There's this guy I met about a month and a half ago that I really like. When I met him we discovered that we had the exact same interests and my friends kept telling me to go for it, but I didn't want to make the first move. Nothing happened that night but he seemed a little bit interested in me. Then 2 days later he got my screen name from a friend and we talked a little bit. My friend asked him if he liked me and he said he didn't know yet because we had just met. Then a couple days later he told me he wanted to do something with me that weekend and people who are friends with him kept asking me if I liked him. I thought that meant he liked me. We didn't end up doing anything until like 2 weeks ago. So I hung out with him and we completely got along and we had fun. The problem was that he seemed to be more touchy with all of the other girls there than me. I feel a little bit crazy about it, but I really want things to work out with him. So pretty much he keeps saying things to me that make him seem interested and get me excited, but he also says things that make it seem to me like he just wants to be friends. Another problem is he was away for a week and so I couldn't talk to him and then he came home and we haven't talked much since the last time we saw each other. If he had feelings for me he might have gotten over them since it's been so long. How can I tell if he likes me?
goodcookie910 answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 9:38 pm: he likes girls that are willing to do something with him and if you arn't that kind of girl then you arn't meant to be with him ! but if you are u need to make the first move ! the mixed signals are just things guys do to get you thinking ! [ goodcookie910's advice column | Ask goodcookie910 A Question ]
NYC_baby answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 9:06 pm: you should ask him if this is concered a date if he says no then ask him out if he says yes well i think you know the answer to that [ NYC_baby's advice column | Ask NYC_baby A Question ]
gubblebum answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 6:19 pm: If it's meant to be, it will work out. Give it time. If you really think you should take this seriously, talk to him about it.
Hope I helped!
Sorry mine wasn't that long, I kindda have to go!!!
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