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I want to give people advice. I found out that I am very good at that. I give my friends advice at school not knowing it would actuly work but it turnes out they always came up to me and thanked me for the great advice. I drew that picture it is A self portrat of me. PLEASE ASK ME FOR ADVICE!!!
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How do I get people at school to see the real me? Everybody judges me except for my friends. I love listening to hip hop and rap and people are give me a weird look when I tell them I just got the new 50 cent CD or whatever. They also drop there jaws when I cuss. They say, "Wow..I never knew you cussed! I thought that was against your religion or something!" Just because I'm a christian doesn't mean I try to be perfect or anything...I am just like everybody else. And people also think that I am really reserved and I'm not AT ALL! I'm very gregarious and open..at least when I'm around my friends. They see the real me but most people just judge me. What can I do so that people won't be so judgemental? I was thinking that maybe it would help if I was a little more talkative at school w/ people who aren't necessarily my friends so people can see my other side. It just really pisses me off when people judge me this way!
hey, i am a christian i cuss and listen to hip hop and rab the same as u do. people were doing the same thing to be bacause i was a christian and im white. as i started to hang around other people they started to see me differentlynow try hanging around the people that do that are being judgmental. once u try it out wright me back and tell me what the results are.
I HOPE IT WORKS OUT FOR U
Well for the past year and a half or so, we've been working on re-decorating my bedroom. Right now I have one of my bedroom walls a hot pink colour and the rest are white. I wanted to accent my room with lime green, so that there wasn't so much pink. I'm painting my closet doors in that sublime green colour with hot pink stripes down the middle of each of them, but I wanted to add more green into my bedroom. My idea was to put some sort of design in the corners of my walls like right at the top where the corner of the two walls meet the ceiling. My only delema is, I'm stumped as to what design I should use in those corners. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what the design should be in the corner? I'm open to any ideas! Thanks!
if that were me in that case i wouldent do a desin in the coners no effance i would leave the one wall pink and paint the other 3 walls green when it was dry i would take the pink and paint a preaty fat horizontal stripe through the middle of the green walls i've a room like that (different colors) and it looked great but unfortanilty she changed it because it has been like that for 4 years
ok.. there is this guy that i like named ryan. For the past 2 weeks, everyone has been telling me that he likes me. Well i didnt believe them so i said i didnt like him. Then ryan found out i didnt like him, so 3 days ago he told one of my friends i was hott and he liked me but didnt want to go out with me anymore. Last night at church, he wouldnt even talk to me. I said hey to him and he ignored me. Then after church we was all outside and jordan asked bj a question about me and he was like "i dont know adn i dont care right now". I havent done nothing to him, but he found out that i still like my ex. Also there is this guy name murphy that used to like me but i never liked him(we were just good friends, not no more tho, i hate him now!!). Well murphy has been telling everyone that i like him and i dont!! Bj now thinks i like murphy and he thinks murphy likes me. So he is mad at me and wont talk to me. What should i do?
You should straighten things out with Murphy and tell him that were not going out and to tell people that were not. then you should go up to Ryan and tell him that im not going out with Murphy and that I like you. you shouldent be ashamed to tell a guy that you like him. he might even ask you out if you dont ask him out when you tell him that you like him
hey .. i have a good friend of mine and she wants to kill herself because her and her boyfriend broke up .. and i dont know waht to say to her to make her not kill herself .. like i've said pretty much everything possible and i just dont know waht to do .. nothing i say will make her realize that hes not the only guy and all .. i really need help like asap .. !!
-- ash
usually anyone that tells someone they are going to kill themselves dont even try its usually the person that doesnt tell anyone they are going to kill them selves that you have to worry about tell her its pointless to kill herself over a stupid guy Shell find other guys and get over this one Make sure you are there for her to talk though because she really needs someone to tell her feelings to.
