him by saying, "You have really small feet! What size do you wear?" And that may sound lame to you, but it worked. We've been talking a lot more since then and he still doesn't have a clue how I feel about him! Just don't make it obvious, and don't make it a big deal. Remeber, he's a regular person, and you should be able to start a convo with him the same way you would anyone else! (:
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