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My Long Distance Relationship Is Too Good For Me


Question Posted Tuesday April 5 2005, 6:15 pm

I'm 15. I met my boyfriend (alias Jake) through a really close guyfriend of mine that is also good friends with him. They live 2 hrs. away; he can drive, I can't, I see him twice a month on average. I love Jake dearly, I have for the past 5 (give or take) months, but sometimes I feel as if he doesn't think I love him as much as he does me. It's like he really and truly thinks I'm too good for him, which is totally untrue (I'm not-I actually cheated on him a couple of months ago;I didn't mean anything by it, but I was really bad for doing it). Jake's the kind of kid that will let me win all little arguments before they turn into fights because he loves me too much to make me unhappy. I am crazy about Jake, and I need advice on how to let him know and believe it! He's probably tired of all the lyrics I send him, his are much better. I'm going to see him this weekend in a play. PLEASE give me some ideas! <3

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PsycoSkitz21 answered Thursday April 7 2005, 11:58 am:
Showing up to the play will mean a lot to him. There's no certain advice to say. Cheating on your boyfriend, while they really love you, isn't a good thing to do. Just think of all the times he's come down to visit you!!! Jake sounds genuine. Just treat him with respect, and hopefully things will work out!!! have fun at the playyy!!!

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kristina24 answered Wednesday April 6 2005, 4:20 pm:
Tell him exactly how you feel. Tell him you love everything about him and your so lucky to have a bf like him.

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karenR answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 11:13 pm:
You know long distance romance is really hard. It will be hard for you to make him understand anything you say simply because he isn't there to see you all the time.

You just keep reassuring him. There isn't much more you can do. Seems like you keep in touch and everything already. Maybe you can try and encourage him to come and visit more often. It will probably be easier once school is out. :)

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goodcookie910 answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 9:18 pm:
tell him straighbt up how you feel! tell him that ou are not too good for him and you love him more than he could ever imagine!maybe dont bing up the cheating thing unless it is necasary...it may cause problems!haha just let it all out! tell him everything! it will only make you two closer!

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NYC_baby answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 8:55 pm:
sit down and tell him how much you love him and that you would never want to hurt you and thats whi i want to tell you that...

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milliethu answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 8:36 pm:
if u love him, tell him. get him alone and say "u know jake, i have no clue what i would do w/o u. i love u" then kiss him. he should get the message. hope i helped

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