Ok well there is this girl that i go to gymnastics with and she has been coming to gym with bruises and marks all over her legs. I've asked her many times to tell me what happend and she told me 'nothing!' and i keep asking her the same question and even the coaches ask her and one time the coach asked her if she fell and she said 'yes' but then she told me she lied to him! I think her parents might have abused her because shes very quiet and timid and if u tell her not 2 tell anyone, SHE WONT!(even my dad thinks so) I'm really scared for her so please help! How can i make her tell me the truth?
i dont think you can make her tell the truth but you can go to the Councler/police/child abouse and tell them what the problem is and all shes told you. I cant belive that out of all the questions people has asked me and all of the things that the same thing has happend to me this is a problem that only my friend has well neways i went to the police because every day during our swimm meet she would come with at least 1 or more scratches or bruises on her arms and legs. i would ask her and she said it was nothing but then she lied about it to the swim instructor and thats when i went to th police about it and it turens out that her dad was abusive and she thanked me for going to the police for help she has allways said how shw wished she could never see her dad again now every day for the last year she has came to school with a smile on her face
i have this friend and she's like my best friend here at this school i just moved to, and like she knows everything about me and what not. but like recently i've noticed that she's been copying me, like everything and it's really annoying. i mean she's super nice but also shy so i don't know how to tell her this. like my handwriting is my handwriting like it's your thing and i like my handwriting it's actually nice but i've noticed that she started copying the way i write like my n's and h's and t's! like it really bugs me! she also copies the way i hold my hands while walking and she's starting to say things like i do!i always say holy crap like as an expression and she says it too! Like before i came here she seemed to have friends but like when i became friends with her she seemed to be attached to me and i'm like the "leader" of the two of us! isn't she the one who's supposed to show me around and tell me stuff...not me? i made new friends and like i have a lot more in common with them then the ones before that i ate lunch with, with my bff, but when i went to eat lunch with my new friends she wanted to follow, like i didn't want to say no but i didn't want her to come, i know that may seem mean but like the two groups don't mix, but she came and she started comming everday so then everyday up to this day we eat lunch with my new friends but everyday she seems depressed when we eat lunch with them. she's very insecure it seems and it seems like no one really treated her as a real like member of her group before i came, like she even told me that i was the one she was the closest to in all of that table, but i'm like didn't she hang out with them for like five years...shouldn't she be good friends with at least one of them? in the beginning of the year i remember someone mentioning that she was copying them before i came. so how do i tell her that i need some space. or do i even tell her? i mentioned to my new friends that i wanted to hang out with them but being with my bff hasn't let me...sorry this was extremely long. (i have never been the "leader" of a group, we were always all equal and just had fun, and we mostly weren't shy between ourselves! AND i've noticed that i've started to become like her more and it's not the good things, the way i walk like she walks really fast because she's insecure/shy and seems like shes in a hurry all the time and i've started to do that too!) how would i deal with this situation?
try going up to her and tell her that it is getting on your nerves for her to be copying you if she says shes not then give her some examples. dont be to mean or to nice about it either
Hey, i'm a 15 year old black girl and at my high school if your a certain color, you are expected to like certain things and listen to a certain type of music.Well i'm not like that i listen to "other" music.And when i say other music i mean stuff liken green day and maroon5 and stuff like that.Also some of the stuff that my caucasion friends talk about i can identify with and some of the more preppy clothes they wear i like.i'm afraid to tell my friends this because i am afriad of their reactions.what should i do?
i think you should tell them n-e-ways because it is hard to live a lie about my sefl if they dont care that is a good thing but if they do care than you should tell them that is how god made me and you shouldn't care cuse everyone is made a certain way
there is this boy at school i like and iv notcied that he is always starring at me. none of my friends know about this crush and was wondering what i should do can you help
-Calyn
i think you should at least tell your best friend so you can get it out for once then take it one step further and ask him out you never know till you try
okay well i just wrote a question about going on a diet togain weight since im only 100 pounds... well i was jw... but do guys prefer girls that are skinny... or girls of average weight??
its hard to say i think it depends on the guy im not a guy so i cant answer that ? sorry but i did my best. as a girl i dont care about their size.
