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5's to anyone with good advice!!
okay.. i have gone to everyone i could.. and nobody helped me.. so im coming here...
okay... well.. i met this guy.. and hes really nice.. and hes 17 and im 16.. okay.. well.. me and hm started hanging out... and the other nite.. we were gunna go to a party together.. and.. well.. lets just sae.. we didnt make it to the party.. we hung out in his car for about 4 hours.. well.. im so confused... i dont know what to do at all... like.. i know i care for him but i dont want to go any farther with him because he probably doesnt care about me like i do about him.. and im so confused!! please help!
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If the guy wants to just hook up with you than he's probably not really nice... Guys like that love to break hearts! Happened to my friend a few months... :( Well it sounds like you aren't comfortable with the guy, so I think you should tell him you just want to be friends, with out any benefits... Good luck!
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If you don't feel like he likes you the way you like him, then I wouldn't suggest you "keep going." Obviously, doubt is NOT a good sign. Ask yourelf, how long have I known this guy? Has this happened to me before? If this HAS happened to you before, you should know what to do. This happened to a friend of mine and she ended up getting screwed. Some guys like this go in for what they want and back out when they find an easier girl. So don't offer him anything, and if he stays there, good for him. I can't promise you something good will come out of this, but if you resist for a while, it will end up for the best.
Hope that made sense!
Good luck,
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i think u should talk to him n ask him wats going on...ask if it can be somthing more or it was just a one night stand...maybe he cares about u...u never know untill u ask...hope i helped!
ally
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well i know this is hard, but you need to talk to him about how you feel. chances are, he probably feels the same way about you. i mean, me myself and other guys i know probably wouldnt spend 4 hours in a car with a girl if we werent interested in her in the least bit. talk to him about how you feel, or hang out with him a few more times to see how you feel.
zack
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it sounds like youre not really comfortable with the relationship you guys have...so i wouldnt suggest that you keep it going. maybe you should just try to not let yourself get too attatched...i wouldnt tell him how youre feeling about this bc if he is really just in it for ass, then he'll sweet talk you and make you think he really cares, even if he doesnt. just keep your gaurd up..dont give him an easy hit and see if he sticks around. thats the only way you'll really know if he cares! good luck! xo
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