There's this guy I met about a month and a half ago that I really like. When I met him we discovered that we had the exact same interests and my friends kept telling me to go for it, but I didn't want to make the first move. Nothing happened that night but he seemed a little bit interested in me. Then 2 days later he got my screen name from a friend and we talked a little bit. My friend asked him if he liked me and he said he didn't know yet because we had just met. Then a couple days later he told me he wanted to do something with me that weekend and people who are friends with him kept asking me if I liked him. I thought that meant he liked me. We didn't end up doing anything until like 2 weeks ago. So I hung out with him and we completely got along and we had fun. The problem was that he seemed to be more touchy with all of the other girls there than me. I feel a little bit crazy about it, but I really want things to work out with him. So pretty much he keeps saying things to me that make him seem interested and get me excited, but he also says things that make it seem to me like he just wants to be friends. Another problem is he was away for a week and so I couldn't talk to him and then he came home and we haven't talked much since the last time we saw each other. If he had feelings for me he might have gotten over them since it's been so long. How can I tell if he likes me?
you should ask him if this is concered a date if he says no then ask him out if he says yes well i think you know the answer to that
When does the "cycle" usually become regular?!?! Mine keeps coming at random times and now, it's not coming at all! The last time I got it was February 24???
you might be preginet not to scare you but it usilly comes evey month (24 days or so) at the same time of month like mine comes at the end/begnning of the month.
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im dating this guy its gonna be 2 years soon...but hes really jelous like he always think im flriting with every guy i talk to..and i had this best friend we'll call him tyler..well since me and my boyfriend are fighting alot about the flirting thing im hanging arould tyler more and i think im starting to like him more than a friend but i still love my boyfriend and im extremly confused..i need some help fast!
thanks if ur advice isnt mean ill rate all 5's
try taking a break from your boy friend that always helps me. i have been dating the same guy for almost 3 years!
i wash my face twice a day (once in the morning, once at night) but after i was my face it gets really shiny. and its really noticable (a few people have asked me why my face is so shiny...which is really embarrasing.)....is there any product that wont clog my pores but will make my face less shiny?
thanks.
i have the same problem! try washing your face only befor you go to bed and take a shower in the morning NOT puting soap on your face to wash it just let the water do its magic.
I'm 15. I met my boyfriend (alias Jake) through a really close guyfriend of mine that is also good friends with him. They live 2 hrs. away; he can drive, I can't, I see him twice a month on average. I love Jake dearly, I have for the past 5 (give or take) months, but sometimes I feel as if he doesn't think I love him as much as he does me. It's like he really and truly thinks I'm too good for him, which is totally untrue (I'm not-I actually cheated on him a couple of months ago;I didn't mean anything by it, but I was really bad for doing it). Jake's the kind of kid that will let me win all little arguments before they turn into fights because he loves me too much to make me unhappy. I am crazy about Jake, and I need advice on how to let him know and believe it! He's probably tired of all the lyrics I send him, his are much better. I'm going to see him this weekend in a play. PLEASE give me some ideas!
sit down and tell him how much you love him and that you would never want to hurt you and thats whi i want to tell you that...
On Friday my school is having talent show auditions. The problem is we were notified on Friday of this. So this gives my friends and I almost no time to get a decent act together. We were planning on dance but we cannot because we are always busy and if we want a good dance it would take several days to make up. I play the piano and can sing but I am not the best at either. I also play the clarinet but without other insturments it would sound too swqueaky. So my question is what should I do for the talent show? Should I try and get a dance together, play piano, or sing? Or should I just play the clarient? Thank you for your help.
if your friends take a music class with you you could play a piece of the music you've played in class.
if you shave the hair off your armpits, will you sweat more or less? and will you still sweat? i'm a person who has hyperhydrosis. i heard of certain dri. i live in canada, ontario-toronto. i can't find it in any of the drug stores. if you live there and use certain dri can you tell me which mall or drugstore you got it from? thank you very much
if your a girl shaving the hair off you arm pits than you wont sweat as much in that area. unfortunately i dont know were to find any thing to help your hyperhydrosis problem sorry.
Hi, I'm going on a vaction in 3 weeks and I was woundering if you could loose 15 pounds in that short amount of time. If so can you please tell me what exercises to do.
I probly could cuse I've done it befor all you have to do is run for a good amount of time with out stopping and do a few situps every day.
ok i had a best friend rachel and we were the bestest of friends then one terrible day she moved and we kept in touch but then she moved to indianna and she never called when she was in indianna and me and her havent called eachother since (we werent mad at eachother) i miss her so much i had a dream i met her again, and i was crying when i found out it was a dream i need help please! i will rate 5's on advices that arent mean!
Try to for get that she hasnt called you and make a new best friend.